Is it true that if you love someone, you should try your best to avoid each other s differences and

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When two people get along together, they are integrated with each other and tolerate each other. It is precisely because of the differences that two people have room for improvement, so that each other can grow and progress together.

The author believes that blindly catering to the other party will lose his original personality and eventually lead to a breakup. If the other person really cares about you, they will accept your shortcomings and imperfections. Of course, because of the appreciation of the other person, you will slowly change your own shortcomings.

Deliberately changing is difficult to become a magic weapon to maintain the relationship between two people. Only when a person is willing to change will he gain a relationship that truly belongs to him.

To love someone, love with dignity and not to love too humblely. It's about being responsible for oneself and respecting each other's feelings. Thank you.

Do your best, say it well, and make appropriate changes that are conducive to the development of feelings. Women can modify their appearance in order to please themselves, and they can also change their personality, and the same should be true for men. I think this kind of change is not to cater to the other person, but to be persistent in love.

Loving someone doesn't have to avoid each other's differences, but confronting them. People are different, and differences are the norm. Whether or not to change depends on the situation.

It is necessary to face up to and tolerate differences that do not involve principles on one side. If it comes to principles, such as bad habits, then it needs to be corrected.

Definitely not, to love someone or to be loved is to tolerate each other, change may have to change to a certain extent, but it can't be for him to become not like himself, there are differences, there are differences between people.

To love someone is to try our best to avoid each other's differences, to change oneself and at the same time to change each other, to change each other, the difference will be smaller and smaller, the distance will be closer and closer, in order to go further.

Changing oneself for the sake of love is indeed an expression of love. But not all, because love is relative and mutual. You can't blindly rely on the change of one party to cater to the preferences of the other party and maintain the relationship between them, there is a saying:

Don't love too humblely. Only when two people have each other in their hearts can the eternity of love be achieved.

No, if it's a bad habit, it's okay to change some appropriately. Trying to change is not called love, it is called humble, and he will not know how to cherish you.

You can change yourself for him, but the most important thing is to stick to your own principles, many times you must stand in the other party's perspective to think more, how to do better, not to say that you have to go along with the other party.

I don't think there's any need to deliberately change ourselves for anyone, what we have to do is that both people can grow from this relationship, and both people can progress from this relationship.

If the difference is too big, the gap between each other is very large, but you can't blindly accommodate others and change yourself, lose your love, and you won't go long.

It can't be without change and it can't be all changed, then it's not love. The change must be mutual, you need to adapt to him, and he needs to adapt to you! Why avoid all to change, instead of recognizing differences and choosing to be inclusive.

In a sense, it should be like this. The two should learn from each other's strengths, tolerate each other, adapt to each other, and manage each other's feelings.

Whether you love someone or not, you have to improve yourself. When his differences are getting closer and closer to him, the distance between the two people will be a little less frictional.

Yes! If you really love someone, try to change yourself for him!

It is recommended that you still don't, even if you love each other very much, don't change yourself easily, there are many ways to avoid differences, because the people who love you will tolerate rather than change. Even if it changes, it is a change between two people. And not one person to change.

Know that all long-lasting and fruitful love is based on mutual foundation.

If you feel really in love with someone, you will try to tolerate him as much as possible, try to adapt to the changes that come for you, and shorten the gap between them.

In the same way, love is mutual, and it is impossible to just give without reciprocating. Only by tolerating and understanding each other can we go on for a long time.

I think that when two people who love each other together, they must need one party to pay more, and they must know how to be humble when they encounter things, only in this way can two people be happier.

If you really love this person, you will make a change about it. But one thing is mutual, and he will make changes for you as well.

No, there must be differences between two people, and there are two completely different people, the most important thing is that the two people run in with each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other.

If it's a strength, why change it for whom, if it's a disadvantage, needless to say, you have to change it; If you love someone, don't hope to change anything because of yourself, let alone change yourself because of love, you will regret it; Love is the advantages of a person who loves one, but also to accept a person's shortcomings, this is the real love.

If you think so, prove that you have fallen in love with him!

Yes, if you love someone, he is your motivation, and you hope that you will become better and better for him.

Yes, only a person who loves deeply will always think about making himself more perfect and giving each other a high-quality lover.

Yes, don't deliberately change, as you say, you can feel it unconsciously, it's best for both parties to do this, love is to be considerate and tolerant, slowly change, slowly adapt to each other's life, both parties can be like this, your relationship must last forever.

May you both live forever and grow old together!!

Of course, how much a person loves him will change for him Of course, when I say change, that's for the better, but don't be too infatuated, otherwise you blindly change, and he doesn't change, that is, he doesn't love you anymore, or it's better to break off sooner, never change everything for the sake of love, otherwise you won't be worth anything at that time.

Some people will and some people can't, because the influence of a person's personality and family is different, so the ideas and opinions are very different.

will change for him, this is a conditioned reflex.

How to say it's better to be yourself, don't change yourself, this kind of love will last for a long time.

Love is not what you like and I like, but what you like, I also try to like and then I really like it,

Yes, you will come from the heart, and this is love.

Yes, love is so cute that people are silly together.

In fact, these are mutual changes and adaptations, and only when we tolerate them will we know how to cherish them more.

