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Spend more time with them, and slowly you will be infected by their atmosphere. Learn to take the first step and try to talk to them, and you will find that they are actually listening, and they don't hate you. If your classmates really hate you, will they still bother you?
Think about it, if you really hate someone, would you bother her?! Don't put too much pressure on yourself, the topic is casual, you can try to talk to the classmates around you, talk about anything, study, life, and slowly you will find that you and everyone can get along. But don't affect your studies, it's not worth it, be more confident in yourself, I believe you can do it.
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Just find a way to blend in with them, dig more, don't explode in silence, die in silence....
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Can I make a friend? This kind of thing can't be solved in a moment, slowly try to make a few friends, if you are really introverted, try one first, and this friend will slowly understand the topic between them, and slowly understand and penetrate, can't be so frustrated because you don't have any friends? The first sentence is really, make a friend o(o
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Introverted personality can also be changed, the more introverted you are, the more bold you must express yourself, and you must train yourself to be extroverted. Actually, it's not that difficult, try to speak in front of people a lot, once or twice you will blush, speak incoherently, too many times, I really don't feel anything, really, I have experienced it myself.
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You don't need too many friends, it's enough to have a few confidants. If you don't like the kind of gatherings that you can't talk about, you can also participate in all public welfare activities, which are meaningful and can exercise your communication skills. Smile often when you see people, whether they are strangers or familiar people, so that others will also be infected by your smile and take the initiative to approach you.
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Personally, I don't think there's any need to be nervous, friends are expensive and not expensive, as long as your friends really treat you as brothers and friends, then it doesn't matter how little. As for being introverted, it's actually very easy to solve, as long as you go out to participate in more social activities, you will gradually become less nervous, and you will start to be extroverted.
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Introverted personality has few friends, at this time you must break your original boundaries, don't set boundaries for yourself, be brave to change yourself, try the way you treat life, what if you communicate more with others.
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First of all, it doesn't matter if you have fewer friends, it is enough to have one or two friends who treat each other sincerely, and secondly, you can try to overcome psychological barriers, open your heart, participate in more social activities, and meet more friends.
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I think you can work hard to improve yourself first, learn a little more knowledge, and then you will have common topics when you meet others in the future, and you will become familiar with them when you communicate more, and you will have more and more friends.
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Introverted personality and few friends, you can choose to be a little more cheerful and take the initiative to make friends, or you can get along with these friends well, don't force yourself, the number of friends does not determine the quality of friends.
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Introverted personality and few friends, I think you should do more social activities, such as attending more class reunions, and then communicate more with your classmates during the party, open your heart, and then you can also make some online friends, usually chat with netizens, so that you can make yourself more cheerful.
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I think I can expand my circle of friends, and during the holidays, I can often go to some parties, meet new people, and expand my circle of friends, such as friends who like to read. You can also join some book clubs to find friends who share the same hobbies.
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I think that friends are not more but fine, it doesn't matter if there are few friends, as long as we have a good friend, introverts will always make a good friend.
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You should have a lot of contact and contact with other colleagues and classmates, don't always stand in the corner when there is a party, communicate and communicate with them a lot, let them drive their enthusiasm, dare to express their true thoughts, and don't be cowardly.
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Introverts have very few friends, mainly because they are not good at communicating with others, so they don't know how to make friends, and they rarely participate in social activities.
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First of all, introverts don't like places with a lot of money and don't like to communicate with strangers. Secondly, introverts rarely talk and will not take the initiative to socialize with others. In the end, introverts are mostly sensitive, and it takes a process to get along with them to become good friends.
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Introverts are not good at communicating, have a slight social phobia, and only move their own circles, so people with this personality generally have few friends, but they will be very sincere to their friends.
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In life, introverts have few friends, introverts, most of their energy comes from themselves, introverts don't need friends at all.
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Because introverts don't take the initiative to socialize with others, and if they don't socialize with others, they naturally have no friends.
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Introverts don't like to talk much, aren't good at socializing, and don't like crowded places. If you don't talk to strangers, you won't expand your circle of friends, and you will have fewer friends.
