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Nowadays, many young people are reluctant to return to their hometowns even if they do not mix well in the city, because they are not used to the life in the countryside after staying in the city for a long time, and they will not be able to do farm work after returning home. And there are no friends either.

Because it is their hometown, people want to save face, and if they don't mix well, they have the face to go back, and they all talk about the return of scenery to their hometown.

Because many people feel that it is even worse to develop in their hometown. So they feel that even if they don't mix well outside, they will do better than at home.

The family situation is very backward, and there is no major development or future when you go back, if you go back like this, you will be blamed by your family, and you will also be despised by the people in the village.

Because these partners feel that even if they don't mix well outside, there are opportunities for development, and there will be many fewer opportunities inside the home, and if they don't mix well, they will feel that they have no face, so they don't want to go back.

Judging from the general situation, most of the young people who go out to work go out to work because their families are farming, and they can't think of anything else except to be farmers. And for farming, everyone will not. You can earn some money by going out to work, but you have almost no income when you go back to the village.

Especially for the villagers, the living allowance of the family and the children's tuition and miscellaneous expenses are not a burden. In addition to working to earn some money to support the family, there is no more money to return to his hometown to start a business and invest. Coupled with the difficulty of finding a suitable entrepreneurial channel in his hometown, returning to his hometown to start a business has become a dream that can be imagined but not dared to do.

It's hard to get a city, but there's a lot of opportunity in the city. As long as you are willing to pay, you can always find a job, and the difference is only in the salary. In addition, the college students who have been admitted in the rural areas understand the hard work of their parents in rural areas, and it can be said that they rely on the sky for food, and they are unwilling and do not want to go back to face the loess with their backs to the sky.

Because in the past, the kind of face facing the loess with his back to the sky all day long, and coming back to farm after college, would make people laugh, and he would feel faceless when he went back. This is what many college students who come out of the countryside really think. In addition, compared with the cities, the rural areas lack good entrepreneurial planning, no goals, and no entrepreneurial awareness.

College graduates who return to their hometowns to start their own businesses also face the problem of insufficient funds for entrepreneurship and development in the process of starting their own businesses. You may say, isn't the state now introducing policies to support? But the reality is that the results are not very obvious due to environmental constraints.

Many young people have also tried to return home and start their own businesses, but most have failed. Because of this, no one wants to come back. Returning to their hometown to start a business is still in the exploration stage for many young people, and coming back is also a choice for very few people.

There is also the fact that small towns are acquaintances. Although it is convenient to live in a familiar circle, this familiarity also represents the solidification, not only the solidification of interpersonal relationships, but the solidification of the entire three views. If you do something more trendy, more individual, and unconventional, you will become an outlier in the eyes of everyone, and a lot of people behind you chew their tongues and talk nonsense.

Therefore, the life of a small town is more refusal to take pictures of personality and new things, and you must conform to the crowd and cannot do anything out of the ordinary. Living in such a circle, it's like there are many people constantly monitoring themselves, just like everyone loves to spread gossip, and many things are spread very quickly. There is also the fact that in the face of getting married, finding a few more people to go on a blind date in a big city is nothing at all.

But in a small town, if two or three blind dates still don't work, the gossip will spread. People around you will think that it is not the environment's problem, but that you may not be willing to start a family with you in some way.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, after going to college, going home to work or going to a big city to struggle, I think location is not the most important, as long as you work hard enough, whether it is in your hometown or in a big city, you will develop very well. Believe in yourself, pay is reported, come on, I wish you all the best in your work after graduation, step by step.

I don't agree with this sentence, I think whether to stay in the big city or go back to my hometown is entirely up to my personal opinion. We have been studying for so many years, and we should have our own ideals and goals. Some people like the bustling life of a big city and the constant progress in a high-pressure environment, but some people like the slow pace of a small city.

And the pressure on small cities is also greater, but it is not as prominent as that of large cities.

If my own ability is not particularly strong, and my family has no background, I think it would be okay to go back to my hometown. Of course, if you have a background and you have the strength, you can go back to your hometown, after all, small cities also need talents. If you don't want to go to a big city because of personal reasons or personal interests, then you can also go back to your hometown in the urban area, or the county seat to take a civil service or work in a public institution.

In fact, when you first come out of society, everyone may not be able to find your dream job. Whether it is a higher education or a slightly lower education,You all have to work hard for a few years to know what kind of life you really want to live, and in the beginning, you just have to try.

After going to college, if you say that your family has no background and no strength, try to go to the big city, don't go back to your hometown, I have a neutral attitude on this issue, and everything is composed of multiple aspects. I think it's like your hometown, and it's not like you're going to abandon your hometown to develop in a big city, but it's best to return to your hometown and build your hometown well. Even if there is no background and strength, but take the older generation of people, they are all self-made, maybe the front process will be very difficult, but now whether it is **, it has been built very well, even if it is a remote mountainous area, for this kind of hometown, shouldn't it be more supportive?

And I am standing on the shoulders of my parents in order to see the world and broaden my horizons. Even if it is not for yourself, you should also think carefully about your parents, whether to stay in the big city to develop, or return to your hometown to fulfill filial piety. I believe that with my knowledge and ability, I can have my own strength and ability over time.

