What if you don t refuse? What a headache

Even if you are a brother, you have to settle accounts.

Not to mention friends.

You can ask them to borrow something under the pretext that they don't have money recently, if they don't borrow that after a period of time, they will inadvertently mention to them that they have borrowed money from you, suggesting that they will pay you back, if they haven't reflected it, then directly pick out the want, and don't have this kind of friends in the future, and this kind of friend can't be called a friend, the so-called friends are all caring for and helping each other, they only unilaterally ask you for and don't return such friends are not worth it, and one day they will betray you for profit.

The main thing is that your friends have developed a habit of borrowing money from you and not paying it back.

Actually, I think it's better for friends to talk less about money.

Money is the most emotionally hurtful thing.

Don't go on like this, one day your friend may think that you lend her money is a very natural thing, the friendship of friends can not be without, but also consider whether it is worth it, when they borrow money from you in the future, you can simply say that you have no money, and you don't have it when they still have no money? I think they'll believe it, and you can borrow money from them as often as you want, so they know you're really poor.

Hehe! Don't be passive all the time.

A good friend of mine and I don't get along right now for money.

I advise you to think for yourself too!

Are people very selfish nowadays?

While the problem may seem to be borrowing money, it's not just about borrowing money for you. But you won't refuse!

To be a man, you must know how to refuse! A person who does not refuse is a person without principles!

On the premise of understanding the priority, importance, and value of the matter, rejection is not a bad thing, but reflects your principles of being a person. Don't spoil the relationship between friends for fear of destroying them, don't offend people for fear of offending people; Don't refuse.

If they are really your friends, then they should be considerate of your refusal; If something that requires your help goes against your principles, then you should say no to it. Of course, the way and language of rejection can be tactful, but be sure to make it clear what you mean by refusing.

You will quickly learn to say no, and your troubles will be solved, good luck!

Your heart is too soft, your love is too strong, and your face is too important. You have to think about your coping ability, your ability to bear. Only by being ruthless can you achieve what you do.

Don't think about it all the time. You should understand a truth better, when others borrow money from you, they look at your face and smile, it is in the nature of consultation and request, or a kind of request for help. But when you go to collect debts, you are asking the other party in disguise, and the other party is even more unhappy.

Therefore, it is better to start rejecting people ruthlessly than to offend them.

I've had that happen to me.

I'm also a very thin-faced person, as long as I open my mouth, I borrow, but one of my classmates borrowed it for 1 year, and I haven't paid it back until I was told to pay the year-end bonus until the New Year's reunion, and I didn't mention the ring money to me, and I was embarrassed to talk to him, so I was really dizzy.

Oh, by the way, the upstairs said "IOUs" are all old classmates, how embarrassed to let him write IOUs.

If this kind of friendship can give you headaches and annoyances, then what is the use of that kind of friendship? This kind of friend, would rather not, they are more than a thousand, and write IOUs? If not, haven't you thought about it? Be cautious

You're a good guy.

If only I could find a wife like you.

My friends and I are like this, we never distinguish between you and me. We also borrow money a lot. But it's all borrowed and exchanged.

Even though they don't pay it back, they can help each other when they need each other the most, when they are short of money. If she's really just a person who only eats and doesn't pull, then she might as well break it. Simply point.

It's useless to have such a friend or not. Maybe this kind of person is too selfish and you are too kind.

The best way to break off friendships is to borrow money! Don't lend money to others easily, and don't borrow money from friends.

Think for yourself whether it's worth it or not.

It's okay, it's good, I'd love to get to know you

Since you don't want to hurt someone, that is, don't refuse, you can treat him as a friend, no matter what he does, treat her as a friend, since he likes you, you won't bother you too much, because once you refuse, it will definitely hurt people.

If the person who likes you is a Scorpio, stay with him, if not, explain to him that you are friends, and it is really not good to say that you have a boyfriend.

I'm so annoyed with you, stop pestering me.

We can't make friends in order to pursue the number of friends, we must pay more attention to quality, make friends to make friends, make good friends, not make bad friends, let alone make fox friends and dog friends!

How can I make good friends and good friends? As the saying goes, "the road knows the horsepower for a long time to see the hearts of the people", show their sincerity in daily interactions, and pay attention to the personality characteristics, taste, morality, etc. of the object of communication, only noble character, kind-hearted, sincere friends are worthy of your friendship and cherish. To treat such friends sincerely, show your sincerity and enthusiasm, the so-called "birds fly far with the phoenix, people are virtuous and of high quality", making such friends will be the greatest wealth of your life.

