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First of all, whether you know him, including: character, occupation, personality, education, family background, etc., since you are a friend, you must know more about him;
Secondly, judging from the situation of his text messages, this person is more scheming and has a feeling of wanting to get away with it, so you have to be careful, there is no harm in being more careful at the beginning (especially girls);
Again, you can't talk about experience in love, just treat each other with sincerity, if you are honest or not, it already explains some problems;
Finally, it is recommended that you continue to spend some time with him to calm down and see how he explains; In addition, invite your good friends to help you come up with ideas and check the gates!
Good luck!
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One possibility is that the boy needs you to give him some confidence, as you said in your previous relationship, he has shown favor a lot, and he needs a little interaction from you.
But there is another possibility that he is not confident in your future and does not want to take much responsibility for you. From your words, I have a strong feeling that he said that love is too easy and too good at playing. And when you are emotionally lonely, it is enough to ask for some warmth.
The rest is up to you, but one thing must be reminded that the days to come are long. In the days to come, there will be more than storms and snow, sweet words, you will have to face and endure a lot, and at this time, the role that boys need to play will only be heavier than that of princes.
Prudence now may also avoid a lot of pain in the future.
Hope these will be useful to you.
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In fact, I think that any man, regardless of whether he has the strength or not, at the beginning, if he really loves that girl, he will still fight for it regardless of everything. He said at this time that he didn't have the confidence to be your prince, and I think the biggest possibility is that he didn't call you, and his lack of confidence is more than half an excuse. As for you, although you are a girl, if you love it, you can boldly say it, what's the big deal, it's better than hiding it in your heart.
Besides, if he really likes you, but he just doesn't have confidence, then isn't your initiative just growing his confidence? I wish you happiness.
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Don't think about it, what kind of confidence is not faithful, to put it bluntly, I don't like you enough, or I don't like it at all.
He doesn't have the confidence to be with you anymore, so why bother yourself.
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If it's true that they like each other. Don't miss it. When you are in love, two people have to work together.
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You say it's not bad, how do you know how he feels? It's up to you to think it's okay. It must be that he doesn't have a good enough impression of you to like you, it must be this IMHO.
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Come on, he certainly doesn't really like you.
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He just doesn't like you, no matter how nice it sounds! Let's end it.
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My advice is to talk to him well and ask him very clearly, what will he do in the future?
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Did he have something to do with himself, or did he politely refuse. Can you be sure you really like him? Or a look, or a word?
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What concerns should he have... You can try to ask him about it.
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If you care a lot about him. Don't leave yourself with regrets.
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If you've been with your partner for a long time, but you don't feel that he loves you, here are a few things you can try:
1.Direct questioning: You can be honest with your partner about your concerns, asking him if he really loves you and what he thinks about your relationship, so that you can know more clearly what he thinks and avoid misunderstandings and suspicions.
2.Observe his actions: Love is an action that focuses on the thoughtfulness and devotion of your partner to you on a daily basis, and whether he is willing to give you time, energy, and personal time. These are actions that can reflect whether he truly loves you and whether he is in charge.
3.Increase communication: Communication is the key to maintaining the stability and continuity of love. "If you don't speak, you don't have a chance" – Sometimes, you need to communicate and communicate constantly, so that you and your partner can better understand each other's needs and ideas, which can strengthen the relationship between each other.
4.Pay attention to his expression: Sometimes, we may miss the "hints" that others give us, and pay careful attention to his expression, and we may find that in some of his actions or words, he actually shows his passion and love for you.
Eventually, if you're still not feeling right, Summoning Rock can consider letting go, which may mean that he's not a good fit for you or can't connect with your mind. Love is reciprocal, and there is no need to force it.
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Category: Annoyances >> in love.
Problem description: I met a very emotional boy on the Internet. He started chasing me, but he was so far away from me! But I also chose to fall in love with him, one of us is in the south and the other is in the north, he is very good to me, when I am unhappy, he will play ** with me, no matter how long it is, no matter how expensive **, he will buy New Year's gifts to me, will also buy birthday gifts to me, and will also insist on calling me every morning to call me up, everything between us makes my friends still envy me.
But at this time, he disappeared, and I couldn't find him. Is he not looking for me, is this the end of it? We really loved it!
Is there a distance between us?
What should I do? Can anyone tell me?
Analysis: One in the south and one in the north, of course there is a distance How long have you been looking for him? First of all, you have to make sure that something is wrong with him or something?
How long have you been out of touch? Hehe, I also envy you when I hear you talk about your process, he is very caring. Do you know him?
Do you know how he lives every day? In fact, there are many shortcomings in distance, for example, you can never know what he is doing, what he is thinking, and what his expression is at this time? To put it mildly, you don't know if what he says is true or false.
It's better to wait a little longer, time will tell, if he doesn't contact you again, then I advise you to forget about him, want to start a new life. Although there are many online dating that are very successful, there are also unsuccessful, if two people really love each other, there will always be one party who will pay for each other, no matter how bitter it is, I will hope to see the side of the person I love in reality.
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Categorical Closure: Annoyance>> Emotional Emotions.
Problem description: I met him online, and since I realized him, I hit him every day, scolded him, scolded him for nothing, and even said:"If you die, I won't fall in love with you"But he still doesn't back down, always with the attitude he had at the beginning:"I love you, and I just want to love you!
I promised to be my wife, and I was serious. When I met, I respected me, but I was sorry for my appearance, and it wasn't that I was picky, but I really wanted to find a dream, I said he was ugly, and he actually said it was okay. Something, I said he had no mood, no taste, he actually said:
If I have you, you will promise to marry me! Oh my God, what to do, I don't know what to do? He also said that he recognized me, and his feelings could not be blocked with steel plates, and I told him not to look for me again, but it was okay to tell him if he didn't hear this, and as soon as he heard it, he came to me.
Alas, is this man going to succeed? I don't like people who don't change their clothes for three days, but he, the first time he saw me wearing that, four days later, it's still the same one, I'm afraid that people who won't take home and throw dirty things, oh my God, think about too many places to wonder if they will live, not to mention the mood or anything. What to do, I didn't care about him, but I was a little worried about what would happen if it went on like this, because he was always mentioning me to his friends and relatives, and he was asked to go home with him on National Day, and I told him to die, why didn't he go.
Everyone, help, how to deal with this matter? Thank you.
Analysis: He loves you very much, but you just don't feel good for him, right? No matter how hard you fight, you won't give up.
No way, love is not something that can be achieved by wishful thinking. Talk to him well, don't be frizzy and tell him to die or something every time. You have to respect him, he's a man, and there's nothing wrong with him loving you.
I didn't make you inferior because of this. Just sit down and talk like a friend and tell him what you think.
If it really doesn't work, just find a boyfriend, don't give him a chance, and tell him that I hope you can also find a happy other half.
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If you want to end, it's over, and I'm not going to let you end. I won't force you, I won't keep you, since you don't want to talk to me anymore, you don't want to talk to me, that is, you have nothing to say, I don't have anything to say, you don't care about me, everything I say is in vain, everything I say is superfluous, so be it, let's not talk anymore.
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