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In fact, some things can be done quietly first, and then publicly, if you really don't want to lose the child (it's best not to kill the child casually), you can get a marriage certificate first, this does not require the consent of their parents, you can agree, and then when the child is born, you can also go to the household registration, the name is right, and when the child comes out, they will have nothing to object, during this time, you have to be kind to his parents.
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Your conditions are the same as ours ... My wife is also a year older than me and is a tiger She is also very small and only 155 I am 176 At first, my parents didn't agree But how could it be screwed up on me Still accept it Love House and Wu Ma Now my parents like my wife very much Hehe This is my story.
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Summary. 1.It's true to say how you two feel.
It stands to reason that parents will not object to the true affection between their children. 2.Parents want their daughters to find a good boyfriend.
You can tell your parents about your boyfriend. 3.You tell your parents that no matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, you will overcome them together.
Parents are afraid that you will meet someone who is afraid of difficulties, and they are worried that you will face it alone in the future. So that's something you and your boyfriend have to promise.
1.It's true to say how you two feel. Logically speaking, parents will not carry their true feelings for their children.
2.Parents want their daughters to find a good boyfriend. You can tell your parents about your boyfriend.
3.You tell your parents that no matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, you will overcome them together. Parents are afraid that you will meet someone who is afraid of difficulties, and they are worried that you will face it alone in the future.
So that's something you and your boyfriend have to promise.
Now my parents are against it, I feel that he is very wooden, and I don't know how to communicate with him.
Numbness? Won't take the initiative, meaning.
Kind of dumbfounded. This you can go and change your boyfriend.
Talk to your boyfriend.
The reluctance of parents is a temptation.
You're in good together.
I didn't come to consult how to communicate with him.
Now it's your boyfriend who needs to be convinced.
Is your boyfriend the type of introvert?
No. How long have you been talking.
Your boyfriend doesn't really love you.
3 years,,I'm ready to get married.,But I just feel that he's wood.,So now I don't agree to get married.,I came to consult what methods and skills to talk to him and him.。
You have to judge whether he really likes you or not.
True love is the one that makes a difference for you.
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It's a normal thing to fall in love, why should parents interfere? Many times, it is because of the age at which we are in love, or each other's situation, that our parents oppose it, so what should we do if our parents interfere? Let's take a look.
Fall in love at the right age.
The reason why many parents interfere is that their children start to fall in love when they are still very young, after all, they are still students, and they will inevitably miss each other when they are in love, so that the attention in class will be distracted and it is easy to affect learning.
Don't interfere with your own learning.
It is best to start dating after graduation, or when you are about to intern at university, and if it has already begun, you should also grasp the proportions of love, and at the same time do not affect your studies, academics are the most important.
Communicate rationally with your parents.
I have met a lot of friends, fell in love when I was young, was discovered by my parents, and then quarreled every day, in fact, both sides of the quarrel could not solve the problem, or spread out all the problems to communicate carefully, and each other took a step back.
Ask the parents about the reason for the objection
Sometimes there are other factors in the opposition of parents, after introducing their boyfriend and girlfriend to their parents, parents don't like it, don't guess the reason, or ask your parents directly, see what the boyfriend and girlfriend don't meet their minds.
Improve each other's shortcomings.
There may be a variety of reasons for the objection, and it may be very surprising to you, but if your parents ask for something that you can do with each other, then prove it to your parents and change what they think you are flawed.
Tell parents about the decision to stick with it.
The reason why many couples don't go to the end is because they gave up prematurely, after all, it's still up to you to get the marriage certificate, and tell everyone who opposes you that you will always stick to it and won't waver.
Be prepared to be incomprehensible.
Maybe in addition to your relatives and elders, your friends are not used to you being together, you must be prepared to accept their opposing eyes, have a certain psychological preparation, at first you may not be comfortable, but if you really love each other, slowly they will also accept.
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Summary. You can have in-depth communication with your parents to understand why they disagree. If it is a boyfriend's problem, and it is really likely to affect a happy life after marriage, or the boyfriend cannot be changed, it is recommended to listen to the opinions of parents.
If your parents have any misunderstanding about your boyfriend, try to explain it to yourself. Thirdly, the most important thing is your boyfriend's performance, whether he is actively working hard and not giving up on compromise immediately after his parents don't agree.
In the face of such a problem, do not blindly oppose your parents, nor blindly obey your parents, but investigate and understand them in many ways.
My family doesn't like my boyfriend, how can I convince them?
Hello. Parents don't like your boyfriend, don't be in a hurry, communicate with your parents well, and give your parents a little time to think about it. First, first of all, this matter, you can't be in a hurry, you have to be steady, after all, you are facing your own relatives, if you are in a hurry so that they must like your girlfriend, I guess it is not fast, the effect will not be too good, and it is not very realistic, after all, they did not see the performance of your other half, they are not malicious, they just don't believe in your vision.
My boyfriend's sister doesn't have a very good personality, and the family is afraid that they will quarrel when they live together in the future.
There is also the fact that my boyfriend's house lives in the middle of nowhere, six years older than me.
Second, the most important thing is that you must carefully examine your own vision, you carefully verify whether the boyfriend you choose is genuine, you have to confirm that you are really sharp-eyed, the boyfriend you choose is really a potential stock, you have to confirm again that you are really not wrong, you have to confirm for the last time that your parents are wrong, after all, you have to share the bed with your other half for several years.
But I really don't want to give up on my boyfriend, he is very disciplined, very good, and very good to me.
How do I convince my family?
If you believe that the two of you can break all problems, I think you can.
Let them accept him.
You can have in-depth communication with your parents to understand why they disagree. If it is a boyfriend's problem, and it is really likely to affect a happy life after marriage, or the boyfriend cannot be changed, it is recommended to listen to the opinions of parents. If your parents have any misunderstanding about your boyfriend, try to explain it to yourself.
Thirdly, the most important thing is your boyfriend's performance, whether he is actively working hard and not giving up on compromise immediately after his parents don't agree. In the face of such a problem, do not blindly oppose your parents, nor blindly obey your parents, but investigate and understand them in many ways.
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There are several reasons why your boyfriend doesn't want his family to know about your existence:
1. His family does not approve of him falling in love for the time being, so he will not let his family know about your existence.
Second, he and his family introduced your relationship and situation, but his family did not agree with you to get along, so he said to you: He does not want his family to know about your existence.
3. You are not his only one, maybe he still has a sweetheart, and his family knows it. So he won't let his family know that you have a fault.
Fourth, he doesn't get along with his family very well, and he doesn't want to talk to his family about anything.
Fifth, his family has a special background, and he doesn't want to tell you for the time being, but just lies to you that he doesn't want his family to know about your existence.
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