What is it like to travel alone in an unfamiliar city?

The biggest feeling of living alone in a city is that there is no sense of belonging. I left home to work in Northeast China after graduating from college in 16 years, and when I came to the city alone that summer, I saw for the first time so many vehicles whizzing past me, and for the first time I stood among so many high-rise buildings. When I was most uncomfortable, I would tell my family that everything was okay and then tell myself that I couldn't fall down.

We take care of the people around us and handle friendships with care. I feel that if I miss a meal, I miss a singing, and I will lose someone. Learning to be a person is a compulsory course in life.

Like now, we've found a better reason for ourselves to be in such a big world that I want to see it. But if we can't even fit in with the place where we live, we go to the place where others live and see what other people's lives can look like. Slowly learn to enjoy one's life.

Fill your life with sports, reading, work, hobbies. Two years doesn't seem like much time. It feels like it's rushing, but it feels like it's a long time.

After coming to Northeast China, I also had my own friends and my own job, but my favorite thing after work is to stay at home and watch TV or movies alone.

Unaccompanied, aimless, insecure, eating alone, sleeping alone, only lonely and around, picking up the mobile phone and wanting to call relatives and friends, but can't find a topic to talk about, doing things are cautious, have a persistent heart, hope to be treated well by this city, and will also treat this city well, a person's life is to tell themselves to be strong, that is, no matter how bad life is today, tomorrow this city will still be busy.

I came to Siping in 2012 to go to university, at that time Siping was not built so well now, out of the train station, on the bus to pick up new students, turned around, walked nearly 40 minutes to the school, all the way up, saw a grass and trees on Siping Street, that taste, I really want to turn my head and go home to re-study, now, in Siping has lived for nearly six years, Siping has changed quite a lot, the streets are smooth, the city has been perfected, and now I find that I can't bear the city. In fact, a person, living in a city, will inevitably be lonely, and those who have an object will miss the other half, but there is a good saying, endure loneliness, and only then can you keep the prosperity, nothing is constant, and time will give us the best answer and solution. Being alone in a strange city will require more care, affection, and care, but this stage is the best time for you to hone your will and improve yourself.

Everyone has suffering and tiredness, because we are still alive, but as long as we have dreams, directions, and goals, sooner or later we will get through one day, and at that time, I will feel very relieved to look back at my current self.

To be honest, it's loneliness. There are no familiar people, a new environment and a new circle, and it is not terrible to adapt, but what is terrible is that after adapting, you will feel out of place with this environment. I miss my friends, I miss home, I miss her. Try not to get too far away from home.

As an only child, it is very difficult to work hard alone, there are no classmates or friends around, and when you are alone, you often feel lonely and helpless. This period of time is really difficult, we must endure, everyone has the most difficult time, everyone has the most difficult time, the trough of life, this time we must overcome difficulties, find a way to release their bad emotions, always full of hope for life, happy every day, with a full mental state to work, to live. There are also colleagues around you, you must actively communicate with your colleagues, you must mingle with them, you have no relatives, no friends, no classmates outside alone, colleagues are your best friends.

After graduating in 1998, I went to work in the provincial capital from my hometown alone, my first job was an accountant, and I had a holiday in the afternoon of Chinese New Year's Eve, and I took the car back to my hometown alone, at that time there was no high-speed, a train ticket, and at the platform at two o'clock in the evening, my dad stood there alone ......That is my deepest memory! Over the years, because a person is in a strange city, you have to pay much more effort than the locals, but there may not be an equivalent harvest, the students who stayed in the local area are now the second child, well-off, stress-free life, and I have been running around in the examination room of various licensing examinations every year, often working overtime, not daring to relax at all, inexplicably there will be a lot of pressure, but even if I can go back to the past, I will still choose this way, no regrets, life may have a lot of hardships, there may be a lot of unfairness, But in a relatively large city, there are also many opportunities, which will make what you learn useful!

In 2015, my youngest daughter suddenly had facial paralysis on the left side of her face and needed to go to the hospital for acupuncture every day**, at that time, fortunately, I was accompanied by my brother every day, rain or shine, otherwise, I really didn't know what to do with 2 children! Later, my brother returned to his hometown to develop, and during that time, loneliness and helplessness accompanied me. It's like being alone in a city, especially during holidays, you will feel lonely, homesick, and miss your parents.

To go to college thousands of miles away from home for four years, and next year after graduation to work more than 1,000 miles away from home, when I first went to college, I really wanted to go home, and next year I was wandering in the field, I feel that my life is a history of wandering, and I can only return to my roots when I retire!

I once went to Shanghai alone with only an interview notice, worked in an unfamiliar metropolis for nearly three years, looked at every brightly lit window at nightfall, missed my distant home, there was loneliness, loneliness, and even loss, but it was still a beautiful experience to challenge myself to fight for a better life for myself and my family.