How do you say break up after a year and a half of love? How can you break up after a year and a hal

Updated on society 2024-07-11
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He is not worthy of you to get along with this kind of person, from what you say so much, can you be sure that he is a very attentive, very dishonest person, you have spent that money on him, you feel that you are lost, break up directly, and don't buy him a laptop, see you write so much, I feel that this person is very hateful, you can ask him for the money you gave him before, or forget it, don't care so much, so hateful a man, there is no need to waste youth and money on him.

    Although my words are a little ugly, I think people like him are too hateful and shameless. Of course, my words are just my personal opinion, I hope it will be useful to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm a man and I don't fancy your boyfriend. Emotional matters are too complicated. If I were a woman, I would say that I broke up, first, because I was insecure, and secondly, although I was older, I wouldn't take care of people.

    Women looking for someone older than themselves want to feel secure and take good care of themselves. Think about it in your own heart, will this man be happy after marrying him? Think about it for yourself, is everything you get along with unpleasant.

    Vexation.. Before marriage, kill in the cradle all the evils that will cause divorce after marriage. Choosing a good partner is the beginning of happiness in life.

    in order to face the future life together.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Break up decisively, little white face...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do you love him very much? Cherish it, there was once a sincere love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, the first time you fall in love, you are relatively simple, and many people are easily confused by the surface of the other half. Because he is good-looking, he fell in love with him. But if you don't see his true face, it's easy to be deceived by friends.

    Many women who fall in love for the first time are deceived by scumbags. The reason why they are deceived is that they are too simple, and they only look at their appearance.

    So pay attention to the following:

    1. Don't develop too fast.

    There is no experience in falling in love for the first time, so don't be so quick to confirm the relationship. How do you know that he is your future husband and she is your future wife. Feelings need to be tested by time, and after a long time, you can't tell whether it is suitable or not in a short period of time, true love or fake love.

    So, in order to protect yourself from developing too fast, you have to develop your own future.

    2. Don't lose your mind.

    Many sideline people lose their minds after falling in love, and they can't extricate themselves from falling in love. Men and women are the same, don't fall in love, your IQ will be zero, and you can't tell the difference between good and bad. Sometimes parents see that this person is not a good person, but you just think that he or she is a good person, that is, you think that he or she will not marry, and she will not marry.

    Your parents are more experienced than you, and sometimes you still have to listen to what your parents say.

    3. Don't lose yourself for love and lose your original life.

    Many people put 100% of their hearts into falling in love for the first time, in fact, the best is to love others for eight points and love oneself for two points. It's not that you don't love others with all your heart, but that you don't love others and forget to love yourself. First of all, we must learn to love ourselves in order to love other good people, don't die to love others, don't work for others, friends, family don't want anymore.

    I wish you a great day at university.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1.I think your girlfriend may have been pursued by someone else and changed her mind. Maybe it's the guy she had a crush on in high school.

    2.After all, you have been together for so long, maybe she is tired of it, and you are studying for graduate school in a different place, which is also very fortunate.

    3.If your girlfriend is the kind of person who can't stand loneliness and loneliness, then you don't have much hope, after all, the breakup rate of long-distance relationships is already high.

    4.If you want to redeem it, you can ask him the reason, why break up, if she is in love with someone else, persuade you to let go, otherwise it will be you who will be hurt, sometimes you love someone and respect her ideas, maybe you will have a chance in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If a girl decides to break up, she must have her reasons, and it is best to have an in-depth communication with her to see what the problem is**? Targeted communication will definitely be better, having said that, since he is so resolute, it is estimated that he has also made up his mind, and advises you to adjust your mentality, accept the reality, and believe that you can't go, and you can't force it if it doesn't belong to you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For every adolescent boy and girl, the first love has a very important place in the heart, and if they break up, it will be very painful and painful.

    But your essay gives me the feeling that you are superficial love, not real love, but you may both feel that you love each other very much for some reason. If both parties really love each other, they will always think about each other, start from themselves, and change what is unacceptable to the other party for the sake of the other party. But I can't see it, you said that you have been tolerating him, and he has slowly learned to tolerate you, I don't know what you mean by tolerance, if you can tolerate each other, it is impossible to "always have contradictions", you have been together for three years, I can't see that you have changed anything for each other, you are still willful, and he is still "difficult to tolerate you" when you are willful.

    But we always have conflicts, we have experienced a lot of things together, and no matter how difficult it is, we have survived. We often quarrel and quarrel, break up and black, and do all kinds of childish things. Almost every time, I relented and wanted to talk to him, and he started to lose his temper with a bad attitude, and then he was able to reconcile every time.

    If only one party does, or does more, then for a long time, this party will feel aggrieved, very tired, there will be resentment, and eventually it will break out; Also, this mutual concession and mutual relocation comes from the heart, and it will be released after the incident, otherwise, if it accumulates too much, it will explode. Have you done these two "mutually"? No!

    So there is "But one morning I accumulated too many grievances" in the "problem supplement". You are still in the stage of love, you broke up, it hurt two adults, if you become a family in the future, have children, you still haven't changed your shortcomings, and finally break up, the child who is hurt the most at that time will leave a lifelong shadow on the child, is your conscience okay?

    So, hopefully you can calm down and think about how much you love him? How much does he love himself? If you find that you still love each other, and the other party also loves you, and you feel that the two of you can and need to get along, sit down and talk about it, and admit your mistakes to each other (at this time, remember not to point out what the other party is not, even if the other party does not say all your shortcomings, you can't say it, and wait for the opportunity to talk about it later), and promise to correct it, and agree to supervise each other.

    In the future, if you really do it, then you will slowly change your shortcomings, and you will get along more and more harmoniously, happily, and happily.

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