What does it mean to get married in the countryside, I am bigger than the groom, is it better to pre

Yes, as long as you are not married, you can press the kang.

Kang pressure refers to the night before the wedding, find a few unmarried people, go to the groom's house to stay overnight.

On the first night of marriage in the countryside, finding a man who belongs to the tiger to press the kang means to ward off evil spirits, and it doesn't matter if you are older than the groom.

They are generally unmarried (like bridesmaids and groomsmen), and most of them are cousins of the groom, who are generally younger than the groom.

The customs are different in different places, and in many places some children, that is, boys, are used, which means that there are many children and many blessings.

In most places, there can be no bigger than the groom.

It is impossible to know what the specific meaning of this is a custom, and it is best to do it, which will definitely benefit the newcomer.

Isn't it popular for female juniors to hold gold bricks now?

I don't think it's really worth it to put the house on it, because a marriage requires two people, not one person, and one person can't create well, and the family is not perfect and builds your own house.

I don't know, it's a custom anyway, there's nothing to pay attention to, it's old, it's not big.

Traditionally, you should find a child...

Kiss! You can be famous! Here's the analysis:

The first step is to press the bed, which is called the pressure kang in Shaanxi Mausoleum, which is three days before the wedding, and the man's parents invite the married man of the same generation to celebrate the oak groom, and sleep on the kang in the new house with the groom at night. In the second step, the woman's parents invite a married woman of the same generation to live with the bride. This is an ancient custom, and there are various theories as to why there is such a custom.

Thirdly, I believe that this custom is related to past marriages and the actual state of society. In the past, men and women got married at a relatively young age, about fifteen or sixteen years old, and at that time, the life circle was relatively closed, and the bride and groom knew nothing about men and women, which required a married person to teach him and her about the sexes and enlighten them on the affairs of husband and wife, so as to prepare for the wedding night. Of course, in today's society, there is no need at all, and some individual villages still retain this traditional custom, so there is no need to pay too much attention to it.