Why is it difficult for most halfway couples in second marriages to make it to the end?

Marriage is an important event in a person's life. It can be said that a good marriage can bring happiness to him for the rest of his life, but once he steps into the wrong marriage, he will not be happy. Now that many couples are married, some conflicts arise in the slow contact, which leads to divorce, and divorce after divorce.

First, the so-called half-way couples who are not strong enough are sad in the end because they do not have a deep enough emotional foundation, the foundation is not stable, and the marriage is easy to break down in the end. After divorce, people will be more eager to get married, so many times, if the emotional foundation is not deep enough, they will get married in a hurry, and finally find that there is not much affection between two people at all, just a whim.

Second, the purpose of marriage is not simple enough People who get married for the first time will have a yearning for marriage and love in their hearts, full of longing for the future, a good attitude, simple thinking, and will not be together because the family has money. Remarriage is not the same. At this time, people will become materialistic, especially focusing on money.

The purpose of marriage is not simple. In the end, marriage becomes a material product.

Third, I don't know how to love people, and everyone has different preferences and attitudes towards people. Generally speaking, people can only grasp their inner preferences and treat that person with an appropriate attitude only after they have a deep enough understanding. Halfway to the monk's house, they have been together for a short time, they have known each other for a short time, they don't know how to communicate, they have a kind of disdain for each other in their hearts, and they don't want to treat each other as their most important person.

When getting along slowly, two people will inevitably have conflicts, and the marriage will begin to die.

Fourth, there is still a sense of alienation in the heart, and getting married is a very risky thing, because both parties may have had failed marriages, and there is still a sense of alienation from marriage. They feel that the other person is just going through the next part of life with them, just looking for a partner, and not really because of love. Because I have passed the age of love and have been hurt by love, I will not trust someone easily.

Therefore, it is easy for people who remarry to feel inappropriate and easily have thoughts of separation. Marriage is a lifelong affair. If you can, you can insist.

Don't start another marriage because the next one may not be better than this one.

Many halfway couples are together for life reasons, and the proportion of feelings is not so high, and the reason for choosing to be together is mainly to "partner" to live, and more emphasis is on interest relationships. Another point is that due to the breakdown of the previous marriage, it will more or less reduce the yearning for a good marriage, and the relationship management in the halfway couple may be "powerless".

Because most of them come together for the sake of interests, and after getting married, they can't run in well and can't achieve their goals, so it's difficult to get to the end.

Second-way couples usually have children on both sides, and these children will become their conflicts, so it is difficult to get to the end.

Because the two generally have their own children and various housework, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts and quarrels because of the children over time.

Because both of them are married for the second time, it will be difficult to give sincerity to others after experiencing the previous failed marriage, and there will be problems with ex-husbands and children between two people, so it is difficult to go to the end.

Because men and women who are married for the second time will have a lot of concerns, and they will be very realistic after marriage, and they will be especially wary of each other.

Because it is difficult for them to make friends, they have experienced a lot in ordinary relationships, and it is impossible to give all their hearts to each other in this relationship.

Because many second-married couples will take into account the original family, or the children of the original family, everyone may not be together, if the second marriage does not have children, it is difficult to go to the end.

Many people say that the first marriage needs to be bold, because only after trying does everyone know whether it is suitable or not, and it is precisely because of this that the divorce rate of the first marriage is relatively high nowadays. Some people think that with the experience of the first divorce, then they will be cautious about the second marriage, which is one of the reasons why second-married women have higher requirements in all aspects, because they want their second-married life to be more secure.

But in fact, some people now think that the halfway couple life of the second marriage will still choose to divorce after a few years, what is going on? In fact, this is to be considered from many aspects, first of all, remarriage will encounter different pressures than the first marriage. In the beginning, the pressure comes from some new family members that both parties may bring with them, such as their respective children.

After this kind of family members who don't have much emotional foundation are mixed together, the relationship between each other will naturally be particularly tense, and the relationship between stepparents is always a special headache when facing stepchildren.

And we know that, tooRemarriage may face new social relationship pressures, for which the formation of this family is mainly from their previous social relationships, and they have adapted to the original spousal relationship。But once this kind of friendship changes, the outside world needs a certain amount of time to adapt, so in the process of other people's experiments, it will more or less bring some pressure to this reorganized family.

The other thing is that people who remarry also face very real differences of interest between the two parties. Although it is two reorganized families, both parties have their own financial conditions before. When two families are regrouped into one, the economic integration naturally becomes more complicated.

One of the most complicated is the arrangement of various child support, inheritance and property division.

Therefore, in the face of these practical problems, it often turns those seemingly happier second marriages into difficulties. Of course, this is not the decisive factor, as long as two people can reach a consensus and cherish this hard-won happy life, everything can be solved.

But compared with the first marriage, those who remarry will have a stronger self-protection mechanism, and there isCompared with the first marriage, the second marriage also has the experience of divorce, so this is why many people say that the divorce rate of couples in the second marriage is not low.

Because after a few years of life, they will find that they are not as good as their original partners.

