My mother in law is too strong, how can I get along with her?

In the process of getting along with your mother-in-law, you must learn to empathize, in your daily life, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions, it is inevitable, the important thing is how to deal with contradictions, when there is a conflict with your mother-in-law, don't be in a hurry to argue with your mother-in-law, you must learn to empathize and understand each other. Young and old people generally have different thinking patterns, so there will be different views and opinions on the same thing, so don't rush to argue about right and wrong, communicate each other's thoughts more, maybe the conflict will be solved.

Since you have become a family, you must learn to tolerate each other, although the mother-in-law is a little strong, but it must be a knife-mouthed tofu hearted person, in the daily relationship, we must pay more attention to each other's living habits and personalities, learn to please the mother-in-law, no matter what age the woman, must like to be praised and beautiful, so as a daughter-in-law, we can use this to narrow the distance with the mother-in-law. Learn to grasp the psychology of the elderly, and slowly coax them to be happy, and their personalities will naturally become much more docile.

In the mother-in-law's interactions, communicate with the mother-in-law more often to let each other know each other's thoughts to avoid misunderstandings. In a relationship, only by communicating more will you get closer to each other and understand what the other person really thinks in their hearts. In life, chat with your mother-in-law more, understand her thoughts and living habits, and become good friends with your mother-in-law, so that you will get along more easily and naturally, and you will avoid some small frictions in life.

The mother-in-law is the mother of her husband, so we must be sincerely good to the husband, and these mothers-in-law will see it in their eyes, so that the mother-in-law will think that her daughter-in-law is really good to her son, and will also shorten the distance between each other, so that the mother-in-law feels that this is a real family. Now many women are willing to call their husbands, such a situation, seen by the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law will inevitably be unhappy, the mother-in-law feels that she is reluctant to call her son, but now she is called by the daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law will be a little complaining about the daughter-in-law, which is not conducive to the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

I think that if you want to get along with your mother-in-law, you should respect your mother-in-law more in your daily life, and actively communicate with your mother-in-law, and if you can't communicate, you can communicate with your mother-in-law through your husband.

I think you can try not to mess with your mother-in-law, you can choose to listen to what your mother-in-law says, anyway, it's your business whether you do it or not.

I think the first thing is to communicate with each other, think about problems from each other's point of view, and as juniors, we should learn to tolerate and not worry about them.