Troubles, emotional masters come in, my emotional troubles

Since you still can't rest assured, then pluck up the courage to make sure of her mind before leaving!

But be sure to pay attention to the words must be clear; No more regrets.

I'm facing the same problem right now!

However, I am in a very different situation from you.

Because I have a job!

It's not that you have to work.

The most basic thing you have to learn to wait for is not it?

Since that's the case, don't ask, why are you going to be sad, you still care about her so much after refusing, even if you know the cause and effect, what can you do, will you rest assured when you know? You may feel more sorry for her and sad for her! You'll be more worried about her, so it's better not to know.

Since you have chosen to give up, don't be sad for her anymore, because she doesn't belong to you anymore, it's your own decision. Even if you don't give up on her, will she like you? Will she take your feelings into account?

Will you be happy with him?

There are girls in the world, if you find a few beautiful girls, you will find that every girl has a good heart, maybe there are bad tempers, but that is only a few. Do you know what feelings are? Feelings are born from the beauty of details!

If you only care about her details, you will never find a good girl in the world.

What do you want to know? Do you want to continue to confess?

Ever heard a phrase? As long as the feelings are true, the iron rod can be sharpened into a needle.

Love is not something that can be obtained by hard work, it depends on whether you both really like each other.

Concept is also part of the present, after all, your home is too far away, and if you like it, you don't necessarily be together. Since it's not suitable because of this, it's the same for you to go over, I think she's figured it out. The girl's mind is so conflicted, but when she wants to open up, you try to convince her that it's very hard.

But the main thing is that you have to go over and make it clear to her before parting, so that you won't have a pimple in your heart, and you should also know what she thinks and why she is separated. If you understand that the situation is just because she wants to leave you because of some small contradictions, and he loves you very much, and you have confidence in yourself, then you can also work hard to maintain the family affection and work hard with her. Love needs to be tested, who doesn't have some contradictions and face choices, the main thing depends on how you think rationally, the result is not the most important thing is how you want to think and how to do it so that there are no regrets and hurts.

Don't think too much, start doing things after thinking about it, understand the other person's thoughts and say what you want to say contradictory. Hehe.

Come on, what needs to be said must be said. But don't be unhappy. As you said, if you really want to separate, you have to say goodbye happily. It's all hopeful, and it's also the best understanding of yourself.

I analyze your problems, the main thing is that the environmental conditions do not allow you to be together.

1) If your girlfriend goes to Liaoning, if she doesn't have a job, it will be a financial burden for her, and your family is not very good;

2) If you want to go to Shandong, you will face the problem of finding a job, it may not be smooth, and there are so many things at home that need you. After all, with the death of my father, the situation is very different without you in the family. Further, if you are with your girlfriend, as her parents, do you agree to your marriage, and you can't support yourself, what kind of relationship do you have to talk about?

So, what you have to consider is that the price to pay for continuing this kind of relationship is too great. You say I can run back and forth between the two places, but you can't. It is precisely because you have been in a relationship for 4 years that it is difficult to see the problem at once, and it is difficult for you to calm down.

The process from falling in love to getting married is not a one-step process, and you don't have the financial strength, right? So I said, is it necessary to continue the relationship when I see no results? You are not a god, you can live without eating or drinking.

You are a college student who wants to say that you still have the ability to analyze problems, and you are not stupid, right? You might as well make a comparison of what you want to do, compare the results of the good and the bad, and see what kind of conditions and abilities you have to do what you can do? If you lack too much, don't dream about it, it's better to be down-to-earth.

It's hard for you to continue the relationship, you can think about it calmly.

If I had been 9 seconds in the 110m hurdles, it would have been easy to win the world championship.

Oh, I'm from Liaoning, and he's from Shandong! Hehe, to get back to the point, do you know what it means for feelings to stand the test? ? If you really love each other, don't be ruined by those unnecessary conditions!

Love is love, if you feel that it is torture, it means that you are no longer in love!

What can you do if you go to him Does he have a house Do you want to be a son-in-law If he wants to live a good life with you, he will definitely come Since he said that it is divided, then divide it How to do it Once a woman breaks up with you, it will be sooner or later Instead of waiting for that day to come, it is better to act now.

You have to admit it"Women are very realistic"This fact, then it will be easy to do. Filial piety is more important than love!

Be filial to your family. I used to be too. Talk back to your family for the sake of the subject.。

Eventually, the subject ran away and followed someone who was better than me. Women are very realistic now. And when the lovelorn is at home and smashes things.

Only the family understands. To be alive is to be realistic. Alas.

You can tell her. You go out to work together to earn money. Then buy a house and get married.

Little brother, family always comes first! Whether it's you or her, feelings are a matter of two people, but marriage is never!

Your family is so special, call that girl over.

Together, you can maintain your family.

Perhaps, she already has someone.

Why do you want to force it?

The other party is obviously escaping the relationship.

You are lucky because it took you 4 years to see women clearly.

Bless you!

Don't think about her first, go your own way, and one day he will definitely discover your talent. Good luck.

Don't meet anymore.

Go with the flow. Then take the woman's self and think clearly to be with you.

It's still the same man.

Personally, I think that if you talk to a girl about another problem with a boy she likes, she will definitely not agree If you like her, be nice to her Women's hearts are very soft I'm also a girl, so I know I'm sure I'll be moved by you slowly But then again, emotional things can't be reluctant, so you have to think about it If she is worth it, work hard If it's not worth it, don't waste your time If you can be friends, be a friend If you don't want to do it, you'll be sad and you won't see it, go find a better girl who belongs to you, and it will definitely bless you.

Be bold and careful!! Old-fashioned but effective!!

Since you don't want to focus all your energy on it, then you should study hard!! You're still a student, and there's still a long way to go!!

Now that she has a new boyfriend, you can bless her well!! Don't think about the past all day long, it's all in the past, people have to live forward, not backward!!

It's really a terrible pain to not be together, but always float in front of your ears and eyes.

But now that it's in the past, don't regret it. Think about it. It's your true lover who is on the other side of the world. God is helping you pull the thread together.

Don't let your thoughts be full of sorrow, don't let early love become a stepping stone in your future life, true love is only each other in your heart. There is no substitute for others. If you can find someone to replace her, it means that she is not important to you.

You just don't want others to wear your old clothes. And by their own side. So, now you have to read hard.

The wife who loves you is waiting for you to finish your struggle to find her.

A good man doesn't have to worry about marrying"In recent years, China. There are far more women than men every year. "My teacher said that. "So don't fall in love too early. Men have ambitions in all directions. How can a little woman be bound? "

Suggest yourself don't think about her. I think you also know that since this is already the case, no matter how much you torture yourself, the result is that you have nothing after the college entrance examination. Buddy, calm down in the third year of high school, don't see her, don't have anything to do with her, take a good university, there are many good girls.

You better ask clearly, but I don't agree with the opinion of the 2nd floor, and the feelings that come back by touching the other party are unreliable.

Wait until she calms down, and then let's talk!