Why don t I like to make friends with people who are richer than me?

It's because you don't have a lot of confidence, right? What is there to be rich? Self-confidence is important!

You're still a student, it doesn't matter much, just be confident, don't be money-worthy, take money too seriously now, it will make your future road deformed!

When you go into society, don't do that, because a wealth formula, if you want to know how much wealth you have, you don't need to ask yourself, calculate the total wealth of 10 friends around you, and then calculate an average, which is your property. Of course, it's not to say that you're going to shoot rich sycophants or anything, it's just that you should communicate with them more and learn how they make money. Just like playing chess, playing chess with a stinky chess basket every day, there will be no growth in the next life.

There is no direct connection between money and people's morality, and rich people are not necessarily bad in character. After all, money is just a tool.

Normal, it's not a big deal, don't take it personally, I've stepped into society, and now I'm angry when I see money.

I'm sure many of my friends have attended class reunions to a greater or lesser extent, right? The gap between the living conditions of my classmates is really getting bigger and bigger. The once inconspicuous and mediocre classmates are now thriving.

Look at yourself again, your grades were at the top when you were in school, and now you are still just an ordinary office worker.

LZ needs to change that mentality.

What kind of people do you like to associate with, this is your freedom, but not all poor people like to take advantage of others, many people who are not rich are very backbone, they do not necessarily like to take advantage of others, and if you associate with such people, they may be really good to you, but if you are with rich people, they are not necessarily really interested in you, they may be using each other. Therefore, in the process of dating, the first thing is to find a person with good character and who does not like to take advantage of others, and then you can associate with such a person. How to understand a person's character?

Master these, so that you can recognize a person 1 to see whether he is trustworthy, such as whether he will take the initiative to repay the borrowed money, and whether the promised things can be done Honesty is the foundation of people, and whether a person is worth dating depends on whether he is trustworthy. Some people borrow money with good words, but when it comes time to repay the money, they find all kinds of excuses to shirk it. 2. See if he is selfish and whether he only cares about his own feelings It is not the shadow of Zen that is called an impact when others work, but when a person's behavior brings a certain amount of trouble to others, it has already caused an impact.

Getting along with this kind of person who only cares about his own feelings is easy to bring negative emotions to himself.

3。Look at his speech and demeanor.

People who are good at cultivating and destroying also know how to listen when they express themselves. Most people are more eager to express themselves when chatting, and everyone pays more attention to their own affairs than other people's affairs.

If the other party is very good at listening to your ideas when chatting with you, no matter whether what you say is useful to him, or whether the content itself is interesting, he will not interrupt you, and even confide in you about some negative energy, he will not only not be disgusted, but also willing to help you give advice and help you get rid of the bad feelings. That basically concludes that he is a very empathetic person.

Making friends with this kind of person will give you a sense of peace of mind, and it is not easy to find someone who listens to you carefully. Someone once said, "I think people who are good at listening are more trustworthy than people who are good at speaking."

You are too extreme, poor does not mean that you like to take advantage of others, generally speaking, the character of the poor is better than those who have some money and turn their noses to the sky.

Then keep the principle that you want to interact, that is, if you are a general friend, if you should be a confidant.

My roommate is a rich second generation, and we all like to be friends with him, because he is usually very generous, taking us to dinner, going to K songs, and never letting us pay a penny, everyone likes such a good friend.

I feel that there are many kinds of rich people, I have met two rich people, I am at the same table in junior high school, every day I feel that I am rich, under the table are half a bottle of mineral water, paper is used paper towels, and arrogant, never put others in my eyes. After graduating from junior high school, although he was in the same school as him in high school, he never paid much attention to him. In the unit I am in now, there is a female colleague, a rich second generation, a car bought by the family, but very polite, very good to everyone, because I have just joined, I am not familiar with the working environment, and I am a relatively silent person, but every time she takes care of me, afraid that I will be alone, often talk to me, chat, and listen to colleagues in the unit, she is also very hard working, such a person I am willing to make friends with her, she will not give me money, but she is a very good friend, you can chat with me in the future, go shopping, and play.

There are many rich people, and there are many types, and rich people are also people, so why can't they have friends because they are rich?

Things gather in kind, birds in groups, the same pace is coordinated, people with slow pace want to catch up and can't catch up, in a good friend can not let the earth for you not to turn waiting for you, slow pace of heart will also blame yourself.

Don't make any big senses, just one reason, they feel that they should get some benefits.

Don't worry about borrowing money from you. If you're in trouble, you can borrow it from a friend, how nice.

Quite simply, the society that the rich come into contact with and the connections they receive are all different.

It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish, of course, it is to learn to fish with rich people.

