The main manifestations of human abolition, the top ten manifestations of a person s abolition

1. Hesitation.

Worse than recklessness is indecision.

People who are swaying like wall grass, no matter how powerful they are otherwise, are always susceptible to being pushed aside by those who are determined in the race of life. It is inevitable to make mistakes if you are resolute, but you are better than not daring to do anything else. Whitehead said, "To fear error is to destroy progress." ”

2. Procrastination. The plan is plump and the execution is skinny.

A lot of times procrastination is about running away from problems and laziness.

magnify the difficulties in front of you, discourage, and find all kinds of excuses to escape with the mentality that you can drag on one day is one day:

"Boring work", "Harsh boss", "I'm too busy", "It's okay to do it every other day" ......

As a result, we will fall into the quagmire of "work is becoming more and more boring" and "life is becoming more and more boring".

The more lazy you are, the more negative you become, and you fall into the trap of regretting the past and fantasizing about the future.

The accumulation of time can lead to stronger feelings of guilt and self-denial, which can lead to more and more anxiety.

The famous thinker Romain Rolland said: "Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you think that it is comfort, rest, and blessing; But what it actually gives you is boredom, burnout, and depression. ”

Three, three minutes of heat.

Eighty percent of the world's failures come from half-assessed.

People who are "three-minute hot" have never experienced the joy of persisting in doing one thing successfully, because the process of perseverance is always boring and full of frustration, and human nature is to be indulgent and tired.

At the beginning of each year, the first few pages of the notebook are filled with grand plans, and the back is almost blank ......”

I bought a good book, but unfortunately I haven't started reading it yet......”

I decided to get fit** and gave up on ...... after almost 5 days”

Almost all of them have had the experience of "making plans ambitiously and abandoning them in frustration."

A person is abolished, he is in a mess all day long, he doesn't want to make progress, he gets by, he doesn't want to do anything, including the trivial matter of tidying up his room, no matter what his room is messed up with, he will turn a blind eye.

1. There is no more light in the eyes.

A person's spirit is really important, it is a panacea to support a person to go on, even if this person fails everywhere, but as long as he does not give up on himself, then there is light in his eyes, and his heart is still full of hope for the future.

But if a person even begins to give up on himself, then there is no light in his eyes, and there is no yearning for the future.

It is said that the eyes are the windows to the soul and can reveal all the secrets and disguises of a person. If you want to know if a person has been abolished, you can just look at his eyes.

If his eyes no longer have the brilliance they used to be, don't think about it, he has actually given up on himself.

2. Become less and less confident.

When a person begins to be abolished, he becomes less and less confident. No matter what happens, his first reaction is that I can't do it, I can't do it. In fact, sometimes, it's not that he can't do it, it's just that he doesn't want to do it, or he has given up on himself.

If a person is always full of energy and hope for the future, he is different. He will be brave to try, even if he fails, he will not feel ashamed, but will become more and more courageous.

But if a person always says to others that I can't do it, no matter what it is, his first reaction is to excuse himself, then needless to say, he has already begun to relax his restraints on himself, and he has no strength to become a better version of himself.

3. Reluctance to communicate with others.

When a person begins to give up on himself, he becomes more and more autistic and no longer willing to communicate with others.

On the one hand, he doesn't have that much zest for life anymore. On the other hand, it was actually the guilt in his heart that was at fault.

He may also know that his fall was a mistake, but he can't control himself, and he can't stop his own downfall. So he feels guilty while enjoying it, and when he encounters others working hard, he regrets it even more. In order to make himself no longer uncomfortable, he had to choose to escape.

But this evasive behavior just shows that he has become a coward.

The top 10 manifestations of a person's abolition are as follows:

1. Derailment from the world.

When we start to be decadent, the biggest manifestation is that we don't want to associate with anyone. If you want to close yourself off, slowly, you will be derailed from this world.

2. Habitual hauling and stretching.

In times of decadence, we don't want to do anything. Things are done and we are procrastinated, and we are miserable because we don't do what we need to do on time.

3. No longer clean up yourself.

I often say that we have to learn to dress ourselves. Because your appearance is your calling card, and it is also your dignity.

4. Give up the management of yourself.

No matter what time of year it is, we have to stay in good shape. We must also insist on self-discipline, which is the bottom line and what we must have.

