I don t have the courage, I m really useless, what if I don t have the courage?

When you have the courage to try it once, you will find that it is not as difficult to talk about as you think, it is a big deal to make a mistake once, and young people are afraid of doing something wrong! ~

How can you do it without opening your mouth? Love is something you have to fight for, you know?

If you don't have the courage, you should cheer yourself up.

Now that you know that you don't have the courage, you should find a way to cheer yourself up.

Usually communicate more than others, take the initiative to communicate with others, so that the courage will gradually increase.

Hello, if you don't have the courage, you have to train yourself. Give yourself self-confidence and make yourself braver. Slowly improve your courage, which requires you to correct it slowly.

You can choose some high-intensity sports to train yourself, such as mountain climbing, rock climbing, long-distance running, etc., to train your courage and dare to face all difficulties and challenges.

Teach you 8 ways to exercise courage, 1. Actively participate in some group activities to overcome your timidity and timidity. 2. Dig into your own points and increase your positive heart. 3. Act immediately after clarifying the goal.

4. Communicate with different people. 5. Correct your view of your own shortcomings6, create a neat appearance and a straight walking posture7, strengthen your beliefs8, and actively hint at yourself.

You can find your friends to give you courage, or you can read some books to change yourself, improve yourself, and make yourself shine, then you will have courage. When you feel that you are good, your courage will come.

Courage sometimes needs to be exercised, when you feel that you don't have courage, you have to secretly cheer yourself up in your heart, tell yourself that you are the best, nothing can not be done, as long as you have confidence, you will be able to succeed, so that you will slowly become courageous.

If you don't have the courage, you must be self-confident, and change your perception of the outside world, others, and you through your self-confidence.

If you don't have courage, you can improve and increase your courage, and there are many ways to increase your courage, you can get out of your comfort zone and face more people and things, don't rely on others, increase your self-confidence, and show yourself in the crowd as much as possible. Don't care what other people think, you are you. It's okay to believe in yourself.

Courage can be exercised, and if you realize that you lack courage, that's a good start.

Nowadays, many medium-sized and large cities have some extreme sports, such as bungee jumping. In your spare time, you can find an extreme sports club with a good reputation, and you can exercise your courage by trying a few more times.

Cowardice, no courage, this is the character that many people show, what should be done, the first one, first of all, this is a way to show that you have no confidence in yourself, so you must have self-confidence, feel yourself, so that you can have confidence and courage.

Second, we must master knowledge, improve our ability, and if we have something superior to others, then we will have a hard waist, we will have confidence in ourselves, and we will be superior to others in what we say and do, and we will not be cowardly.

If a person does not have the courage, it means that he has insufficient confidence to do things on his own, then, under the premise of lowering, if you want to make yourself more courageous, you must know how to be self-reliant, learn to encourage yourself, and increase your self-confidence, so that you can let yourself gain more courage.

If you don't have the courage, you need to learn how to increase your self-confidence and courage ability, sometimes if you don't have the courage to give yourself a little self-confidence, if you don't have the courage to do anything, it will definitely not work, only to improve your self-confidence and ability to dare to do something that you dare not do, so that you will become very courageous after a long time.

If you don't have courage, then you can only lose a lot, you can only force yourself, let yourself become brave to confess to the person you like, and when you encounter unfair things, you can come out and tell the other party as soon as possible, only in this way can you change your sluggish situation.

The lack of courage may be due to the fact that you are more introverted, first of all, you can communicate more with your friends, make yourself more extroverted first, and make yourself a little more lively and sunny.

No matter what happens, try boldly, do it boldly, don't be afraid, you will fail if it's a big deal, but you must learn to sum up your experience and be more courageous next time.

See more and get in touch with the outside world, know what your desires are, you will know what you should fight for and what you should give up, and you will not be afraid. I don't have courage because I want what I encounter, I don't want to fight because I feel very difficult, and I feel a little unwilling if I don't get it, but I feel nothing.

Without courage, it is generally because of a little inferiority complex in the heart, not confident enough, usually in life, you can properly behave yourself, exercise your courage.

If you don't have the courage to show that your psychological quality is more fragile, and the result of lack of exercise, you should hone yourself more, make yourself bolder, and you will slowly change yourself after a long time!

Courage comes from confidence, you have to have confidence in yourself to have courage, you can try to exercise, your personality will become cheerful and your body will become stronger.

If you don't have the courage, you can create luck for yourself, let yourself do something that you can't do without doing, I tell myself in the mirror every day that I am the best, I can cheer up, if I cheer myself up every day, it will also be of great help.

Finally, it is said: "What kind of world everyone lives in, he has his own cause and effect, and also his own cause." ”

I'm just afraid that one day when I'm asked, "Why are you still here?", I can only clumsyly say, "Because I don't have the courage anymore." ”

That's why we have this post.

Speaking of which, everyone gains courage in different ways.

If it's a big Kumamon, whenever I encounter a bottleneck in my work or life, I will go downstairs and buy a cup of the simplest whole sugar bubble tea, take a sip of pearls, and then I'll be fine.

Sometimes people ask, "But can you solve the problem by doing this?" "No, but I gained the courage to solve the problem. ”

But that's not a reason to have a few drinks a week (no.

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Then find a way to improve your self-confidence, I don't know what you don't have courage for, is it because you meet someone you like, don't you dare to confess to him? If you are afraid of being rejected by the other party, you can actually send a WeChat message to the other party to try it out.

Courage is something that can be cultivated and exercised, and cultivating courage is a difficult but necessary process.

Some people can develop courage by getting rid of shame, while strengthening their belief that something must be done and, more importantly, confidence in themselves.

