Now I am so annoyed psychologically, and I am very depressed and irritable

Going to the man's door to buy things is actually just a thought. I want to ask you, how much does your boyfriend buy when he comes to your house? You prepared 2,000 yuan when you don't have a job, which is enough to show your sincerity.

Besides, what the elderly need is not material, what they want is true filial piety, you can tell them very calmly that your current ability can only do this, but if you work in the future and make money. You'll just be filial to them. But beauty, I want to tell you, don't work hard for your parents for love.

Although I am not very old, I have experienced a lot, everything is fake, and my parents are the most real.

I want you to buy something when I go to my boyfriend's house, just buy something, just buy some fruit, and it makes sense to let your boyfriend pay for the rest of the money.

How much do you have to buy for 4,000 yuan? Two thousand is enough, it seems that you are not married yet! Then don't waste it so much, if your boyfriend is really good to you, you can talk to him!

You can buy it as you see fit, and in my opinion, a few boxes of Brain Platinum are enough.

Actually, you don't have to buy so much. A few hundred will do. Besides, you are still students, and you are still studying. If your boyfriend can't even figure this out. Hey, good failure.

Buy some cigarettes, buy some wine, that's all we Chinese people give gifts, what else do you want to give?

If his parents are out of town, you can bring some souvenirs from your hometown. There's no need for everything to be so good. It's not bad to go empty-handed. You're going to have to talk to your boyfriend about that. Of course, the phrase empty-handed cannot be said.

Hello. Explain the situation frankly with your boyfriend, he loves you and will consider it.

Life will not be too complete, and the right attitude is bitter and sweet.

When the moon is full, it is lost, and when the water is full, it overflows. It is common sense that there is always something to lose in the process of gaining. Therefore, in life, in the face of what we have lost, we should be as calm as water, and in the face of what we have gained, we should also maintain a normal heart.

Life is like a play, and everyone is the only director who controls their own life. Only by smiling at life can we have a life realm with a wide range of seas and skies. Life will not be too complete, and the right attitude is bitter and sweet.

Sow a realm, harvest a mentality, sow a mentality, harvest a character, sow a character, harvest a behavior, sow a behavior, harvest a destiny.

Sow a destiny and reap a result.

If you have a positive attitude, you can be happy and you will change your destiny. Optimistic and open-minded people can turn ordinary days into fun, can make heavy life easy and lively, can turn the yin of suffering into sweet and precious, and can make trivial things simple.

Qu Yuan sighed in "Lisao": The road is long, and I will go up and down to seek. When people are on a journey, they will always get a lot of other people's and their own experiences and experiences, and these experiences have brought us some insights and thoughts.

The truth is often simple and clear, but because the mind is blinded by dust, the simple truth becomes complicated, once you figure it out and understand, the journey of life will not be left and right, dazed and overwhelmed. The world is too big, life is too short, if you don't direct yourself, how can you understand the meaning of life?

The meaning of life does not lie in how many rugged roads we have taken, but in how many philosophies we have learned from them. This timeless wisdom will help us to recognize the true life and enjoy the joy of life.

It is human nature to pursue pleasure, but it is also inevitable to experience suffering. If people do not go through setbacks and sufferings, they cannot be strong, mature, transcendent, and reach the advanced realm of life. Remember the ancient adage:

The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and empty their bodies", so that it is possible to achieve: "Looking back silently, that person is in the lamplight"! Therefore, don't be under the illusion that life is always that round.

In the journey of life, it is not terrible to encounter frustration and confusion, as long as the belief in our hearts does not shrink, even if it is miserable, we will not take it seriously.

Luoying withered in late spring, and the next year was brilliant again;

The yellow leaves fall in the autumn wind, and spring is full of life.

This is not a kind of attainment, a kind of detachment, a maturity of life, and a practice of human feelings. "There is no way out of the mountains and rivers, and the willows and flowers are bright and spring." The tribulation is about to pass, and the light is at hand.

People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny, and this matter is difficult to complete." The journey of life, suffering and happiness together. Suffering makes people think, suffering makes people mature, suffering makes people strong, and suffering makes people cherish happiness.

Happiness is in life, but we need to discover, to explore, to develop, to create. We have to be our own directors and interpret our own lives well. May happiness walk with us and make ourselves more chic, more transcendental, and happier!

Talk to a close friend and release it.

Hehe, now children will have so many worries when they are so young, when you are in a bad mood, call a few good friends to go out to play, play basketball, play football, or if you want to stay alone, find a quiet place to sit for a while, if you really want to vent, go out for a run, if you can't do anything about the family adults, then you can only go with the flow. Hope you're happy.

1: If you are in a bad mood, you can change the topic, or do other things, such as listening, watching TV, going out for activities (running, walking, playing ball), etc., which can distract yourself and relieve your bad mood.

2: Tell a friend or loved one about your upset, or you can cry. At the same time, you can also drop pillows and punch bags, but you have to pay attention to who you vent to! There is also a place, an occasion, and it should be appropriate to avoid hurting other people.

The above can keep an optimistic attitude!

Judging from your story, there is a very important reason why you didn't make it clear, why do your younger siblings' family come to your house for dinner when they have their own home? Is it because they can't do it when they get married, or are their parents used to them and want to see them every day?

