Divorce? Married? Leave? No results? Tired

If I were you, I would have left early, and I would not be a good man in the world, he would not be a bad man, such a man is not worthy of your guard, and the man a woman is looking for is a sense of responsibility. Leave quickly, there is no grass at the end of the world. Don't waste this man who is not worthy of your love at such a young age.

Love again. Nor should we base our own happiness on the suffering of others.

While something worse hasn't happened yet.

Find your own happiness.

He is now divorced directly with you, which shows how irresponsible he is, and you can imagine how he will do to you. What does he think about marriage and family? Are you ready to marry you after you are divorced? What about the previous family? You should have a good talk.

I think it's good for you to leave, you're only 23, it's still a long way for life, since he doesn't want to divorce, why don't you walk away in style, while you're still young, you have more choices, people have a lot to do in addition to feelings, maybe you love him, leaving him will be painful, but the long pain is not as good as the short pain, if you do a third party, then the future will be more painful, use the identity of the person who came to sincerely persuade you, leave him as soon as possible.

Now that you "feel that he doesn't want to leave", there is no way back but to choose to leave.

I sympathize with you, as long as a man doesn't dare to be brave enough to say that it's no fun, don't be sad, you're only 23 years old, don't get entangled with him, you will meet your right person!

You don't have the right to say you're not a third party right now, and if they're not divorced, you don't have the right to enter.

He's not officially divorced, so you shouldn't have been in contact with him.

In fact, when it comes to this issue, many people are a handful of bitter tears, tears in their eyes, whether it is widowhood or divorce, it is not the result of no one's willingness, and it is also a last resort to divorce. Doesn't it mean that marriage is like a shoe, only you know if it fits? Well, it's not wrong to take off your ill-fitting shoes so that your feet don't get bloody!

However, it is easy to take off a pair of shoes, but it is not so easy to buy a pair or find a pair of shoes that fit. Why? When people reach middle age, there is a lot of powerlessness, making money, and there are very few places suitable for you to work.

Role reversal, the child has become an adult, the previous child listened to you, now, you should listen to the child. At this time, children who have not experienced a lot of world events are generally opposed to remarriage after their parents divorce. In their hearts, even though you are divorced and have not remarried, this family is still there.

There are also many reasonable children who support the remarriage of their parents after divorce, after all, people can't be selfish and only think about themselves. On busy days, it is good to have someone to accompany your father or mother, and you can rest assured that you are busy. Some are different, trying their best to prevent it, and even threatening to sever their relationship, this kind of child, there is no one in her heart except herself, she or he thinks, in case she has to support her stepmother, or stepfather, or property, etc. in the future.

He didn't care about his father, or his mother was alone. I remember that before I came to Xinjiang, there was a woman in the village who was less than 40 years old, and her husband died, and after two years, many tenants introduced this woman to remarriage partners, and as a result, this woman's two daughters, one is more powerful than the other, resolutely opposed, and threatened her mother again and again, if she is married, she will cut off relations with her, this poor mother has no choice, compromised, and has been guarding her two daughters. After the girl got married, she went home a lot, and after slowly having children, she was too busy to take care of herself, so she rarely went home, and a home left a lonely old man, who guarded for more than 20 years, brought up her daughter, and left the desolation to herself.