Courage is cultivated little by little, and you need to keep doing something to increase your experience in order to make yourself more courageous. You have to do more things to build up your self-confidence, try to persevere in doing it, and succeed, and slowly you will have courage.

Do the impossible and let yourself keep failing. After getting used to it, vanity is put aside. If you succeed, then self-confidence rises. You know, if a person only does things that are less than his ability, then he will become weaker and weaker.

The character created by the original family, and the parental education also have reasons, ability and financial resources are synonymous with courage, and the reason is that there is no strength, and the so-called art masters are bold. You have to have confidence in yourself, exercise from small things, you can try to communicate with yourself in the mirror, dare to look into other people's eyes, and learn to communicate.

If you don't have the courage now, I think you should still be confident, as long as you cheer yourself on, cheer yourself up, I think you will slowly have a lot of courage to do these things, so make sure you make yourself brave.

There is definitely a reason for not having the courage, find the reason and solve it as soon as possible. If you don't have the courage for the time being, then let yourself learn more and improve your ability, confidence is the foundation of courage!

Courage is something that needs to be determined by your character or your ability, if you are very good yourself, I believe you will have this courage to accept a lot of reality, I hope you are so brave.

Life is like a journey, you don't have to go back to your destination. After that, there are only some thorns, mountains, and rapids. Life is not full of splendid morning glow, it is a web woven by the silk threads of pain, suffering and joy.

Therefore, when we are frustrated, we have to use it to overcome the tribulations we endure. After a large ship on a backpacking trip, Robinson's sole survivor lived in isolation for twenty-eight years. He went through hardships and perils, and died nine times in his life; He experienced the pain of not having fresh water, overcame the fear of living alone, and survived the long rainy season on an uninhabited island.

What kept Robinson tenacious? It's courage! It was the power of courage that enabled Robinson not flinching in the face of difficulties and setbacks, overcoming many unimaginable tribulations, overcoming his spiritual despair, and surviving tenaciously on the island; He found some timber from the wrecked ship, built a house, and built a stake around it to prevent wild beasts from invading.

When he came to the desert island, food became a problem, and Robinson finished eating the food ready on the ship, and began to hunt, because sometimes there was no prey to catch, and he had to go hungry, so he decided to sow food, and after a few years, he finally ate the fruits of his labor.....In this way, Robinson overcame the difficulties with courage and finally returned to his hometown on a British sea liner. In this year's "Big **", a seven-year-old girl was buried under the rubble, and when rescuers found her, the little girl was already scarred, and her mother couldn't help but shed sad tears when she saw this scene.

But the little girl still smiled at her mother and said, "Mom, why are you so timid, I don't cry, you still cry!" Seeing her daughter so brave, the mother also wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes, laughed with her daughter, and told her fairy tales.

Through the efforts of the rescuers, the little girl was finally rescued. The audience was all moved by the little girl's bright smile and touching words, and couldn't help but burst into tears. See!

How powerful is the power of courage! It can make people strong in harsh environments; It can also make people optimistic in desperate situations. Let's use the power of courage to face difficulties, meet difficulties, and overcome difficulties!

Cheer up once said that he loved you, and today, he still loves you. It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. As he loved the fire of the wilderness, he loved her, but he could not bring her back.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. It is the regret that we can't have that makes us feel more sewn; It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Maybe a little regret, a little sadness, will make this answer more timeless and longer.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, and you will reap the rain; I met you just after missing her. Keep walking, and you'll end up reaping your beauty.

A person who never wants to lose you may not be someone who loves you, may not be loyal to you, and sometimes it is just this kind of strong possessiveness with a clear head, they will do all kinds of things that "harm others and are not beneficial to themselves", and it is so natural.

If you have paranoia and possessiveness in your heart, the more you want to get the permanent guarantee of love, the more you will deviate.

Brother (sister), you have a lot of rewards.

Let's summarize it for you in the case of a lot of points.

1.Accept fear: As mentioned earlier, accepting courage is always part of fear, and don't blame yourself for feeling fear. Rejecting fear is also rejecting a part of your humanity, and denying your fears will only make us feel inferior.

2.Worry concretization: Fear is very large** is a pessimistic estimation of uncertain results, under the influence of fear, our attention and observation will be limited, it is easy to find more negative clues that increase the fear emotion, into the cycle of negative emotions.

So the process of writing down our worries can help us clarify the objective situation and give us a more complete assessment of the situation we are in.

3.Clarify the profit and loss: write down the benefits and losses of "doing" or "not doing", make a decision after weighing, no longer think about the original decision repeatedly after the decision, and take out the previous list to remind yourself when hesitating.

4.Set goals: Recall what goals you were particularly brave enough to achieve?

What are the characteristics of these goals? Generally speaking, goals related to our deepest desires or sense of purpose in life are the most courageous, and when we live for the expectations of others, we are easily frustrated and lose the courage to face difficulties. Courageous goals should be meaningful and make us happy in the pursuit of them.

5.Play to strengths: When people play to their own strengths, they will feel full of strength to cope with challenges, and can better enjoy the process, rather than only focusing on the results, too much attention to the results will make us more afraid of failure, self-restraint, and dare not try.

6.Treat things not people: Don't use wrong behaviors to affect your judgment of self-worth.

We should measure our actions by the feedback of others, but by our own yardsticks to measure our own worth ... A friend's stupid mistake usually doesn't affect his value in our minds, but we can't be so tolerant of ourselves. A steady judgment of one's own worth helps to mitigate the negative impact of failure on us while having greater courage to take on challenges, even risks

Uh,,It's almost.。。 To put it simply: no one is going to pay much attention to you. Only let go of yourself, go play, go to trouble, and let everyone see what kind of person you are. I didn't have confidence before, remember to always remind myself to "let go".