I always want to show him the best in myself.

I'll give you the best explanation! It's not me bragging, if it's so love, it's a stupid love, why do you say that? It can be a powerless love, but it will become a waste without dignity in the future.

will spoil a person, let it everywhere, there is only one dead end in life, and you will never be able to do big or small things, believe it or not.

Yes, because love is beautiful.

You will tolerate him, change for him, love you, and he will change.

It's extremely hard to say that change is that easy? When she knew him, she spent money like water, and was called the Moonlight Clan, and after she got to know him, she slowly learned to save, so do you say she has changed, or has she changed, and is there a person who is really so easy to change?

I don't think so. If the person you love loves him, he also loves you. There will be no need for you to change for him. Because to love a person is to love him all.

True love doesn't need your change.

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Dear will be happy to answer for you. Love a person is not the need to change for him, this question is very contradictory, in fact, everyone who has been in love will change a little because of your other person, this is why people often say why two people have been together for a long time are very similar, in fact, it is not that they look alike, but they understand each other, run-in to improve their own many deficiencies, two people together to be humble to each other, over time the two personal personalities will be close, and the way of speaking and doing things will tend to be the same, Therefore, many people will feel that the two are very similar, which shows that it is right to change for him if you love someone, change yourself for the sake of your beloved for the sake of everyone getting along better, for everyone to have fewer differences and more commonalities, and life will be more flavorful! Everyone will be happy together until they grow old!

But it's nothing more than that there are people you change for him he thinks it should be, the more you change, the more he thinks you have no character, such a person is the type without conscience to put it bluntly, if one day he changes for others, others don't look down on him at all when he will understand everything, what is true love!

The way I asked the question was difficult for the other person to accept.

How do I do it to get the other person to accept.

Dear, you need to use time to sharpen your feelings, so that the other party has a kind of dependence on you, so that unconsciously she will have feelings for you.

It doesn't matter, as long as you're happy.

In love, should we change ourselves for each other?

I feel that loving someone is a voluntary change, not a forced one, so I think I can take my time and know my state of mind.

If you really love someone, and because of some of your shortcomings, they are hurt a lot, and sometimes even endanger their lives, do you just let yourself go on and continue to cause those injuries? Do you also feel uncomfortable with the loss and damage caused?

Of course, the shortcomings that are bad for the two of you must be changed, if you really love him, you will be willing to do anything for him, but the nature is difficult to change, you can not change but usually pay more attention.

Deliberately changing, subtly changing, are all changed for someone after falling in love with him.

To love someone is to be good for her wholeheartedly, not to mention to get rid of your own problems, even if you don't have the person who loves you, you have to get rid of your own problems, only by getting rid of your own problems, life will be happier.

Women can be strong women in the career society, female men, but in terms of love, you should really be a gentle little woman, what man doesn't like his girlfriend is gentle and considerate, the bird depends on people, and you all love each other, for that excellent beloved, you must change yourself, so that your love will always be warm and sweet.

Change is hard, unless you want to. The so-called change for whom is just pandering and pleasing is that, that's why your boyfriend will say "it's not her if she changes".

Your boyfriend understands you very well and respects you, I wish you happiness!

In fact, your boyfriend loves you like this, he can fully tolerate your willfulness, it's really not easy, your boyfriend really loves you! As he said, it's not you who will change!

Love someone who can give everything for her and him, your boyfriend did it, and he still thinks about you in a car accident, what you have to do is to restrain and control your immature bad habits, slowly become a little more rational, think about it before doing things, and turn willfulness into rationality! Cherish your boyfriend!

It depends on what you change, personality and appearance cannot be changed, the only thing that can be changed is hobbies and bad habits, since you love him, you have to pay for him, so that he can feel happy with you!

Presumably. There are some changes that can make the future of two people better, and they can also make themselves better, and such changes are worth it. Not only for him, but also for himself.

Don't say whether you love him or not, even if you don't love him, just say that you have a lot of shortcomings, just because of your shortcomings, you have to change, which is good for your future life and work. What's more, you still love him, shouldn't you change it even more?

Loving someone can make changes for each other appropriately, which is more conducive to the development of your relationship, two people who love each other should give each other enough trust and love, and consider the problem from the other person's point of view.

Loving someone can change some bad habits, but it can't change your original personality.

For the sake of the person you love, you can get rid of some of your shortcomings, become more empathetic, and be better, instead of blindly catering to others to change yourself.

The two of you are comfortable together, and the two of you need to run in together, as long as both of you feel comfortable.

Hello, I think it depends on what to change, if he loves you enough he will tolerate you, and you will tolerate her. Thank you.

It's good to be yourself, and if you change, maybe it's not what he likes.

If you really love him, you will change everything for him.

It's right to do your best to change yourself for the sake of the people you love.

It depends on the purpose for which you love each other.

If you just want the other party to be happy, then let go of everything and make the other party happy, if you want to walk together, then don't change everything for the other party, a little change can show that you care about and love each other, and it is also one of the means to deepen love, but regardless of the principle of completely changing yourself, it will make the other party look down on you, you will be in a complete disadvantage in two or two people.

Moreover, what he (she) likes is the changed you, how long can this kind of love last?