What if my child tells me he doesn t want to live?

Hello: For a child at the age of 11, the ability to imitate things is particularly strong, but his thinking ability is not strong enough. Therefore, you can find some children of the same age who he likes and have good habits to participate in beneficial activities with him, gradually change his personality, and achieve the purpose of entertaining and educating; In addition, you also need to strengthen the cultivation of his thinking ability, as long as his thinking ability is improved, he will gradually understand why people want to live?

How can we live a happier and happier life? the value of human life and how to realize one's own value; Finally, educate children to avoid using the traditional education method of "beating and scolding to become talents".

The child is very well-behaved at school, which shows that the child wants to do things on his own, he doesn't like you to follow him all the time, he doesn't like to study, this is a common problem of many classmates, because learning is a very tiring thing, you are very good to her, he has something to say, hold it in his heart, so there will be such a situation. You try to ask him, tell him, the school teachers say that he is very good, you are proud of him, but when you encounter a problem, you must say it to solve it, as for no child is willing to play with him, Mr. He will communicate with him, he will know the reason, the right medicine, the child will slowly get better, this matter can not be delayed, many children's physical and mental development has a very bad impact, I wish the child to get better.

Summary. How can a child enlighten when he says he doesn't want to live? In order to enlighten your child in this situation, you must first find the root cause of his unwanted life, whether it is too much pressure, too tired of studying, too painful at work, or some emotional setbacks, or the gap between ideals and reality, and then you can prescribe the right medicine, remember to communicate with them in a gentle and kind tone that understands them.

How can a child enlighten when he says he doesn't want to live? In order to enlighten the child in this situation, you must first find the root cause of his unwanted life, whether it is too much pressure, too tired of studying, too painful at work, or some emotional setback, or the gap between the ideal and the current field, and then you can prescribe the right medicine, remember to communicate with them in a gentle and kind tone that understands them.

Then Qi Ji effectively helped him to find the direction of thinking. For example, arrange for him to be buried in a high school and have some effective and educational outdoor activities. Keep him busy every day. Take it out of the suicidal rail liquid Qingdao.

Hello teacher, my child was diagnosed with depression a few days ago, and then he has been depressed, skipping meals and taking medicine, always saying that he wants to die, what should I do?

After the child suffers from depression, parents should give more care and understanding, quietly learn more about depression, do not think that depression is a bad mood, can't think about it, and don't scold the child, in this case, take the child to the psychology department of a regular hospital in time, you need to let the doctor assess whether the depression is mild or moderate, and the doctor needs to evaluate the type of depression. And develop a good round branch lifestyle in daily life, and actively participate in physical exercise.

He always said that he was uncomfortable, couldn't sleep at night, uncomfortable, he said that he was not going to have a problem with his own travel, it was not normal, and then he took him to the hospital, but he repented and found out that he was depressed, and then he didn't go out, didn't take medicine, gave up on himself, and said he didn't want to live anymore.

**Depression is a protracted battle, and parents need to be more patient, tolerant and accompanied. It is not an exaggeration to say that "dripping water through stones" is not an exaggeration, so take your time. Try to take the child to take a walk around the Toji Yui and try to communicate with her slowly.

On the other hand, you can go to the hospital for psychological counseling.

He's having a big psychological problem now.

Summary. Hello, what's going on with the kid.

Hello, what's going on with the kid.

Wait for the child's mood to stabilize and communicate well, but there are still some difficulties.

At this time, if the child as a parent doesn't want to say, don't be in a hurry to ask all the time, you can wait for the child's emotional stability and neutrality before coming to the place of mathematics, what can be done now is to accompany the head of the shed with the child silently accompany him, even if he doesn't say a word, just be by his side.

The child is emotionally fragile now, don't be overly anxious to ask what happened, silent companionship is the most appropriate.

It's not a child, it's twenty-two years old, he said that he was not happy since he was a child, and he had accumulated too much, well, then I suggest that I have time to take it to a psychiatrist for enlightenment.