As for people who are two-faced and careful, just say hello when you meet them, just make friends in person, and don't offend them.

As long as you put your heart into it, you won't be rejected, and you just need to be sincere.

The most straightforward way to say no is to speak up.

A lot of hints that can be misleading.

If you clearly don't fall in love with her son, you should speak out, and there is no room for reversal.

Let his son tell his mother.

told his mother directly, his mother was not mentally prepared, and second, he felt faceless.

Tell her son directly, otherwise it will be messy if the cut is not straightened. If you handle things cleanly, nothing will happen.

Think about the rhetoric and explain the relationship sensibly. The longer this relationship lasts, the more ambiguous the date is. You should reject the relationship immediately

According to you, you're not in a relationship! It's good to live a normal life without explaining or rejecting anything...But don't make it too ambiguous or .........It's good within the normal range!

It works best when you have something to say in person, and when you speak, be sincere.

Make it clear to him and let him explain it to his mother.

If you don't want to explain it to his family, it's just a friendship.

Speak clearly to his son and let him talk to her.

To put it bluntly, love and feelings are not child's play, and it is not good to hurt anyone in the end.

Tell her mom bluntly, you think too much, and there is no shadow

Give his mom a hint or find someone to show him.

You can inadvertently pick up your boyfriend's ** in person.

Since you don't love, don't think about it, face it boldly, and tell the truth.

It may be that his son likes you very much and colludes with his mother to help. Of course, his mom must like you, too.

Just tell the

You make it clear to your mother, won't it be solved if you talk about it very much?

To make it clear, to say that it is impossible, we are just ordinary friends, nothing else.

Why don't you want the people involved to know or you don't like each other and don't have confidence in this relationship.

How you feel about him, if you really don't feel it, it's better to say it.

Introduce your boyfriend to your mother.

In fact, the most direct way is the best way.

If you feel a headache, it means that you are a kind person and can't bear to hurt her.

But I know I don't like it, if I don't refuse strictly, it will hurt her. The so-called long pain is not as good as short pain.

Oh, here's how to say no.

1. Be calm and indifferent when you speak, and make people misunderstand with laughter.

2. Make it look like you are concentrating on your studies without distractions.

3. If she has the intention of being your girlfriend, immediately refuse. Don't give her any hope, don't be ambiguous.

Tell him that you're gay, a little vicious, but it really works, and people who like you won't like it anymore, but you'll be in trouble later.

Calm, since she doesn't say that you don't need to care, adolescent girls will have a little longing and little dreams, it's normal to have a crush, and it's naturally okay after a long time. Be yourself as you would be, don't keep thinking. Maybe people just treat you as a "sister".

You can tell him indirectly that you have a girl you like, or tell him about the type of girl you like.

Treat it like an ordinary classmate.

Let's take it lightly. If you don't like her and she doesn't tell you, it's better to pretend you don't know. And don't tell anyone else, because that person will feel hurt.

Academics are the best excuse.

Keep pretending until she confesses.

You can ask her out for a chat and tell her that you can be normal friends, and I think she'll understand when you say that.

Tell her you don't like girls.

You have the right not to like her, but you don't have the right to stop her from liking you!

Say you're good, but we don't call.

Go ahead, blind dates can exercise your courage, practice your eloquence, get to know more people, etc., there are many benefits.

Truth be told, if you really like it, you have to know about her, it's a must.

She doesn't want to be with you, but she's with you all day, maybe she needs a dependency, maybe she likes it

I don't doubt you like her, but also.

Don't feel that she loves you, because your thoughts are single and self-oriented, because people never know what another person really needs, let alone what she wants, her life, her thoughts, not something you can control, in the face of this feeling, what you need is to know yourself, know each other, understand her thoughts, she said that it will be impossible in the future, what she said is really like that, or don't let yourself be annoyed. Did you ask her why? Take all the questions out and ask her!

Good to understand!

Oh. That means that the girl really doesn't like you in her heart.

In the beginning, everyone will have the idea that "the good times are too rushed", but try to express the feeling of heartbeat, and do more interesting things to increase the relationship and make the two people no longer separate, so that they can be intimate. You can't change anything if you sit down and be afraid of separation, so for your own happiness, let's move forward boldly!!

If you really like her, stick to it! There are so many things that are worth sticking to.

It is also possible that she said this because of a lack of security. When she says that there is no future, she may be waiting for you to refute it, waiting for you to give her a planned future that is already in front of her.

If she says that again, don't rush to get angry. Ask her for an answer, after all, it's not reliable to guess other people's minds. Express your sincerity before asking her what she thinks.

Hope it helps.