5. Don't travel or study.

I love to travel, and when I'm sad, I like to go out and walk. Look at the outside world and get the energy to live well.

6. Always can't calm down.

Doing nothing is decadent, but wanting to do everything is actually the same. Because there are too many traces of what you want to do, you will not be able to calm down, and it is easy to fail to do anything, and then have a strong sense of frustration.

7. Always want to take shortcuts.

There are no shortcuts in life, but every time it is decadent. We will definitely want to take shortcuts, such as buying lottery tickets or even gambling big.

8. I like to give up when I encounter difficulties.

The lack of resilience, perseverance and perseverance in doing things may be the reason why many people always fail to succeed.

9. Always complain.

There must be a lot of unfairness in life, but life is also the fairest. I always believe that what you give, life will give back to you.

10. Unwilling to listen to anyone's advice.

When you are not willing to listen to other people's advice, you lose the possibility of improving and going in a better direction in life. Because you will close yourself in a small circle and stagnate.

Hello, the teacher thinks there are the following performances! 1.Fear of change, lack of courage to stop losses in time.

2.Only accept fragmented information, and do not carry out systematic and complete combing and thinking. 3.

There is a strict wandering base weight procrastination. 4.I console myself with extreme examples as if they were universal.

5.I often compare my weaknesses with the advantages of others, and find that I can't compare with my mentality**. 6.

The mind is full of the past and the future, but there is no present. 7.I don't live regularly, I don't sleep well, I don't eat well, I don't exercise.

8.Only do the state enlightenment addition for yourself, not subtraction for yourself. 9.

It is often used as cheap coolies in the name of exercise, which is a waste of time. 10.Always do things with limited returns and high risks, and wait for problems to silently bear its long-term costs.

Everyone's lifestyle is different, some people are particularly motivated, and some people are not enterprising. Under what circumstances will people be abolished?

1. Don't go out to work, just watch TV and play games at home.

Some people are in good health, a talent, they should find a job and live a good life, but unexpectedly, such people have no intention of looking for a job at all, and they are always at home. Lying on the sofa watching TV, playing computer games, or swiping mobile phones, the house is not cleaned up, I rarely cook, I order takeout when I am hungry, sometimes I play all night at night, and I fall asleep during the day.

2. Alone, without any friends.

There are some people who are very withdrawn, always like a person, do not have a friend around, and do not even contact their relatives, can not experience the happiness of family and friends, because a person has been for a long time, will be afraid to see others, whether it is someone he knows or someone he does not know, for him is a stranger, he does not dare to look into the eyes of others, dare not communicate, and slowly will not like work, do not like life, feel that everything is not interesting, such a person, in the eyes of others, is abolished.

3. Unmotivated, messing around every day.

Each of us should continue to make progress, be strict with ourselves, have a goal, and constantly remind ourselves that we will succeed one day if we work hard towards this goal. But there are also some people who are dazed every day, don't know where their tomorrow is, eat, work, and sleep are like coping, and they can't experience fun. At work, the people who joined him were either the leaders of the company or the backbone, and the salary level was quite high, only he did not have any improvement, and even there were always mistakes in the work, and he could not reach the satisfaction of the leader, even if he knew that it was not good, but still did not change.

In the case of no motivation, such as me now, because my parents have bought me a house and a car before marriage, and my parents' retirement salary is not low, they give me some pocket money from time to time, resulting in me now has no motivation to make money, and I really have no desire to work except for checking the Internet and looking at my mobile phone every day.

In a comfortable living environment, people will be abolished. Because a comfortable environment can easily make people lose the motivation and purpose that they should have in life, so that the whole person will begin to be muddy, and it will basically be wasted.

Two situations, one is not short of money. A decadent one.

Personally, I think that if you want to avoid it, then you must learn to improve yourself, not always rely on others, and learn to improve your own shortcomings.

No matter what happens, you have to dare to face it, and you must have the spirit of helpfulness and tenacity, and you must also have the spirit of independence, but I think the most important thing is that you must have the spirit of daring to fight.

We must improve our management ability and comprehensive ability, have a strict plan when doing things, do not offend people, must be confident, and must withstand the test.

Unwilling to struggle, unwilling to work hard, dependent on others, unwilling to change life, unwilling to face challenges, must work hard to live, arrange their lives reasonably, and learn something.