He doesn't go, I can't help it.

Well, or you can have a psychiatrist come to your door.

There are too many ideas in this psychology, and it needs to be enlightened by a psychiatrist, pro.

Will people come, even if they come, what if he doesn't see him?

Sometimes because of the family relationship, there is a problem in the parent-child relationship, and the child is depressed, and there is no channel to vent it.

If you find a psychiatrist, the doctor will know how to deal with it.

For example, they will sit down and talk like friends, or come to the door to give advice.

How to find such a psychiatrist.

There is a relevant psychological counseling department in the hospital, and you can communicate with the doctor about the specific situation first, so that the doctor can assist and help.

Generally, there are relatives of this department in the top three hospitals.

Where is the psychiatrist better.

The psychiatrists in the local tertiary hospitals are okay.

Or which region you have, I'll check it for you.

I'm from Shangqiu County.

I'll check it out for you.

The child always says that he doesn't want to live anymore, what's the matter.

Consider that your child is most likely to suffer from depression, which often manifests as low mood, listlessness, reluctance to go out, low self-esteem, reticency, etc., and in severe cases, self-harm or suicide and other suicidal behaviors. It is recommended to provide psychological counseling to the child in a timely manner, and usually learn more about the child's school life or some thoughts in the heart, etc., if necessary, take the child to see the psychology. Keep warm to avoid catching a cold.

Today's children are very sensible, you can communicate with him, often take him out to play, if adults can get along with children like friends, it may be much better, of course, it is also necessary to educate children, but the method should be used correctly, you can observe what interests and hobbies the child has, and you must have a reward before you give him a lot of homework, such as which park to take him to, or buy him his favorite animation, but don't impose anything on the child. Let your child know that you "understand" him.

There must be a knot in that regard, and it will be fine to untie his knot.

Today's children are a child because most families are pampered, and the child will immediately satisfy him if he wants to be an elder, so some children have a very arrogant and very unique character, these characters are often arbitrary and stubborn, what do you want to do The family does not agree to it, then the son you are talking about here is 15 years old and says that he doesn't want to live, I think this kind of psychology is abnormal, as a parent should talk patiently with the child, Instead of reprimanding him as a parent. It is really important for a family to understand what the child's cause is, whether this reason comes from your parents or whether the child's ideas are correct, and how to make him give up those bad thoughts.

Summary. Dear, this issue must be taken seriously! If a child has suicidal thoughts, it is a serious problem.

Dear, this issue must be taken seriously! If a child has suicidal thoughts, it is a serious problem.

Parents can first figure out why the child has this thought, whether it is because of the pressure of study or life, or something else, so as to prescribe the right medicine.

Have you ever understood why the child is why?

He didn't say anything.

How old is the child, and is he still in school?

There should be various reasons, such as study, interpersonal communication, family, and not being able to vent for a long time.

17 boys in high school.

I haven't been to school for more than 20 days.

This is an age when the mind is active and easy to go to extremes, what is the family environment, and how is the relationship between your husband and wife?

Before I checked my brother, I was emotionally unstable, I lost my temper, I was uncomfortable, I couldn't sleep, I didn't speak after the inspection, I was misanthropic, I felt that I was finished, I was not in the dust chain, I refused to **, I refused to communicate.

Well, I want to take care of the child now, and not having an accident is the most important thing.

Then insist on communicating with your child so that he feels unconditionally loved and accepted.

But don't overemphasize how much you can help him, mental illness is more important for him to discover the light in his life and use his own strength to **.

Yesterday he threw the medicine in the trash, and I secretly practiced it, and he asked me if I threw it away, and I said that I threw it away, and he said that it was good to throw it away, and he would be hit when he died.

Dear, we don't run away from the problem, but we must establish a positive belief and believe that taking medicine is useful.

Accompany the child to tide over the difficulties, and now the child has been diagnosed with depression.