How do you regain camaraderie? How do you keep a friendship?

Friendship is such a strange thing, it brings infinite support and strength, but sometimes it becomes a fatal wound in life. Everyone needs friends, which means that everyone has a weak side. Friends are not like lovers, it brings you innocence and happiness, and a force to be reckoned with, but love often makes people confused, like falling into the abyss, terrible and helpless!

There are no absolutes! Love is not useless, just like friendship can also be used like that. Some people say:

Friends are just using each other. But there are also people who say: friends are everywhere, and he (she) will always live by your side.

In fact, if you think about it seriously, you have some inseparable friends around you, and you have some unforgettable memories, and in the memories, you will find that the most memorable thing for you is the moment when friendship is long-lived. You won't be lonely, you will always have your own confidant in your life, but you haven't met it for a while, or it's right by your side. Friends will comfort you when you are lost, give you courage when you are depressed, and share with you silently when you are happy.

Don't burden yourself, don't let yourself stop. Friendship is also something that needs to be grasped, and it is not something that awaits you forever. Let go of yourself, don't hide, throw out all your emotions, the power of friendship will let you go.

Hear no, when your life is in danger, who is calling you again and again, your throat is hoarse, but there is no intention of stopping. Seeing no, who is for you, who does not hesitate to go against the will of your family and insist on being with you. Don't forget, he or she is all for you as a friend!

Crying, tears can't stop flowing, have you ever thought about who helped you wipe your tears, who is distressed for you? Friendship is greater than the power of love, don't take advantage of friendship, that's everyone's sincere dedication! When you cheat on your best friend and betray him/her, you will eventually regret it.

Because when you lose it, you find out that he (she) has taken care of you desperately, not only in love, but also in family ......Friendship may not be strong enough in a person's heart, and family affection is not great enough, but friendship can make people not lonely all the time. Haven't you found out yet? You like the rain, but your friend doesn't like it, but he (she) accompanies you, for the sake of friendship, do something you don't like, to accommodate, to love, to cherish, to work hard, this is also the existence of friendship......Don't take a person's sincere dedication for granted, no one is obligated to take care of you and love you, only cherished people will do so.

Don't try to disappoint their hearts, it will create an unforgivable situation. I've been hurt, I've cried, I've missed, I've loved, I've laughed, but have you ever thought about who is always by your side! Everything is just waiting for you to discover, to feel ......

The definition of a friend in everyone's heart is different. What kind of person in your heart can be friends? It's fate that makes you friends If you think it's a friend worth cherishing, then pursue it When you're vulnerable, your little greeting can touch each other's hearts.

Friendship, like all feelings, needs to be maintained on your own, and if you don't maintain this friendship, then sooner or later this friendship will leave you. So how can friendships be maintained?

1. Keep in touch.

Don't lose touch between good friends because of the passage of time. In addition to long conversations, you should also greet each other with text messages, postcards, and emails from time to time. This is how friends fit into our lives in ordinary ways.

When they are trying to understand our lives, you should look for opportunities to share the joy and emotion of life with them. Yes, some of our friends have been out of touch for years, but we can continue our friendship with them. During this time, they and their partners can look for opportunities to enhance the friendships they missed in those years.

2. Don't compare.

Friends don't have to worry about why they hit you or invite you last, and don't compare who gave the most expensive birthday present. Rather, looking at everything in the long run, there's a good chance they'll find some unexpected ways to keep the friendship balanced. I learned from chatting with the girl that she never invites her friends to go for a walk along the beach because she hopes that her friends will take the initiative to invite her to do something better.

You see! When people can't help or don't invite friends or even don't make a timely call, there are always many valid reasons to comfort themselves. Of course, sometimes a friend's life is just smoother than others, and they may have more leisure, more money and even more opportunities than their friend for a while.

But the so-called friendship is not about making everything exactly equal in life.

3. Equality and respect.

What is felt between good friends is equality and respect. When a friendship develops well, friends become closer. They share each other's experiences, listen to each other, and be honest.

Even if they find out that the other person is smarter than themselves, they will not feel inferior. Because they don't share their insights with a sense of superiority, no one distinguishes between high and low friends. True friends are those who walk side by side.

4. Loyalty. Friendship requires loyalty. Friends should not talk about each other's shortcomings in front of others, nor should they spread rumors and scandals that would hurt friends.

Therefore, we should help each other and not worry about our friends being slandered in the back. Even if a good friend knows each other's weaknesses and shortcomings so easily, they can accept it. Because they care for each other, they will also be loyal to each other.

5. Remember their birthdays.

The little things are also important. A good friend should be considerate. Remember important things that happened in your friend's life and express your condolences in some way.

They celebrate seemingly ordinary holidays with their friends, but they also often use small things as a sign of friendship. For example, stop work and put a cup of coffee on their desk, or thoughtfully say "You're great!" when they're done with an errand. ”。

Life without friendship is gray, just like everything has lost the light of the sun and has no brilliance. Life without friendship is boring, just like a wet match, no matter how you rub it, it can't ignite the flame of hope in life. A philosopher once said:

If two people share one pain, then there is only half pain; If two people share one happiness, they have two happiness. A life without friendship is an incomplete life, and it is also imperfect.

Facing each other calmly, just like with old friends, we talk about the past and the future; I will make my dreams come true, and you will chase your hopes. There are no longer admiring eyes and admiring love, and it is inconceivable that I can already do this, only to realize that time has long sublimated intermittent thoughts into the warmth of friendship.

In my spare time, invite three or five confidants and friends to have a drink, and I don't have to think about those worldly busyness, but friends tease each other and laugh together, which feels very good. I have also imagined that a few years later, when we are all dying and old, we are still together, in the afternoon sun, several gray-haired old people, holding hands to play, in the whistling wind, witness our friendship in this life.

The friendship that was once lost, step by step in the years of life, forgetting the bits and pieces of it once was. Looking back on the long road of life, I have had many friends, and we used to have fun and spend the ups and downs together. However, as time passed, few friends remained with me.

It's not because the distance makes people unfamiliar, nor because the estrangement between hearts makes people lonely, it's just because we're too busy, and each of us is addicted to a busy life and can't extricate ourselves. After being busy, when there is a gap, I think of my former friends, always want to pick up the pen to write a letter of greetings to my friends, and always want to say a few warm words, but I can always find an excuse to say: "I am too busy and tired today, so let's do it tomorrow, and it's not too late to do it tomorrow.......""That's it, it's been dragging on, tomorrow after tomorrow, tomorrow is so much?

So many tomorrows inadvertently missed out on former friends.