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I think you're half the battle now that you've realized that you're lacking in this area. Teaching friends is the best stage when you are a student, so first of all, tell yourself that I need friends, but don't ask yourself to find a very "iron" buddy, because this also has to be fateful, and of course, don't ask the classmates you get along with to reach your ideal level. I see your situation and say that you and your dormitory classmates don't have anything in common, so don't force yourself to mingle with them, just respect each other.
But everyone needs the support of friends, so create opportunities to communicate with other people, if you are a little shy at first, you don't have to say what kind of great conversation, just participate in them, and maybe you will find the right friends and circles for you.
Student life is rich, so I suggest you participate in more activities, and don't stop participating because you are not sure of winning or standing out, in which case you will lose the same opportunity. Don't deny yourself first, just take the first step and you'll find that your previous worries are nothing more than that.
Habits determine character, and if you want to change your personality, you must first change your lifestyle, and don't lock yourself off anymore. In this way, others will not be able to see your mistakes, but over time, others will ignore and lose sight of you, and you will no longer be able to find yourself. Now you just lose yourself, because you can't get the approval of others, and you deny yourself.
As for wanting to repair the relationship between classmates, don't rush to success, and don't lose your principles just because you want to reconcile with him, as a boy, I think playing a football game, patting your arms and having a meal will be reconciled. Try to join them and it will be fun. Don't think about the problem very complicated, a little self-deprecation can not only make yourself relaxed, but also make your classmates think you are cute, you might as well try.
As for the question of being quiet or active, there is nothing good or bad about this, this is everyone's way of life, and it can't be done deliberately. My opinion is that as long as you treat yourself sincerely and behave generously, everyone will accept and be happy to be friends with you.
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I've had the same experience as you.
When you are in school, it is normal for all your experiences to be focused on your studies, and if you go out into the social work, your personality will naturally change.
You don't need to change yourself too much, you just need to be sincere when you treat others, and the friends you know after work will definitely be more friends than you make in school, better, more sincere, you can add me as a friend if you need it!
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This society is always just an individual to adapt, you have to learn to fit in. Gradually, you will have happiness, then friends, and troubles (there are friends who are dedicated to your troubles). There is no such thing as introversion or extroversion, it's just that everyone hasn't met a partner to talk to!
I love to talk, but I can be lonely in the dead of night).
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Xiao En Xiaohui is very popular at school, nothing to bring any specialties or something, eat a small meal together, play with them more, it's easy to get on the road, I didn't like to talk before, and now it's okay.
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To make friends, you should first light and then thick, first sparse and then dense, don't be reluctant. If you feel good, you can make friends slowly, and if you don't feel good, you can make a nod to make friends. As long as you are sincere, you are not afraid of having no friends.
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The fundamental reason why you don't speak is that you are proud of your character, and you don't want to try things you don't like, you have to change your introverted personality, in fact, it's not about letting yourself talk more, you should learn to try to recognize other people's behaviors more, learn to appreciate other people's topics, so that you can have enough space to communicate, start to change from the heart, don't need to talk more, try to be a good listener, in order to be a good prosecutor.
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It's very simple, find people with similar personalities or interests to you, and slowly get along, and over time you will have more friends.
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At school, that's easy to do, you can participate in clubs, collectives, activities that interest you, no matter what your personality is.
People will pay attention to you, maybe you meet someone with a similar personality, after all, there are still many people with your character, and you will have a common language... Remember that being introverted doesn't mean you're lazy...
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Treat people with sincerity, win people with trust, and persevere!
I believe that one day you will find true friends! Thank you!
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It's good to be cheerful and care more about the friends around you.
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This is actually very simple, don't your friends also have other friends, you can meet your friends' friends through your friends, everyone has more contact, more understanding, there will always be the same interests as you. Also, you can register a small number QQ to chat with your classmates online, so that you should be more open, and when you talk very speculatively, you are saying your name, hehe.
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The weakness of introversion lies in the fact that they are not good at words in interpersonal communication and getting along, and it is already great to be able to find their own shortcomings. As for the question of how many friends there are, I personally think that more is not always a good thing, and it is enough to have a few who can confide in each other.
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I feel the same way, but it doesn't matter, it's actually good to be alone.
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It's okay to have a true friend for life.
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It doesn't matter how many friends you have, if you have a confidant, you will be content!
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