The family relationship is very complicated, no matter how good you are to the elderly, if the brother-in-law's family comes here to eat is the intention of the elderly, if you don't accept them, or even drive them away, it is likely to break the old man's heart together.

Being a daughter-in-law is very unruly and simple, whether the family relationship is harmonious or not, there is a very important character who is your husband. When dealing with family problems, you must not do everything yourself, but discuss more with your husband, and it is best for your husband to speak on behalf of your family's opinion, rather than as a daughter-in-law.

Therefore, the first thing you have to do about your younger sibling's family coming to your house for dinner is to communicate with the elderly, communicate with your husband, and find out the real reason why your younger sibling's family came to your house for dinner. Then, ask the old man and her husband for their opinions to see if they feel the same way as you, if they all welcome their younger siblings and their families to come here for a reunion, but you are the only one who is unwilling, then you have to find the reason from yourself. Is it too tiring to cook and clean up the dishes and chopsticks every day, or is it too expensive to eat every day?

Where is the root of your reluctance, and then express the reason for your resentment to your husband very sincerely and without emotion. Look at what your husband's opinion is, if he is willing to help you clean up the dishes and chopsticks in the future, if he feels that the economic conditions are not bad at all in the food money of several people, then he will share it with you, and help you cook and clean up the dishes and chopsticks in the future, and your mood will be better.

Finally, from your personal point of view, one is that you need to accept your husband's parents, younger brother and sister-in-law from the heart, and when you see them as your parents, younger brother and sister-in-law, will you still be so disgusted and mindful? The second is to adjust your mentality, cherish family reunion as a happy thing, and you will not always be disgusted by the chaos of others.

Does your husband know about this? He's here! You can't go overboard with this, or you'll get into trouble.

First of all, if your husband knows, discuss it with him, and hope that he will get your mother-in-law to deal with it, and tell him about his difficulties euphemistically, if your mother-in-law understands things, she will also know something.

However, if it still doesn't work, then why can't you find an excuse to get out? Let's say that a friend gets married today and goes out to a banquet, and I hope your brother-in-law will help with the cooking, and I will also talk to your mother-in-law. Your mother-in-law has no problem now, right?

Guess your brother and daughter-in-law have an opinion, and there is nowhere to say, isn't it?

The third trick, if the brother-in-law's family is too extreme and unreasonable, then it is best to find out the matter. Find a day not to cook their meals, tough gestures. Of course, this is a bit excessive, but it is also a helpless move!

You should listen to the advice, I hope it can help you!

Hello, this is something that cannot be retreated, you must be brave to tell your mother-in-law what you think, if your mother-in-law is very persistent in slowing down words, then you can think about it in a different way Qi Jing. Gao which is cautious.

You can discuss it with your husband, why is it difficult for yourself to do your best, you have tried your best to get better,,, and you are not a public servant, can't your husband and your brother be considerate of each other? It's so ignorant,

Upset is a signal from deep within your heart to you: you desire to feel calm and joy, and you can get peace and joy!

You believe that your friends will help you, and you also believe that you will be happy and cheered up through the help of your friends, and you feel better when you think about it, don't you?

Everyone has emotions, there are all kinds of emotions, and it's natural and normal.

Emotions are a reflection of thoughts, and what kind of thoughts you have, what kind of emotions will be generated;

Troubles show that you see the bad side of the problem more, and if you pay attention to the things in life that make you feel happy and happy, you will feel different.

Think about the things or people you have met that have bothered you, can you look at them from a different angle and perspective, and can you dig out a cuteness in them (of course, this is certain). Appreciative thoughts and eyes will bring people and things that really make you admire.

Trouble may be that you put a lot of pressure on yourself, you feel that some things are more important than your feelings in life, so you ignore your feelings and don't love yourself in particular. Through this opportunity, learn to care and love yourself! This is to turn the so-called bad thing into a good thing.

You are a healthy, happy, happy, rich and lovely being, and you have come to this world to experience your happiness and joy, which is where the flow of your life flows, to be consistent with it, and to live the life you wish to live.

Wishing you happiness and happiness!

Friends, everyone is annoying, but all the troubles are born from the heart, so the heart is calm and naturally cool.

Are you male or female?

Men have a strong ability to resist pressure, but there is pressure to cause irritability, if there is nothing that must be done in the near future, and there is nothing important to wait, it may also be idle and moldy so annoying. Men are generally too busy or too idle to be irritable unconsciously, and the recent movement of celestial bodies is easy to make people gloomy and weak, so it is recommended that the solution is exercise.

Women's irritability may be physiological, it may also be psychological, and they are susceptible to external influences, in addition to being irritable when they encounter things that cannot be solved, bad temper, and even bad endocrine can also cause upset, it is recommended to exercise, or divert attention to their own happy projects, such as hanging out with good friends.

Basically, it is unrealistic for a person to be happy forever, just find out the root cause, find the problem, and deal with the problem.

If you have stress in your heart, find a way to release it that suits you, such as playing games, listening to songs, or running or something. It is also possible that you are confused about your attitude towards life, and if possible, you can find someone to talk about what is in your heart.

Most likely, you don't have enough time to rest, rest more.

No, maybe it's because of stress.

It's the mentality, and it's easier to be casual.