My trusted friend used to like her I hated, what should I do?

You're not necessarily a little selfish in doing this, don't you think? Your opinion of a person cannot represent everyone's opinion of her, you see that she is not happy, but others just see her as happy. Like someone because the other person is a bit like you, or can see where you can't see each other.

Nothing can be forced. Don't ruin your friendship with him because of a girl, it's not worth it. You should be calm, and a character like you should communicate more and read more books.

This will make you feel better.

Are you his girlfriend or his boyfriend? I'm not sure.

If you're his friend, you should support him anyway, even if she used to be the person you hated the most!

Hatred is the devil!! Why should we take unnecessary time spans to hate someone?

We don't need it, and we shouldn't have it!

Be calm and deal with it calmly, as long as your heart is solid and bright, you don't have to think about the melancholy of the world, just follow the fate!

It is recommended that you read more books on psychological cultivation and communicate your thoughts with your friends. Talking about the one you hate her, you quietly think about it, why do you hate her? Is there some misunderstanding with her?

If there is any misunderstanding, I suggest that you better talk to her and talk to your heart.

The earth is so big, the world has so many people, think about how many people you can know in this life, acquaintance is fate, although you hate her.

If you hate someone, does the whole world hate her? I'm sorry, you're sick psychologically.

Judging by your copycat description, you're not a bad person. You just have some lack of self-confidence. Due to the lack of self-confidence, some anxiety arises.

Although you are average-looking and do not do very well in your studies, I think everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Don't always compare your weaknesses with the strengths of others, so that you will always think that you will always be a failure.

Therefore, you should build up confidence, discover more of your strengths, develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and live your own characteristics.

You are not good at matching manuscripts to sell on the stool to make friends, and you are not good at controlling the situation. There are also many categories of good and bad, and she gives you the wrong answer, is it still good? It seems that she doesn't like to be friends with you, and this is not a good friend of yours either.

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answers: Reasons:1

Your friend scum may have some bad behaviors, such as lying, cheating, robbing, bullying others, etc., which will disgust you. 2.Your friends may have some bad habits like smoking, drinking, playing games, etc., which can disgust you.

3.Your friends may have some bad attitudes, such as selfishness, arrogance, conceit, etc., which can make you feel disgusted. Workaround:

1.Have an open and honest conversation with a friend, tell him your displeasure with him, and ask him to change his bad behaviors, habits, and attitudes. 2.

Try to engage in activities with friends, such as participating in sports competitions, visiting museums, attending parties, etc., to change his way of thinking and change his behavioral habits. 3.Try counseling with a friend to help him change his bad thinking patterns and behaviors.

Personal Tips:1When communicating with friends, be sensible, don't lose your temper, and respect the opinions of others.

2.Respect others, respect other people's ideas, respect others' actions to build good friendships. 3.

Respect others, respect the rights of others, respect the dignity of others in order to build good friendships. 4.Respect others, respect the freedom of others, respect the dignity of others, and build good friendships with years.

Summary. This can be a tricky situation, but what you need to do is respect your feelings and try to keep your distance from this friend. If you feel that your relationship is not what it used to be, you can try talking to this friend to see if there is anything that can be improved.

If you feel that your relationship is irretrievable, you may want to consider ending the friendship and finding new friends.

This can be a tricky situation, but what you need to do is respect your feelings and try to keep your distance from this friend. If you feel that your relationship is not what it used to be, you can try talking to Spike or this friend to see if there is anything that can be improved. If you feel that your relationship is irretrievable, you may want to consider ending the friendship and finding new friends.

Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

Reasons:1Our values are different:

Friends may have different values, such as they may have different religious beliefs, different political views, different lifestyles, etc., which can lead to disagreements between us. 2.Our interests are different:

Friends may have different interests, for example, they may like different sports, different movies, different books, etc., which can also lead to disagreements between us. 3.Our personalities are different :

Friends may have different personalities, such as they may have different emotions, different ways of behaving, different ways of thinking, etc., which can also lead to disagreements between us. Workaround:1

Respect each other: We should respect each other's values, interests and personalities, and not contradict each other because of differences. 2.

Try to understand: We should try to understand each other's ideas, respect each other's perspectives, and try to look at things from a different perspective. 3.

Keep communicating: We should keep communicating, communicating a lot, communicating a lot, in order to get to know Peter better and solve any problems that may arise. Personal Tips:

1.Respect each other: We should respect each other's values, interests and personalities, and not contradict each other because of differences.

2.Try to understand: We should try to understand each other's ideas, respect each other's perspectives, and try to look at things from a different perspective.

3.Keep communicating: We should keep communicating, communicate a lot, and communicate a lot in order to get to know each other better and solve problems that may arise.

4.Respect yourself: We should respect our own values, interests, and character, and don't change ourselves because others are different.

Related knowledge: The relationship between friends is a complex relationship, which is influenced by many factors, such as values, interests, personality, etc. Therefore, we should respect each other, try to understand each other, maintain communication, and respect ourselves in order to better develop friendships.

Try empathy. If it's just a small conflict between friends, it's not a big deal. Good friends have been together for a long time, and it is normal to hate her when they see her shortcomings. It'll be fine after a while.

If after a while you still hate her. There are two ways to do this:1If you still care about her, try to communicate. 2.Decisively alienate her.

ps: If you really hate her, hate her character, hate her as a person. Then it is recommended that you do not communicate with her and directly take method 2 to distance yourself from her.

Because the so-called "the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change" is this truth. You communicate with her, she may have changed at the time, but the essence will not change. You can save a lot of trouble by alienating her directly].

In fact, since you have begun to hate her, it means that you are no longer suitable to be friends. Leave her decisively and make a little more new friends. Don't worry too much about her.

She says and does whatever she does, ignore her. If she talks to you first, you can just say a few things that don't matter. What activities to participate in and spend more time with other classmates.

After a while, the relationship between good friends faded. And you're going to have new friends again, anyway. Do whatever you feel most happy about!

It's important to be happy. Don't let others affect your mood

I've had a similar experience with you, and I have it now, but I don't know how to contact her, or get too close, and be careful when making friends. To look at the quality, some friends can only communicate superficially, and some friends can make friends.

Keep your distance.

Intentionally or unintentionally, distance yourself from her, and slowly, the relationship between you will fade, but do you really want to do this?

Maybe one day, you want to be friends with her again, what will you do then?

Don't force to face her, time can be solved, just hit ** once in a while.