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1. Linklater, a well-known American host, interviewed a child one day and asked him, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" "The child innocently :
Hmmm......I'm going to be a plane pilot! Linklater then asked, "What would you do if one day your plane flew over the Pacific Ocean and all the engines went out?"
The child thought for a moment: "I will first tell the person sitting on the plane to fasten the seat belt, and then I will hang up my parachute and jump out." As the audience laughed, Linklater continued to look at the kid to see if he was a clever man.
Unexpectedly, the child's two lines of tears burst out of his eyes, which made Linklater realize that the child's compassion was far beyond what pen and ink could describe. So Linklater asked him, "Why are you doing this?"
The child's answer revealed the child's sincere thoughts: "I'm going to get fuel, and I'm coming back!" ”
Revelation: This is the "art of listening". First, don't listen to half of what you are told to do. The second is not to project your own meaning onto what others say. Learn to listen, listen with your heart, and listen with an open mind.
2. There is a toothpaste factory, with excellent products and exquisite packaging, which is loved by customers, and the turnover has increased for 10 consecutive years, with an annual growth rate of 10 20. But in the 11th year, the performance stagnated, and the next two years were the same. The company's managers hold high-level meetings to discuss countermeasures.
During the meeting, the president of the company promised: who can come up with a solution to the problem and make the company's performance grow, and reward 100,000 yuan. A young manager stood up and handed the president a note, and after reading it, the president immediately signed a check for 100,000 yuan to the manager.
The note read: Enlarge the current toothpaste opening by 1 millimeter. Consumers squeeze out the same length of toothpaste every morning, and the opening is enlarged by 1 mm, so each consumer uses 1 mm more toothpaste, and how much more will be consumed per day!
The company immediately changed the packaging. In the 14th year, the company's turnover increased by 32.
Takeaway: In the face of changes in our lives, we often get used to the ways we used to think. In fact, as long as you enlarge the heart diameter by 1 millimeter, you will see that the changes in life have their positive side, full of opportunities and challenges.
3. A student of Confucius was cooking porridge when he noticed something dirty falling into the pot. He hurriedly scooped it up with a spoon, and when he was about to throw it out, it suddenly occurred to him that a porridge and a meal were not easy to come by. So he ate it.
What I have seen with my own eyes is not true, let alone hearsay. ”
Implication: Selling business is an organizational business, because there are many people and there are many personnel problems. From time to time, we hear the distinction between right and wrong, such as one company attacking another, which often confuses right and wrong and affects confidence.
Therefore, to find out the truth of the matter, it is not easy to believe rumors, so that the career that has been built with great effort will not be ruined.
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An example of looking at the essence through the phenomenon
In the Northern Song Dynasty, there was a mute, and whenever the new prefect took office, he would come and offer a wooden stick, which inexplicably provoked the beating of the government.
This year, Bao Zheng took office, and the dumb man came to offer the stick again. Bao Zheng thought, this person must have grievances, otherwise, he would be beaten every time, why would he still come to offer sticks. But this mute man could neither speak, nor read, nor write, so he could not know why.
So, Bao Zheng instructed his subordinates not to beat him no matter how the dumb man tossed. On this day, the dumb man came to offer the stick again, and Bao Zheng asked the hand stall to smear the pig's blood on the dumb man, making a very heavy beating, and then tied up the dumb man and pulled him to show the public on the stupid street. Then he instructed his subordinates to bring back if anyone cried out for the mute, and to bring him back for questioning.
Sure enough, an old man shouted that he was wronged while parading through the streets. So the old man was taken to the prefect's lobby.
The old man said, "This mute is the stone mute of our village, he can't speak since he was a child, but he can hear. His brother Shi Quan threw him out of the house after annexing his Wanguan family property.
The mute man used the method of offering a stick to the key cherry blossom yamen to complain every year, but every year he was scolded by the rod, and today he was beaten all over in blood, I really can't stand it today, so I cry out for the dumb man. ”
Bao Zheng immediately uploaded Shi Quan to the Yanei, but Shi Quan did not recognize this younger brother. No matter how much Bao Zheng persuaded him, it was to no avail, so Bao Zheng had a plan. He let Shi Quan go first, and then taught the mute to say
Later, when you bump into your brother, you will hit him. The dumb man looked at Bao Zheng in surprise, blinking and shaking his head, looking very scared. Bao Zheng said:
Don't be afraid, you just have to fight, and the official will call the shots for you. ”
A few days later, Shi Quan, who was beaten to the point of bleeding, came to complain, accusing the mute of disrespecting the law of etiquette and beating his brother.
Bao Zheng asked: "If your brother beats your brother, of course, you can't spare it, but if you don't beat your brother, it's a different matter." Shi Quan didn't know what the plan was, and insisted: "He is really my own brother." ”
After Bao Zheng heard this, he shouted: "Since it is your own brother, why do you monopolize the family wealth and not divide the family property to him?" Only then did Shi Quan understand that he had been fooled, it turned out that all this was arranged by Bao Zheng.
Don't be fooled by superficial phenomena, everything has its ins and outs, as long as you observe carefully and think carefully, you can grasp the essence of the problem.
Frogs, calves, ducks, parrots, foxes, gray wolves, fugitives, ancient Xuanwu gates.
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