How should I suggest that my ex boyfriend is getting back together with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-17
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    1. Give the other person time and space to calm down.

    When they first broke up, there was an element of anger in both parties, and neither of them might be willing to bow their heads to anyone, although they had remorse in their hearts at that time, they would not show it in front of each other. During this time, it is better for both parties not to disturb each other, and give each other enough personal space, so as to think clearly about what they want, and whether it was right to do so in the first place.

    2. Strive to improve yourself.

    During this time, don't just bask in the sadness of falling out of love, you have to believe that as long as you both have each other in your hearts, you will definitely come together again. So, during this time, all you have to do is to work hard to improve yourself, learn what you love, participate in more social activities, and let the other person see a better you. Something new always has a unique attraction to people, and when you stand in front of him with a new self, he or she will definitely shine in front of her.

    3. Reflect on your own shortcomings.

    If you want to get your ex back, then you must think about what shortcomings your ex doesn't like, you can recall the mistakes that the other party said intentionally or unintentionally when you were together in the past that you wanted you to correct, and then do your best to correct it, and find a way to let the other party see your determination to change for him, such as posting on Moments.

    Wait. 4. Take the initiative to contact the other party.

    After going through the first three steps, I believe that the other party has changed their opinion of you, and it is likely that he or she also regrets breaking up with you in the first place. Therefore, at this time, as long as you take the initiative, contact each other more, care more about each other's life, health status, and so on. When appropriate, ask the other party to come out to relax, and say that you still have each other in your heart, hoping to continue to walk together, I believe that at this time, as long as the other party can't let go of you, then you will definitely be able to continue the edge.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What was the reason for the breakup in the first place, and who proposed the breakup. If you propose to break up, you can directly contact your ex-boyfriend to express reunion, if the man proposes to break up, it is estimated that you propose to get back together, and the possibility of getting back together is relatively small. Don't contact the man, just post late at night to talk about it, and it is not necessary for your boyfriend to see what you say.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Direct communication will do the trick. Since you want to get back together, you don't need to hint at it, otherwise you will probably miss it, or you will miss it if you don't work hard. Just tell him that let's get back together together, I don't want to be separated from you. And then let's see what he thinks.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How should I suggest that my ex-boyfriend is back together with her? I look at the road to see your situation, if your boyfriend doesn't like you, I think it's better to give up, if your boyfriend likes you, it's very simple, WeChat** has it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is it necessary? It's already "Before", and there are naturally irreconcilable contradictions when breaking up.

    Forget it.

    Even if you barely get back together, there are indelible cracks in your heart! It doesn't ...... for a long time

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should take the initiative and appear in front of your ex-boyfriend or in your head.

    and take the initiative to show favor to her ex-boyfriend, such as asking him for help, eating and watching movies, etc.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If Ace and her ex-boyfriend get back together, I think you must pay attention to the ways and means, you come out of that relationship, and it should be particularly dangerous to go in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Or take the initiative to show favor to your ex-boyfriend, such as asking him for help, eating and watching movies, etc., and then look for opportunities.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    How old are you and how long have you been in a relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you have an idea, go chat and hint.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After two people break up, it doesn't mean that there is no more possibility between you. If he still loves you and you still love him, then what if you say something about breaking up? It's a big deal to get back together, in front of true love, what is face?

    The point is that sometimes he obviously wants to get back together with you, but because of the problem of face, he doesn't tell you directly. What are the manifestations of the ex-boyfriend's hint of reunion? For women, what should you do when you encounter this kind of ex-boyfriend who wants to get back together but doesn't talk about it?

    If a man regrets breaking up with you, he will try to get you back again. Of course, at this time, there will be many people who are embarrassed to say it directly because of the problem of face, but he will give you all kinds of hints to test your attitude and make you tacit.

    He will greet you on WeChat from time to time, even if it is just some ordinary opening remarks, even if it is some innocuous topics, he will continue to communicate with you. Sometimes you can even feel that he is running out of words, whenever a man does this, he must be thinking about some things in his heart, for example, he is thinking about how to propose that we reconcile, for example, he is not confident enough that you will accept his request to get back together, so he will test your attitude again and again on WeChat.

    If your ex-boyfriend wants to get back together with you, then he will never let a second man pursue you by your side, he will be jealous, and he will be wary of those of the opposite sex approaching you. Although he has no jealous stance, he will still make the last struggle and effort in order to get back together with you.

    When you meet such an ex-boyfriend who wants to get back together with you, what a woman has to do is to follow the truest voice in your heart, if you still can't let go of him, then what if you give your relationship a chance to start over? If you have already uprooted him from your heart and eliminated him, then you might as well make it clear to him that he will not continue to pester you and stop wasting time on you.

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