Recently, I feel a burden, mainly because I feel uncomfortable when I first enter junior high school

Updated on educate 2024-07-26
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In the new environment, there is always a need for a process of adaptation, everyone adapts differently, and you may adapt slowly, but don't be in a hurry, don't have a sense of rejection of the new environment, you have to change your learning and living habits little by little, and gradually go to the new environment. There is still a long way to go in life, walk slowly and look at your seniors, they have all come over, and you can too! Support you! Come on!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    When I was in junior high school, I was like you, but I didn't have to think about things too complicated and cumbersome. In terms of learning, I suggest you make a planning schedule, you can break down the goals one by one, divide them into several different parts to complete slowly, and reward yourself for each task you complete. Today I will help you buy snacks, and tomorrow you will help me pour boiling water, so that the relationship will gradually become intimate.

    Everything is gradual, every day there is greater progress, more gains, as long as you take your time, it won't be long before you will be surprised to find that you have fully adapted to such campus life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is the adaptation period, and it will be completely fine in the second year of junior high school, it doesn't matter, this is your transformation, in fact, your junior high school classmates have such troubles, believe me. Try to get closer to them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hurry up learning, interpersonal relationships don't have to be deliberate, let it be, the difficulty and amount of the course have increased, and you have to change the learning method

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Most of the reasons for this are your own psychological changes, and you should face it up to it, because it's normal, and if you keep running away from the consequences, it's very serious. I've also come from this kind of period, so I know it very well.

    First of all, you have to be confident, and if you are confident, you will not worry about these small problems, and second, you must adapt to this kind of psychology, and continue to correct, do not always compare your current situation with the past, and people must continue to move forward.

    Third, put aside the psychological burden, open your heart and interact with others, tell the interesting things you know and share them with others, and at the same time learn to listen, and listen to others when you don't know what to say, this is a kind of beauty.

    Fourth, there are many ways to make yourself interesting, watch more news, entertainment check-in, or whatever, in short, you have to be happy, you have to be confident and optimistic, and you have to cheer!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It can only be said that you have been hurt, there is a gap in your heart, you have locked yourself up, and you don't trust others. Try to open up, society is not as desperate as you think, and friends are not as worthless as you feel!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Feeling burdened? Everyone's way of making friends is different. If it's all the same.,Why do you have to divide people into people.。。 Strange vision?No, why do you want to be like that, bold, open heart to make friends, I think it's a very happy thing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You'd better take the initiative and talk to your classmates more. Everyone is of the same age, so there should be something to talk about. If you really can't do it, just talk about your classmates' favorite idols. This should make it easier for everyone to accept you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In other words, I don't want to make friends with you, it feels gloomy and gloomy, without a little vitality, you must have done something wrong, you have to review it often, read more books, it's very helpful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go your own way, let others say go, it's too late to regret the past, grasp the present, otherwise you will regret it later.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be like that, be a little more open and sunny.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, you have to let go of all your thoughts, you have to know that you can start again at every stage of learning. Good grades in primary school do not mean that junior high school is good, it can be said that elementary school and junior high school are actually the foundation for high school. Abandon the learning methods of primary school, find the learning method that suits you in junior high school according to your own situation, don't dwell on good grades in primary school, in fact, you can do better.

    Parents want you to get good grades, that's their hope, you don't take them as pressure, just take their behavior as care for you. Change your mindset and restructure your faith. If you don't do well in the exam this time, we can grasp the next time, but we can't be bad every time, believe in yourself, what others say in the future doesn't count, what you say yourself counts.

    If you want to be what kind of person you want to be, you have to put in the effort!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You've just entered junior high school, and you still have a long life ahead of you. The transition stage from primary school to junior high school is also a critical period for people's psychological maturity, and the learning pressure in junior high school is naturally much greater than that in primary school. Study hard now and lay the foundation for high school, which is much more stressful than junior high school, so I can't be depressed now.

    If you put all your mind into studying, your parents will not say that you are looking for trouble, and you will be very happy when your grades come up, so that studying will not become a painful thing. Come on, the future is still long!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to change this situation, it is recommended to live in a poor mountainous area for a month, which may help you. Or talk to your parents and go to school abroad if you can. If you can't do any of this, then don't worry too much about your grades, or forget about them.

    If you want to learn, you can learn, and if you don't want to learn, find something that interests you to do. It's not terrible to be rebellious, it's terrible to not have an opinion.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is typical procrastination.

    I wanted to do what I did today, or I waited for a special starting moment, but I didn't wait, so things dragged on. In the end, it didn't turn out very well.

