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Many people think that parents like filial children, but is this really the case? If you look closely at the cases around you,It will be found that the more filial and sensible the children, the less they are liked by their parents, while those children who are considered "unfilial" are favored and cared for by their parents.

Many parents feel that the more filial their children are, the more obedient they are, and let them do whatever they want, and some parents also take their children's actions for granted. Why is it that the more filial a child is, the less his parents will treat him?

TV series Su Mingyu is a very good person, a typical strong woman, it stands to reason that she should be loved by her parents, in other words, anyone will be proud and proud to have such a great child, but as Su Mingyu's parents turn a blind eye?

In fact, it is because they are accustomed to Su Mingyu's state, after a long time, parents will think that this is the attitude that their daughter should have, so they have a natural mentality, which also shows from the side that the "balance" in the parents' hearts has been automatically tilted, even if Su Mingyu does it perfectly, the parents will ignore it.

The ancients said: "Horses are good at being ridden, and people are good at being bullied", this sentence is also applicable to today's society. Especially in the relationship between children and parents, it is even more vividly reflected.

Reasonable parents will keep their children's kindness to themselves in their hearts, but parents who are ignorant and do not know how to be grateful will become more and more excessive.

The more filial and sensible the children, the stricter the parents, and over time, the attitude of the parents gradually becomes tougher, and they even feel that the more filial their children, the easier it is to bully.

The above two points are the reasons why parents don't like to be filial to their children, but no matter what, every child is the meat that falls from their parents, and they are also the results of their parents' careful cultivation.

Filial children in the hearts of their parents will feel that such children are particularly easy to bully, the balance in the hearts of parents will be tilted, no matter what, children are falling from their parents, meat, is the result of the parents' careful cultivation, so the child's filial piety and sensibility is the blessing you cultivated in your previous life, parents should be grateful, should not think that their children are easy to bully.

This is because children who are particularly filial do not get the love of their parents and are very obedient, and their parents will feel that this is what their children should do, so this situation will occur.

I think this situation is really very much, and sensible children have no sugar to eat, which is really pitiful.

TV series Su Mingyu is a very good person, a typical working woman, it stands to reason that she should be liked by her parents, in other words, anyone will feel proud and proud because she has such a great child, but as Su Mingyu's parents, they turn a blind eye. In fact, they are used to Su Mingyu's state, and after a long time, their parents will feel that this is the mentality that a girl should have. has a natural psychological state, which shows that the "balance scale" in the depths of his parents' hearts has long been automatically crooked, even if Su Mingyu does it to the extreme, his parents will ignore it.

As the old saying goes: "Ma Shan is ridden by others, and he repays virtue with resentment", which is also applicable to the current social development. Especially in the relationship between children and parents, it is also vividly reflected.

Reasonable parents can keep their children's goodness in mind, but parents who are disobedient and do not know how to be grateful will become more and more excessive. The more filial and obedient the children, the stricter the management of the parents, and in the long run, the parents' mentality begins to become stronger, and they will feel that the more filial their children, the easier it is to provoke.

The above two specific contents are all reasons why parents do not like to be filial to their children. But in any case, every child is the flesh that falls from the parents' body, which is the result of the parents' serious shaping, and the child's filial piety and obedience are the blessings of the previous life, and the parents should be grateful, don't think that the more filial the child, the easier it is to provoke. In order to be more qualified in the family, parents must do these two things.

Every child is the treasure of their parents, and it is too late to care, how can they be willing to "bully". In daily life, it is necessary to treat children equally, and do not let children have conflicts with each other.

Filial children are very good, even if they have achieved the ultimate filial piety and obedience, then the parents should also have a certain reply. I will pay more attention to this type of child, so that the child feels warm and caring. With a very filial child, parents must learn to be grateful, the feelings between people are mutual, as long as they invest in each other, they will be stronger.

Paying more attention to filial and sensible children can bring certain benefits, on the one hand, it is conducive to the healthy and happy growth of children, and on the other hand, it is conducive to improving parent-child communication. It will help to build a harmonious and happy family in the basic construction.

Because the more filial the child, the more the parents take it for granted, they don't know how to cherish it, and they also feel that the filial child is unproductive and unworthy of respect.

In a family where parents often quarrel, the balance in the parents' hearts is tilted, and in the eyes of the parents, if the child is particularly filial, the child will be considered to be particularly easy to bully.

It is said that the more you grow up, the more you can see the cruelty of reality, many people reach a certain age and enter the society, especially after having children, they will find a cruel reality: in a family with many children, often the most filial child is the most wronged, and is the least treated by his parents. Why is it that the more filial the child in the family, the less his parents will treat him?