Even if it depends on the background and strength of the family, it will not go far, and the important thing is to rely on your own ability.

And a person in the big city alone struggle, no relatives by your side, is also a very lonely thing, no one to share the joy and sorrow with you, if you return to your hometown to develop, you will feel very warm, everything is the environment you are familiar with. However, if you say that you finally came out of the mountains, then you must not disappoint your parents, and you can also try to work hard in the big city, which is also the best and most direct way to change your family situation.

If you work hard in a big city, you need more of your own ability and strength, and if you are in your hometown, if you don't have a background, but your strength is comparable. In big cities, your background and strength are super strong, because in big cities are elite talents from all over the country, in comparison, you can consider your actual situation and decide your own direction in the **!

After going to university, if your family has no background and strength, try to go to a big city and don't go back to your hometown, I have a neutral attitude. I think there are pros and cons in my hometown and in a big city, and no matter which choice you make, you should actually choose according to your own personal situation. Whether it is to return to your hometown or to a big city, only what is suitable for you is the most correct and suitable, so it should still be based on everyone's own choice.

Big cities mean opportunities, and the salary package will be better than back home. For many people who have dreams and want to work hard to make a career, it is a good choice to be in a big city. Without a background, without strength, it will really be difficult in a big city.

But there is no strength is temporary, through the struggle in the big city, with excellent people, they are also constantly learning, and their ability will naturally be improved. In the long run, you will definitely be able to make a career in the big city and become more excellent.

After going to university, if your family doesn't have the background and strength, try to go to the big city and don't go back to your hometown, I agree with this concept.

First of all, because there is no background at home, you have to start from scratch when you return to your hometown, unlike those college students with family background, who can arrange decent jobs in their hometowns. So, since you don't have a good job back home, it's better to go to the big city and have a good time. We all know that some hometowns have a background and strength, and the children have already arranged their jobs before graduating from college, and they can go directly to report after graduation, and it is not difficult to find a job.

But for students who don't have a family background, it's all on their own.

Then go to the big city to see the world, and maybe you can make a name for yourself! After all, big cities will have more room for development, and it is not necessarily a good thing for college students to choose a stable job after graduation. Young people who have just graduated should go to the big city to exercise and see the world.

If you go back to your hometown to work, you will hardly have any chance of working in a big city. It is better not to choose to go back to your hometown when you graduate, but go directly to the big city to experience it, which will help us go further on the road in the future.

Classmates with family backgrounds are all arranged to work, and we can only surpass them one day by going to the big city to work hard. I have always believed in a sentence, thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, when we meet again, I will not be the same as I was at the beginning. We have no family background, no family strength children should have such courage, have such momentum, in order to raise our heads in front of our classmates in the future, we should go to the big city to fight for a future for ourselves.

Therefore, as far as I am concerned, if my family does not have a background and no strength, I will not choose to go back to my hometown to find a job after graduation, I will definitely go to the big city. Of course, everyone has a different way of thinking about this issue.

This is not absolute, it is gold that will shine in **. If you don't have any ability, even if you go to the first-tier cities of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, you are still at the bottom, on the contrary, you will be even more miserable. I have a classmate whose sister has not had a suitable job after graduating from college, and her family has no background.

Of course, this depends on local policies.

I don't agree with this. Finish college. There is no background and strength.

Do you need to go back to your hometown? This question. It should be said that it depends on how well you study and major.

If you have a good major or academic qualifications, go back to your hometown. Apply for a highway approach. and apply for positions in other units in your hometown.

He should have no problem. If you don't have a background or connections, go to the big city. I don't think that's going to be easy.

There is a lot of talent in big cities. It's even harder to find a job.

There is still some truth in this, small cities and even towns are typical human society, resources and opportunities are divided by all kinds of small circles, and it is basically difficult for those who have no background strength to squeeze in, let alone get a piece of the pie. The good thing about big cities is that there are more opportunities, everyone is about the same starting point, and there are still some opportunities to eat with their ability, and it is worth giving it a try.

I don't agree, there are related households in every place, do you change places with less relationships, or do you have more relationships? No way! So it's the same everywhere, the point is that you have a place where you can show it, a place that suits you, rather than caring whether there are related households or not, there are more related households in big cities, and they are harder

I don't agree that some people have worked hard in the big city for several years, just enough to eat, drink and rent a house for themselves.

If you like to stay in your hometown, maybe you are the first person to bring strength and background to your family?

I agree, because I know that the officialdom in a small county town or town is darker, and it doesn't matter if you don't have a background, it's a dream to take the civil service exam. Especially interviews.

I don't agree, no matter what, as long as it is suitable for my own development, it is worth it, and I have to pay for it.

I very much agree that without the background and strength to develop in a small place after going to university, it is to sit still, and the reason is very simple, because good jobs in small places are prepared for people with background and strength, except for moving bricks and selling coolies.

Hello. This is also possible, after all, there are more opportunities in big cities, and the income is slightly higher, after all, the consumption in big cities is high, and the income is relatively considerable. But it's hard in a big city, and it's not a problem not to go home all year round. The family is also more worried.

I agree with going to a big city for development, because a big city can bring some new opportunities, and the friends I meet are a lot of people with academic qualifications, and most of the young people are just in the era of struggle, and it will be better to go to the big city to break through.