    Please, you're only in junior high school, and you still have a lot of good days.

    I don't have a particularly effective method either, but a few suggestions:

    1. What you want to do tomorrow, it's best to do it today.

    2. Do a good job of time planning.

    Reason for recommendation, others are more professional than me)

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sympathy! It's because the body's function adapts to the fast-paced life before, and it stops, as if the bicycle we often ride often rides the chain is very new, and it is easy to step on, and if you don't ride for a while, the chain that may be there when you want to ride it is rusty, and it will creak when you step on it, "so you have to oil."

    I graduated from the police academy for 4 years and joined the workforce, and I haven't exercised since I started! Usually as long as you exercise will be sore, I recommend running more, morning exercise is the best, press the legs more, play ball, of course, if you want to exercise, you can also ask a few enthusiasts to take the foot target to the park to practice, I did this, now the physical strength has increased a lot, a lot of spirit, I wish the martial arts people, there are no disadvantages!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm just like you, that's because during the period of practicing sanda, you will not only suffer a dark injury, but also your spirit and muscles will be tense every day, and your body will adapt to the high-pressure state during that time, and you will relax all of a sudden, just like a fish that has lived in the deep sea for a long time, and it is a reason that if you are dragged ashore all of a sudden, your body will burst.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Accumulation, as well as physical rest.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Normal. The answer has been made clear for you upstairs.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because your body is used to the pressure of your previous sanda practice, when you suddenly stop, there will be a period of discomfort, but after a while it will be fine, but then you will not be able to go further, and it feels like a hero in his twilight years.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's too normal, basic physical fitness can be maintained in good health, but practicing sanda (some sports belong) intensive training to further improve muscular endurance, ligament elasticity and lung capacity on the basis of normal physical fitness. After stopping for a period of time, it is a physiological phenomenon that the physical energy returns to the original point, the ligaments will contract, the muscles will become smaller, the lung capacity will decrease, and the sensitivity of nerves to the innervation of muscles and organs will also decrease. As the saying goes, if you don't practice for three days, even if you don't stop for a day, the flexibility and physical fitness at the beginning of the next day are not as good as the best state on the first day.

    From what you said, I can tell that you are still practicing very seriously and hard. The hardest thing in the world is to practice martial arts, scientific practice and hard work are the only way, good luck.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It should be, maybe sometimes girls say this, and it's better for boys to stop pestering and give her a little space. Otherwise, there really is no chance at all.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    From a girl's point of view, unfortunately, you should be hopeless.

    He's giving out good guy cards. Hope you understand.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No chance. Long is not as good as short pain.

    Cut the Gordian knot. Scattered.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't have feelings for him, tell him to slowly cultivate the interests of the two of them, and don't feel uncomfortable all at once. It won't be good for getting along in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I haven't been on a blind date and I don't quite understand. But if it's okay, just think about it, and you should be able to adapt.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can try to take the initiative.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Research shows that drowsiness is actually a subconscious effort to escape from reality.

    That is to say, the landlord is actually subconsciously afraid or unwilling to face any problem, which is difficult for you to look at or solve it head-on, so you will want to sleep to make yourself the means not to think about it, or to make yourself relaxed.

    This has caused you to lose a little bit of energy about other things, because there is no rush, no interest, and it affects your mood and spirit.

    What I want to say is that escaping is not the ultimate and most effective way to solve the problem, it can only temporarily slow down your emotional depression, a wise person must learn to look at the root of the problem, and then challenge it, despise it, solve it, don't take a detour, don't let the surrounding environment sway your emotions.

    Have faith in your future, no matter how the world will look at you, how unfair the world is, because society is inherently unfair, and fairness is not called society.

    Teenagers are most likely to have thoughts about the future, no goals, and head-running, which is normal, which proves that you are actually self-motivated, but environmental factors or your own problems. But a good life and a bad life must go on, whether it is bitter or sweet, or even simply light and tasteless, you must go on patiently, because the life of the vast majority of ordinary people is so light and tasteless, and you are not alone in drinking this glass of water. Everyone should drink as much as they want, enjoy themselves in the midst of suffering, and give themselves a glimmer of hope, because they hope that others cannot give it to you, but only create it themselves

    Send a sentence to the landlord, learn to improve your mentality, and then, decompress your tense nerves, and don't dwell on the so-called problems that you have been puzzled with for many years, which will put you in the abyss.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Have more hope for life, With today's efforts, tomorrow will be better. There is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb, all problems are not problems, because they will pass.

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