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We often say that the men of the Gu family are good men.
The behavior of the women tells us the opposite, does that mean they don't like good men, only bad men?
In fact, from the perspective of genetic continuity, good men, just not in the right place. The "care for the family" that women need is not to do housework, but men who can bring resources to the family, and men who can shelter the family from the wind and rain.
In addition, women also prefer men with high reliability, and reliability is what we call reliable every day.
If a man is unstable and changeable, then in the ancient hunting and gathering period, he may have decided to take a nap at the most critical time, or let it go, and his previous efforts will be in vain, and he will miss the fruits that are about to be obtained.
Reliability also refers to stable emotions and mature behavior. Imagine a man who lacks a sense of security and trust, or a boyish and self-centered man, who may make all kinds of unreasonable demands on his wife, and is more likely to speak ill of others and even use violence.
So, it's not terrible to have nothing, it's scary to be content with the status quo, lazy and unreliable. Such a man will certainly not be liked by a woman.
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3, Cao Xueqin's original work (fragment) said Zhang Xinzhi: It is said that this book is only 80 times, and the remaining 40 times are from another hand, I don't know. However, looking at its whole body structure, such as the head and tail of the Changshan snake corresponding, the root line, there is a whole body movement, and the words and sentences are no different.
Then the forty times that have been increased will be added from the back, and the unevenness will be mixed into the yes, and it will be more difficult than a hundred times that of a book. Although the life of the father and brother and the reward of ten thousand gold are heavy, the idlers cannot be increased by half. [19]
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It shows that this man knows this kind of thing very well.
You might say that he is a philanthropist, fraternity, and so on.
But he is very dedicated to the people he loves and usually has a flowery mouth.
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A man who is merciful everywhere.
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In the midst of a hundred flowers, not a single leaf remains.
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I hate people who can't be decisive the most.
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No one can call it that.
Human nature is sometimes selfish.
It is not possible to generalize.
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Women like good men. Only those who have the ability to think independently and have a heart that tolerates and cares for others can be regarded as a good man. Women in the new era, in addition to life and economic independence, may also have a set of health standards for choosing a partner so that they will not fall into the trap of marrying for the sake of marriage.
In such a progressive era, it is still so difficult for women to find a home, and they frequently turn back? Is it really hard to find a good man, or is it that a woman ignores the man who is already around her and suits her and sets her goals far and high. People have different personalities, society has different individuals, when we look at the standard of a "good man" under the social values, do we also ignore what kind of man is most suitable for themselves, but your good man is not necessarily her good man.
In the current society, in fact, most men and women have traditional baggage hidden in their bones, especially many women, even if they have social status and rich economic conditions, what they need is a partner who is superior to themselves in all aspects. The woman searches for the guy she has her eye on and can become the hero of her life. In fact, this is a kind of dependence psychology, and in the end, they will find that such a concept will prompt them to wait for the rest of their lives.
In the end, I found that the other party was not ideal, but the relationship time paid was too long, and I was reluctant to leave, maybe there are often such sighs, if I can do it all over again, I really hope that we were just friends at the beginning. Only an independent mature person is qualified to fall in love and find a happy life, we must admit that everyone is an independent individual, whether male or female, who is not always attached to whom, feelings are shared by two people, it is definitely not a person who swallows and sacrifices or blindly asks the other party to change.
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Different women like different men, some like the rich and powerful, some like the gentle and considerate, some like the flamboyant, some like the handsome and dashing, and most people like to love themselves and the men they love. If a man is good to you when he has money, but his heart is not in you, then you are lonely.
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Confident men attract women the most.
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This year, the haze has dispersed, and I listened to Ye Lan's words.
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First of all, you have to treat this girl sincerely, think about the girl in everything, try not to do something he doesn't like, I think whether it's chasing a girl or two people together, you have to respect each other and understand each other, so that's the most important thing.
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Treat it sincerely. There is also a trilogy.
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Handsome, caring, caring, mature and steady!
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First of all, you have money, a car, a house, power, knowledge and charm. It hurts, it hurts, it hurts, it hurts, it hurts, it hurts, it hurts, it
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Plutocratic. Tall and mighty. Yushu is in the wind. Humorous and witty. ~!Meet these points. You'll be able to become a gold medal love saint!
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Trustworthy, secure, and understands her (if you're not like that in the first place, don't pretend.) Because don't deceive her.
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First, there must be money. The second is handsome. If you meet one of them, there will be no shortage of women's love, and women nowadays are very realistic.
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A woman usually likes a man she likes.
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The first feeling of appearance.
Transitional stage connotation.
Time goes by money.
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First of all, we must honor our parents, then we must know that we love others, we must be considerate, and then we must have a sense of security, be more aggressive and domineering, and finally we must have a certain economic foundation. As the saying goes, the economic base determines the superstructure. It's the same with feelings.
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The man I like should be self-motivated, look good and not scary, be good to me, caring, considerate, will share housework with me, can cook, be patient, don't lose his temper, share his heart with his girlfriend, and solve it together! Love your family! can't accept flowers, flamboyant tongues, and will only sell mouths.
I will take the initiative to hand over the salary card to me (I haven't asked for it), and I want to create a nest for two people together!
In fact, I have them all. Hehe. I don't know what others want, but what I want is steadfast and stable.
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There is righteousness, such men and women love.
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Don't involve money, you're going to have to wait for the fairy.
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Before confessing, if you can know what kind of boy the other party likes, then the boy will be more confident when he confesses.
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Dizzy, this can also be called unchanged.
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You should look at this problem with a normal heart, in fact, it is a very happy thing to love someone! Since love each other, each other's sincerity is the most important, sincerity for sincerity, love is home, family is happy, happy and perfect family is the most beautiful destination for women, is a safe harbor, men should take on the responsibility of the family, this "is both a responsibility and an obligation", to give their women a sense of security, for men, the most important thing is responsibility, more important is responsibility, emotional marital life is happy or not, but the marriage life of the two should be based on mutual trust and understanding, after marriage There are many trivial things, and when you see it, you will inevitably nag a few words, and husband and wife should be more considerate and humble. As the saying goes, "a hundred years of repair in the same boat, a thousand years of cultivation to sleep together", feelings need two people to tolerate and understand each other, marriage needs two people to take care of each other, this may be your "past life, this life continues"!
Love what you love, no regrets, friends cherish the people around you who love you or you love! I wish you happiness; Sweet feelings, harmonious families, and happy marriages 0
Remember.
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likes men's rhetoric; I like men to hold themselves like treasures; Like the gentlemanly demeanor of men; Like men's appearance; And what a woman loves is all that a man has.
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A woman likes men to pamper her, spoil her, and think about her all day long.
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What kind of man does a woman like, see how many you occupy.
Men like women who are good-looking and have a good figure, that's something for sure.
Don't be idle, be responsible, romantic, considerate, and dedicated! Generally, girls don't pay much attention to their appearance when they grow up, most of them are poor and feel shot, and they like virtue and strive to pursue it!!
Red face knows it, red face is bad: both refer to beauty, but the former is good and the latter is bad.
This society is very realistic, and most women are money worshippers! If you don't have money, you'll suffer from her eyes!
I miss him when I can't see him.
It was a pleasure to be with him. >>>More