Expecting love and being afraid of love Afraid of loneliness and falling in love with loneliness

Updated on psychology 2024-07-31
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I want to have love because I am tired of living alone. I hope to have an emotional support. Fear is because true love is short-lived, so they are afraid of love, afraid that love will make them sad, and like to be alone.

    So you don't have to worry about love. You don't have to think about the feelings of others in doing anything.

    But such people often have a contradiction, and whenever they face the things they are afraid of alone, they will hope that someone else can comfort them or solve the things that they are afraid of.

    That's how it is. Over and over again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Dude, we are the same, is life all about enjoyment? What is so terrible about love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I believe in fate

    I didn't force it to get it

    Maybe you're in a period of hesitation right now, and your friends have their own significant other, but are they truly happy?

    There are many good things, and maybe you will end up with the truest happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm a girl, I have a boyfriend, but I feel that his existence or not is not very important, and the focus of some people's lives is not on love! Some people are destined to be lonely for the rest of their lives, but they also live a colorful life! I also wish my life could be more exciting......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The same goes for I have a good song to share with Cao Ge's "Mr. Lonely".

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Plain is true.

    Go with the flow.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Falling in love is not because of loneliness, I want to say that I am not in love because of loneliness, my first love was in April last year and it only existed for half a month, because I found that the man didn't like me at all, and then I felt that we didn't need to come down at all, so I proposed to break up, I remember crying very sadly, I felt that the world was unfair to me, and then I found a boy on WeChat, because I think he is very talented, and I hope to be able to get his explanation, There is also a small reason that this boy confessed to me during the winter vacation before I fell in love with my first love, I didn't care at that time, I thought he was joking, and then later, this boy accompanied me over for a long time after the breakup, a whole semester, which side he confessed to me several times in this semester, I didn't agree, because I thought it was not good to tell filial piety, just broke up with the previous one, and then found another one like this I felt that I had a problem with my character, and then I always refused tactfully, Later, chatting with him gradually became a habit, I felt that I was more and more inseparable from him, on the day of the end of the summer vacation, in the morning, he chatted with me, and then asked me, like me, let's be together Then I opened the topic, and then he told me, whether it was a failure again, and then I told him after reading it, yes, this time it was successful, I found that I liked him little by little, got used to his existence, got used to his good morning and good night, got used to his warm and cold know, got used to his gentle voice. I don't fall in love because I'm lonely, I balance the draft because I like it, I must be with him because I like him in this life, don't be with him because of the future, don't cry and wronged yourself, the person you like falls in love, and the person you love gets married, this is advice to each of us. I think I found the guy I got married to, and he's my current boyfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not that I'm afraid of loneliness, but I'm afraid of boredom, and falling in love is to relieve my worries and relieve boredom, and it's also a way to get along with others in the suishu school shed to chain the town, and every time I fall in love, I can help myself grow.

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