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As the saying goes, the poor are generous and stingy. Let's talk about poverty and generosity first, what is poverty and generosity? Even if you don't have money, you have to be rich, and many people are poor with money, but they don't want to lose face.
For example, when you invite a guest to dinner, you have to rush to pay for it even though you don't have a lot of money in your pocket. There are also courtesy exchanges between relatives and friends, obviously they don't have it, even if they borrow money, they have to be generous, there are many people who slap their swollen faces and become fat. And because of their limited economic conditions, they are afraid of being looked down upon by others and looked down on by others, so sometimes people don't fall down, and they have to die to save face and suffer crimes.
At the end of the day, the poor do it because of low self-esteem, and it is vanity that is at work.
There is another kind of person who likes to pretend to be poor even though he is rich? The reason is very simple, one is afraid of others borrowing, just imagine, in real life, in order to borrow money and not pay it back, relatives and friends make a fuss against the door god and face the enemy, and some simply cut off contacts, and it is not for nothing that they go to court for borrowing money and not repaying it, sometimes it is easy to borrow money and it is difficult to repay it. Therefore, those rich people pretend to be poor and do not borrow money is the best reason.
There are also rich people who pretend to be poor because they don't want to boast in front of others, because there are not no extortion people in real society, so they have to guard against it. And then these hard-earned money is hard-won, it is the result of their own hard work, spending money must be planned, living a long life, and will not learn from those who have wine today and are drunk today, and drink cold water without alcohol tomorrow. As the saying goes, people are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong, so why bother boasting in front of others and showing off themselves?
Another reason why rich people like to pretend to be poor is that their desires are endless, and no matter how rich they are, they will never be psychologically satisfied.
Speaking of pretending to be poor, I think of my classmates in college, her family joined a catering project on the Sanyi Wu Merchants Franchise Online, and there were more than a dozen branches at that time, but she always dressed very plainly, never boasted in front of her classmates, and every time she went out to eat, or had any activities, others always paid for it. Although her family is rich, she likes to pretend to be poor. Once I secretly asked her, your family is rich and poor is poor, why do you deliberately pretend?
Aren't you afraid that your classmates will say that you are stingy? She smiled and said that the reason why she pretended to be poor was that she didn't want to cause trouble because of money, let alone offend her classmates because of money, so she simply pretended to be poor and didn't have any trouble. Through this incident, I was deeply touched that rich people don't like to be public, and they all like to be low-key.
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If the world divides people by wealth, then it can be divided into two kinds of people, one is poor and the other is rich. But if it is divided at a deeper level, then it can be divided into "rich people who love to pretend to be poor" and "poor people who love to pretend to be rich", "people who do not pretend to be poor and do not pretend to be rich", so why do these types of people appear.
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The earth is low into the sea, and the man is low into the king. He said, "Okay. ”
In human society, the truly rich and successful elites are almost all people who are good at "pretending to be poor". In the news, they are often seen wearing cloth clothes and shoes, eating coarse tea and light rice.
In the life around me, people who have strong work ability are almost always people who are good at "showing weaknesses". They are very humble and always tell others about their shortcomings.
What these people have in common is that they are well aware of the "underlying rules of socializing". Become sociable, improvised, and if it's not a sociable person who can help everyone, everything won't go smoothly and the bad guys will get involved.
Guiguzi has "The way of the sage is yin, and the way of the fool is yang." It is easy for a wise man, but it is difficult for a wise man. He said, "Okay. ”
The principle of things of the wise man is hidden, and the principle of things of the foolish man is hyped. So smart people tend to succeed, and stupid people often fail.
For example, Ma Yun said that "the biggest mistake in life is to create Alibaba", Ma Huateng said that "it is not only the size of the family, but also an ordinary family", and Liu Qiangdong said that "I don't know how beautiful my wife is". Shirts are closed.
A discerning person will know that these remarks are really exaggerated and empty. But why say that? In fact, they deliberately show their weaknesses, deliberately putting themselves on the same plane as the professional public.
Showing weakness is a very advanced wisdom of dealing with the world that can reduce and eliminate the resentment and jealousy of many people. Those who are successful in their careers, the lucky ones in life, jealousy is inevitable, however, show weaknesses in an appropriate way to maximize the resolution of these negative effects.
To be honest, people like Jack Ma are exposed on the front line and advertise how much money they have and how much ability they have, which will arouse the disgust of many people, and their careers will definitely be negatively affected.
However, they deliberately exposed some small shortcomings and showed some foreign appearances, which not only expanded the influence of their careers, but also enhanced their affinity, and won the favor of many netizens.
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No need to install! The best way to pretend to be poor is to turn yourself into an ordinary person, and accumulate wealth in a place where others can't see it.
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Buy fake clothes and shoes, cry poor from time to time, keep a low profile, etc.
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We are all poor, how to pretend.
If you can, put on the rich.
Not better.
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Rich people are accustomed to a rich life, they pretend to be poor, saying that they are experiencing life, but in fact, it is another manifestation of **, no money is pretending to be rich, and their hearts are relatively empty, afraid that others will look down on him, pretending to be rich, and satisfying their vanity.
Money is not everything, but no money is impossible, you should know this, material society, there is no way.
Because money is not easy to earn, the money of rich people is accumulated, and they pay much more than the average grassroots.
Why are the rich in this society so stingy?
Money people won't throw money around, millions are considered to be selling money, not much, and if she breaks up, she won't be able to take a penny.
Unless it is a loser, and no one dares to care, the richer they are, the more they care about money, they can lose anything, including family affection and conscience, but they must not be without money.
Choose the love of someone who is only willing to give up his possessions may be only one percent and give up the love of someone who is willing to give her everything he can, your friend is not very intelligent, but he is quite suitable for business.
The question is are you willing to give her love with all you can?
Centuries of time, contemporary good, ancient rivers and mountains, now new, forever renewed.
If I like a rich man, it's not because he's rich. It's because I don't have any money!
At present, the hatred of the rich (to be precise, it should be hatred of injustice) is very serious in this society, and for most rich people, everyone would rather believe that the money was obtained from illegal channels than by labor. No way, being low-key is at least good for your safety and the affinity of the people around you. At least it doesn't hurt to be low-key
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What do you mean by that? Some people get rich because they are stingy, but not all rich people are like that.
Most rich people are just stingy with other people, not to themselves.
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