The truth is too poignant.

1. People with sweet mouths are likable.

Many people will find that those children who have a sweet mouth and can speak well, even if they don't do anything at home, will also make their parents like it. And those filial children, no matter how much they do or how well they do, they can't compare to a sweet word from others. In the eyes of many parents, no matter how good their children are, it is better to say that they are good.

Therefore, those who do not do things and do not take practical actions in real life, but can bend to their parents, and even coax and deceive, can be more favored by their parents. And those filial children, although they do a lot of work, often tell the truth, but their parents don't like to listen to it, so they will not be treated by their parents.

2. Filial children are too honest.

It is human nature to bully the weak and fear the hard, in fact, parents are also like this. Filial children are often very honest, always do not fight or grab, and sometimes do not argue or complain when they suffer losses. After a long time, your parents will automatically classify you as the one who suffers in your heart, and you will suffer in all aspects of life, and your parents will also tend to bully honest children, and generally filial children are more obedient to their parents.

Because obedience has become a habit, parents will take it for granted. Once a filial child occasionally disobeys, he will become an unfilial son in the eyes of his parents.

You must know that the reason why parents bully honest children and favor unfilial children is actually the one who is afraid of unfilial piety. Because unfilial children have tempers, they will lose their faces, and they will make trouble with their parents, so their parents can only please them and hope that they will be kind to themselves. The aunt in my hometown is very powerful, and if she is slightly dissatisfied, she will quarrel with her grandparents, and the two of them don't know how many times they have quarreled, but the grandparents are good to others, and they still think about the benefits of others.

As long as the aunt needs help, she will immediately help happily, and think about buying this kind of thing for the aunt's children every day. On the other hand, the aunt's family, because the uncles and aunts are more realistic, I don't know how much I have suffered. But the result of this is that the filial people will become more and more chilled, and the unfilial people will become more and more fearless.

But parents should remember: the more partial, doting, and giving to their children, the more selfish, greedy, and unfilial the children are.

The old man often said: The one who serves his parents in front of the saddle in the hospital must not be quietly petted! Yes, when the elderly are healthy and can do things, in the homes of favored children, the pension should be pushed to the unfavored. The favored move their mouths, command a pass, and the unfavored silently do their best!

I once met an old lady about eighty in the hospital, and her family conditions should be good, and she looked a little confused. Usually the two daughters take care of her, but she always asks one of them to come, and when she comes, she scolds her for not taking good care of her. When the other one came, she felt sorry for her coming early or something.

is both realistic and heart-wrenching, why is it that the more filial children are, the less they are treated by their parents?

God always arranges the people the old people who look down on the most in the last life of the old man, and serves by his side, which is too funny and classic. Caring for parents is not favored, because parents will find all kinds of reasons not to burden their pampered children. The favored ones who will say are the hearts of the elderly, honest and honest, and those who are not treated are precisely the most filial.

My daughter-in-law is not favored, my father needs to be accompanied in the hospital, you are in good health and you have little family affairs, so you accompany the bed, and your sister and brother basically never come. To tell the truth, when I was planning to live, my daughter-in-law never entered the house before she was four years old, and she grew up at her aunt Qimo's house, and she ate hundreds of family meals. The daughter-in-law didn't say a word, day and night, the feces and urine were cleaned up.

After serving in the hospital for half a month, I couldn't resist my brother's **, so I didn't even come to see it. I ran out and was chic, but I couldn't find him, but he was still the heart and soul of his parents!

People are very cheap, no matter how willful the children they like, they all think they are cute, and the children they don't like are sensible and filial because of which La's cold reception since childhood, but no matter how filial piety is, if you don't like it, you don't like it, and filial piety can't make your father slow down her mother to change her mind.

This statement may be due to the fact that the most filial children usually endure more grievances and sacrifices for the benefit of the family and the poor parents. They may give up their own personal needs and desires to put the interests of their family first. This sacrifice and patience may bring with it a certain sense of grievance.

Filial children usually do their best to meet their parents' expectations, strive to get good grades, find stable jobs, and bring glory and financial support to their families. They may give up their hobbies and hobbies and sacrifice their time and energy to care for their parents' needs. These sacrifices and efforts may make them feel aggrieved and not understood.

However, we should be clear that filial piety does not necessarily mean enduring grievances. Filial piety is an attitude of respect and love for parents, but it does not mean that children should endure unfairness and harm. The family should be an environment of mutual respect and support, and parents should be concerned about their children's needs and feelings.

Therefore, although sometimes the most filial child may experience some grievances, it is not absolute. We should strive to create an equal, respectful and supportive environment for our children, so that they can receive the love and respect they deserve while fulfilling their filial piety.