Whether it is a first marriage or a second marriage, love requires two people to work together, if one of them has selfishness, it will be difficult to go on together, because, separating only requires one of them to decide to separate! Therefore, to be together, it must be necessary for two people to be sincere, work together, and bless those partners who work together!!

Second marriage: No matter how sincere you are to him, he will still find the junior, my classmate is a dedicated to him, help him, he is still ruthless, and now the dance field is mixed again, separated, fortunately there is no formalities, I am afraid that what will happen, it happened. My classmate is too kind, he has been with him for more than 10 years, and I don't know that he is a scumbag.

If your heart is not together, you have to faint after several marriages!

There are many reasons for choosing a divorce, and it is normal that it is not suitable for divorce. If you don't think clearly about why you divorced before the second marriage, then the second dare may repeat the same mistakes.

The first marriage is from love to marriage, it takes a few years to get married, and the second marriage can be good in a few months, and it is just a different dream in the same bed.

The woman found an old man for a second marriage because of economic reasons, and cheated the house and cheated money.

Because both of them have selfish intentions, it is impossible to be the same as when they first got married.

The first marriage is divorced, isn't it normal to divorce the second marriage? Don't reject the second marriage, you can live it, you can get through it, you can leave if you can't, and it's not that you haven't divorced.

The main thing is that we can't tolerate each other, and we find that it's not okay to live together.

It is already difficult for couples to continue on their journey halfway, so don't choose divorce.

When you divorce, see if your husband is determined to change, and if so, give him a chance, maybe you have a happy future. If there is no change in leaving him, there are no regrets!

This topic, each with a ghost will definitely not end, I will take out twelve points of sincerity to move her every day, we sincerely love each other and help each other, happy forever!

Indeed, yes, it is difficult to go on with a second marriage, because of the economy, because of the children, my first marriage ended, and I raised the children alone, and I have lived alone for more than ten years, and I have not remarried.

The two people don't know each other enough, and after running in for a period of time, they divorce if they are not suitable.

It is not clear where each party is at home, and the high standards in the relationship between husband and wife require each other to take responsibility. Low standards demand themselves, and in the name of beauty, people will not be destroyed for themselves. The word "mutual" is not understood at all.

It has nothing to do with whether the marriage is happy or not. If you love him or her, your eyes will be full of light.

The second marriage is a polite thing on the surface, each taking care of their own children, a heart, it is difficult to do it if you want to be sincere, and the contradiction will come after a long time, and if you don't handle it well, it will be a divorce!

It is a relatively common social phenomenon that men and women who marry for the second time do not live for a long time! The reason why it is difficult for today's second-married men and women to have a good result. To put it bluntly, it is mainly because of economic problems.

Most second-married couples have children with their ex. After these people get married for the second time, the Ming people will inevitably worry about their own economic problems, especially if they have children with their ex-husbands or ex-wives, they will take care of their children more, even if they are with the other half of the second marriage, these people will try their best to fight for more benefits for their children. If you do this for a long time, it will inevitably cause dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction in your heart.

If the two people in the second marriage can understand and respect each other, and do things for each other's sake, there will not be so much trouble.

Women should not divorce easily when they reach the age of 30, because you don't know that men after the age of 30 only have interests in their hearts, if you want love, I tell you accurately, men after the age of 30 are not without love, but have no ability to love, because men are coming, and their parents are old at the age of 30, and many things have to be taken into account, so he can't give you love.

Because he gave all his love to his children, he divorced.

You can't even get the first marriage, let alone the second marriage.

How can a humanoid mad dog have a humanistic family view?

Second-married couples, outsiders seem to be quite harmonious on the surface, but they actually know their own warmth and coldness. People who are married for the second time always have one foot outside each other's hearts, and they are in the same bed from beginning to end.

There are three types of children alone when a couple who marry for the second time and have children after marriage. One day, the two were busy with housework at home and the children were playing outside, when suddenly the neighbor told them: "Your children have a fight with other people's children."

The wife said to her husband: "Daddy, you go out to see if it's my child or our child who fights with others."

That must be giving all the love to the child, not to the other party.

Mainly because they have more calculations, so they will break up.

Expectations are too high, and this part of the population is never planned. I don't know what kind of life I want.

Second marriage, whether they can accompany each other to old age, Guan Jian is two words, interests, and if you talk too much, you will speak.

Second marriage, a fake crazy partner to live, it's not interesting.

Nowadays, people are willful, and their attitude towards marriage is also willful! Since there is a flash marriage, there must be a flash divorce! Then I will remarry, and then divorce, and after five years, I don't know that such a thing will become the norm.

The main reason is that everyone thinks it's not good, so they divorced, and it must be a big contradiction.

Second marriage, or more cautious and cautious. It will never be as wholeheartedly as a marriage. Unless you can afford to marry three times, you can do it at will.

Divorce is awakening, marriage is a mistake, and remarriage is obsession.

If it weren't for the children, I would have wanted a divorce. Children are my biggest excuse.

Because the whole country still drinks Lao Baigan after walking around, bulk is never as good as the original!