If it belongs in your life, if not, something will happen, don't push. People go out, swear, how much to eat? How much?

Is it already one hit it is doomed, the other half is the future, and the effort has changed? Let's be honest: if everyone is rich, then there are no poor people?

If everyone could be a leader, no one of the following? If everyone had a career, no one would be happy to work, right? Don't people blame the world for being unfair?

Don't envy other people's lives, don't blame yourself?

People have money, others are smarter than themselves, deadlier than they have, and work harder than themselves, people have ever had their hands, will there be today's gains? A little agricultural harvest? There's never a memorable thing in this world to get off the car and let you pick it up?

Half life, half effort of the latter? Understand what hard work means? Is it a harvest?

How can you be disgusted with self-motivated people and not think about it? If you don't get someone else, learn to find the reason in your own way, isn't it good enough, not hard enough, trying hard to make money? Am I sleeping, playing games, or doing something upsetting?

If you change the world, you must learn to change yourself.

But no matter what type it is, we have to cherish the situation and have fun every day, which is the most important thing. It's hard for the rich to fight, I don't work hard, I can only be poor! Other people are better than you, you're not wrong, you have to do what you have to do, not your good people, compare what they're doing.

The poor and the rich are a relative concept, and the poor are a basic concept. This is the concept of a relative concept of the poor, that is, all the rich must reach the rich and are not good at running and managing. It will also be bad, so I think you'll agree :

There are only a few rich people, but there are also a few who are absolutely poor, and most of them should be middle class. Of course, you have to have a reluctance, you have to have a never-say-nothing mentality, and the most important thing is to continue to occupy the area.

If you don't accept your steps, even if you go back, you won't be able to reach it, even if you have a small goal again, you'll reach, and if you don't have feet, you can only talk about everything. They have money is their thing, the poor, you will rely on yourself, the poor, as long as you are diligent and willing to suffer, you will stay away from the poorer. Don't care about others, the key is to look at yourself and have confidence in yourself.

Try to manage your life, do business, work well, study is good, as long as you do your best and don't give up in any way.

Because people know their own shortcomings better, but they don't necessarily see the shortcomings of their friends, and most of them can only see the good of their friends.

Because many people don't see the difficulties of their friends around them, and they don't see when they are thrifty, many people think this way.

Because people will have a psychology of comparison, watching other people's lives have a taste, but in fact, there are different degrees of bitterness behind it.

From the perspective of others, you are not as good as them at all, and your ability is just talk on paper, divorced from reality, so ambitious, exaggerated, self-righteous, and not good at all in actual action.

Are they not as tall as you? Not as heavy as you? Doesn't look as good as you?

Not as long as you? Why don't you be cheap? Inferior to you in terms of academic performance?

Doesn't have as much time as you do? Colleague relationship is not as good as yours? Doesn't eat as much as you?

Girlfriend weighs not as much as you?

Actually, whether there is money or not has nothing to do with these dimes. You can think about it, why are they richer than me? Not where they are inferior to me.

It's not as good as you, why don't you have any money,

Can you make it clear that what is inferior to you and what is inferior to you?

What do you say about this question? It's that you're not trying hard enough.

I definitely don't like such people, crying poor all day but not working hard, you are not terrible to be poor, but you must work hard, don't be proud if you are rich, because others have not spent your money, you must be self-reliant and self-reliant, because you have to look down on yourself, others will not take you seriously, the truth is also the last word!

Don't hold vanity to get a few words of praise or sympathy, as long as you pay seriously for excellence, your light will naturally illuminate life, you don't need to be how good you are, because the vast sea of ordinary people is too much, as long as you have a sincere and natural heart, what you bring to others is justice is sunshine, fresh and comfortable and beautiful, is the goodness and enthusiasm of human nature, your fragrance and your personality charm ......

It's not terrible to be poor, but don't be ignorant and hypocritical! You are miserable and negative all day long, you don't know that the evil fire will come, the person who hangs the poor all day long, you will become poor if you are not poor, poor is not a reason and is not glorious, all day long brings negative energy to others is garbage and stinky ditch, ignorant and swear words are extreme, will be inexplicably angry and indifferent, with such a person! Nature will also pollute your soul and affect your three views of life!

Such a person can't tell what is good, beautiful, sincere, and filial piety, and it is boring and unmotivated to give others a feeling of urgency, and he is lazy and greedy all day long, and he can't see others succeeding and rich, jealous and hateful of the rich and hypocritical, drunk and not recognizing the pot of wine money, and his mind is full of beautiful dreams to enjoy, and being with him is to dissipate and suppress boredom and pain, and can be with such a person unless it is like a gathering of things, normal people should be as far away from him as possible!