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On the one hand, there is love, on the other hand, there is family affection, the opinions of parents should be listened to, they also want to put their daughters in a safe place, they are people who have come over, and they have some experience in life. If it's just because the family is poor, other aspects are not a problem, but you don't mind. If the time is not ripe, you can delay the time first and get married later.
It's right that your parents don't support you getting married, because there is no future at all, you have to be assertive, know what kind of man you need, and your parents' opinions should also be used as a reference, in short, it's better not to marry this kind of man.
As a man who has no money for the time being, no career, and poor family conditions, these are not the main problems, most people are ordinary people, without Wang Sicong's money and Yang Yang's face, they can only rely on their own struggle to create a world. But if your own conditions are not good, you don't work hard, and you're not self-motivated, then I don't recommend this girl to find such a man, there is definitely no hope for the future.
Therefore, whether you have a good relationship with your parents and whether you communicate well with your parents determines whether you are passive or active when this conflict arises again. Try to communicate with your parents, insist on your own opinions, understand their struggles, and put yourself in their shoes. As long as you are persistent enough, communicate well with your parents, and keep yourself doing well, you will definitely achieve your goals in the end.
It's not worth breaking your parents' hearts for love, if your boyfriend doesn't care about your situation and encourages you to break up with your parents, believe me, he doesn't love you, he just forces you alone to no way out, and don't fantasize about how good he will be to you after marriage, and it's best to control the isolated and helpless person.
Calm down first, don't rush to get married, the IQ of a girl in love is equal to zero, the bystander is clear, you are still young now, look away, look away, the sky is still so beautiful, love needs to be beautiful, but you can't hurt your family, you can see some things clearly with time!
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I think you can tell them about the shining points in your boyfriend, and if they think that this guy is really a reliable person, I think they will slowly let go.
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I think you should tell your parents that your boyfriend is a potential stock and prove to your parents that your boyfriend is the only way to convince them.
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I think you should convince them that although my boyfriend's family is not good, he is very good to me, and he treats me as a treasure in his heart.
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My parents don't agree with my marriage to my boyfriend and think that his family is not good, how can I convince them? It's time to talk about marriage, and if you still raise this question, then don't get married. Parents think that your boyfriend's family conditions are not good, and you feel the same way.
Your boyfriend's family conditions are really bad in the eyes of your family. The boyfriend's own conditions are not enough to make up for the lack of family conditions, and he still can't make you desperate to marry him, work hard with him, live together, and grow old. Ask you a question, are you married to your boyfriend, or are you married to your boyfriend's family?
It is said that marriage is a matter of two families, and poor family conditions will naturally affect the life after marriage, and then affect the feelings of husband and wife, in modern society, only a very small number of girls will marry love, regardless of the family conditions of the boyfriend, she only loves her boyfriend in this life, and only wants to marry her boyfriend, and grow old together.
You're not that kind of girl, or your boyfriend isn't the one who makes you desperate yet. If one day, there is such a man who comes into your life, and you can believe that as long as you can marry him, even if his family conditions are not good, you will have a happy life. I think your parents will remind you, but they will never stop you, and they will bless you.
As long as the boyfriend has a good future, it's fine. You see, there are a few people in their forties and fifties who have good family conditions left by their parents. My cousin is fifty years old.
When I got married, my family was very poor, and I had several sisters. My cousin married the children of the village cadres, who were the first in the village at that time and were powerful and powerful, but now that I look at it, his husband is used to having a child, does not like to earn money, and occasionally does some odd jobs. My cousin is very busy every day, working every day, fifty or sixty a day.
If her husband goes out, at least about two hundred a day. I have been fighting all day long, and now I am nearly fifty years old. became a poor person, as the old saying goes, ten years in Hedong, ten years in Hexi, which is not wrong at all.
Today's form is three years to the east of the river and three years to the west of the river. What can you do and tell your boyfriend again, the two of them work together, and they will reflexively in a few years, and we grow cotton here, which is not very optimistic about agriculture, and I have been working for two years to pay off savings and buy a car. If you find someone who can't say it, it's hard to say.
Find someone who is rich and also a senior nanny, and there is no part to speak.
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You can talk to them about other aspects of your boyfriend's strengths and get them to recognize your boyfriend's abilities.
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Take the initiative to communicate with your parents, take your boyfriend to your own home more often, and let your parents realize the benefits of your boyfriend, so that your parents will agree.
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There are two paths you face: go crazy for love once; Don't take risks, separate. If you choose to go crazy for love once, rebel against your parents and resolutely join in. In fact, if you have the slightest hesitation, it means that you don't love that man, so let's divide it.
I think it's just like what you explained in your question, just explain the situation to her parents, if it still doesn't work, you can take some time to go directly to the house and pick her up, seeing that you are so hearted, her parents should not let you come back with a disgraced face. If in the end her family still disagrees, you don't need to have any emotions, because parents care about their children, they must be worried that their daughter will be bullied by you when they come to you, hehe! So there's no need. >>>More
If you really see through the red dust and are tired of the world, then you can discuss it with your parents. But you have to empathize, is this worthy of your parents' years of nurturing grace and the money and effort invested in you? Do they need you to become a monk in return? Think about it calmly.
I think your parents are right in a way, because from the Chinese tradition, the male (female) friends brought home are basically related to marriage. Now mm is still in school, there is not much contact with society, and he is in a period of love, thinking that everything is good for his boyfriend, and the two of them must be able to last a long time, and what others say may not be able to be listened to, which is normal. But life is realistic, you are only a sophomore now, and the days to come are still very long, as you said, according to the customs of your family, take it home, it is estimated that your relatives and neighbors will think that you have reached a certain level ......and plan to get married in the futureYour parents are also good for you, although the taste of missing is very uncomfortable, but the holiday is only two months, find other things to do, distract the attention of missing, it will soon pass, you can also play **,**, hehe, the above is purely personal advice, for reference only.
Try to convince your mother with your heart, just say Mom, I know you are worried about me, but if I am only under your care forever, then I will never have the day of independence and independence, it will only make me dependent on you, and I will not have my own opinions when I encounter anything, and you don't want me to be so unassertive, and I will only become a timid and cowardly person when the time comesAnd this is not what you want to see, Mom, I have grown up, I need to learn to be self-reliant, and I want to make my own career! In this case, your mother will agree, which child's mother is not good for her own child, but the method is wrong
From a numerological point of view, each person is a magnetic field, a small Taiji, and this small Taiji contains each person's different characteristics of the five elements of yin and yang. The existence of the five elements of yin and yang will inevitably have the phenomenon of mutual growth and mutual restraint. If the difference between the scores of the same and different in the five elements of the eight characters is too large, and the power of self, life, and help exceeds the power of gram, catharsis, and consumption, this is the numerological hardness of the eight characters. >>>More