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No, love will produce family affection when it grows, that is, the kind that depends on each other very much, even if you lose your feelings, but the feelings are still there.
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Love is love! After getting married, it will turn into family affection! Feeling is very important when you are in love! Love also needs to be maintained and maintained by two people! ~
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I think so, because the expression of love starting to slowly dissipate is still relatively obvious, and you will feel that the other person does not want to take care of you very much.
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It is true that love begins to fade away, because if two people are not in love, then being together, it will be painful, and they will always find the shortcomings in each other.
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I think it will, you will find that the other person is less and less talking to you, he will not take care of you when you are sick, and you will obviously feel that the love is fading.
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I think yes, the other party doesn't care about you enough, so you don't feel like you're in love, that's loving the wrong person.
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I think so, because in my opinion, falling in love is a very beautiful thing, and even if the two quarrel, there are still "pink" bubbles around them. If you don't feel in love, then I don't feel the need to stay together.
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I don't think so, it's that you don't like him that much, so you don't feel like you're in love.
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You have this kind of thought, in fact, many people in college have it, because of what, because everyone around you is in love, and even some people have changed a few objects, but you have been single, at this time you will begin to doubt yourself, doubt whether you have a problem, or no one likes you, and then you will start to want to be in love.
But in fact, you obviously don't have someone you like, obviously you don't have the urge to fall in love, but you just want to fall in love, and when there is a good person around you who pursues you, at this time you are thinking, whether you want to accept his pursuit, whether you want to fall in love, want to talk, and feel that there is no big feeling, don't talk about it, it seems that it is not good to be single all the time, and you are beginning to struggle with whether to talk about it or not.
In fact, you shouldn't think about whether you want to fall in love, you have to understand that you can't stop love when it comes, when love doesn't come, even if you make up the numbers, he is not what you love, in the end you do have a boyfriend, have an object, but your heart is still empty, you will feel lonely, you will feel bored, and even you have no joy of love, sometimes you will feel that love is a troublesome thing, and even feel that dating is a waste of time.
The fundamental reason is that you don't love that person, you don't like him, so even if you are with him, he can't enter your heart, even if you are in love, but your heart still hasn't fallen in love with each other, your heart is still empty.
I advise you to do your own thing quietly, don't fall in love because of love, you should fall in love because of love, you like someone, he just likes you, and love at this time is really happy love.
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No, the most important thing in love is feeling, without feeling, there is no need for two people to be together. Love requires a sense of appreciating the other person and a feeling of being understood and comforted.
A friend told me that her life with her husband had entered a bottleneck, and the two of them had endless quarrels except pots and pans. She told me that she still had a little bit of love, and that that little love could only tolerate her husband.
I told her that husband and wife are going to live a lifetime, and tolerating each other must be patient and appreciate each other. Therefore, two people know how to appreciate each other and see each other's strengths and strengths, so that they can live for a long time.
Love needs to have a feeling of being understood and comforted, and some people joke that what was originally a good love has now developed into friendship, and there are no evil thoughts at all. Many people have been married for many years, and they become relatives, not lovers.
When love no longer returns, even if it is family affection, it can tie the marriage and family firmly. As a relative, he can still be considerate of you, can still understand you, and can patiently listen to you when you are unhappy. Giving you comfort when you're sad is a happy marriage.
Don't think that in the end, the love of two people is gone, so the marriage fails, in fact, the happiness of marriage is not completely ** love, remember that love is never equal to marriage.
Without these feelings, love is just talk.
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AnswerFirst of all, I don't think you have any feelings in your situation, and it is a situation that occurs after most couples have been together for a long time. If you are experiencing this situation now, don't be too anxious to break up, because after the relationship is not felt, you can slowly cultivate it.
Because this happens to most couples after they have been together for a long time, if you choose to break up, will this happen to every partner in the future, you can also think about it like this.
So if you don't have any feelings for each other, then cultivate something new, and both parties learn something new, so that you can regain some freshness.
Question: I haven't been in this relationship for long. I just talked about it, and he was very nice to me. , but I don't have that kind of love for him.
I don't know if I should continue or go.
In fact, you don't feel much about him, it must be because he has created fewer surprises and freshness for you in life.
So my suggestion is to continue with it first, because there is no contradiction.
How does he usually treat you?
The better he treats me, the more guilty I feel and feel sorry for him.
It's good to me, and I take everything I say to heart.
So you don't have feelings for him right now.
It's a time when you might get along with each other, and there are no novelties and surprises that can pique your interest.
Since you chose to get along with him at the beginning, you must have liked him.
But now I don't feel it, just because it may be more bland now.
Try talking to him and learn some of the hobbies you both enjoy.
The question just started. It's because I think others are good. Quite a polite person. I have a good impression of him, so I will agree to dating.
But later on, I found that I may not like him so much emotionally, I don't feel it, and I can't move my heart.
Ask the right question, and that's it. I'm afraid he's the last one to be hurt. My heart is very entangled.
So my advice is that you should go ahead with your relationship now.
Then find some solutions to solve this matter if you don't feel it, if you haven't been interested, you have to take the initiative to explain the situation with him, and don't leave him directly because of some things.
This will hurt him a lot.
And what age are you now? Let me judge your attitude towards feelings.
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In my opinion, love without feelings should not continue. I think love is maintained by two people's feelings for each other, and love without feelings is not love.
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No, love should make people feel heartwarming and happy, since there is no feeling, don't be reluctant, break up decisively, and give each other the opportunity to meet better love in the future.
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If you don't feel it, it doesn't mean that you don't love it, it's just that you may not find it, so I think that love without feelings should continue, try to communicate, and solve love without feelings.
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No. If there is no feeling, it is not called love, love is originally a feeling, there is no feeling, how can it be said to be love, then there is no need to continue.
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No. There is no need to continue anymore. If you continue, you will only hurt each other, and it will not end well. Without a feeling, you will no longer be considerate of the other person, and there will be more and more contradictions.
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No. Love is very sacred and beautiful, if you don't feel it, you shouldn't waste the time of both parties, otherwise you will be hurt in the end.
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I don't think love without feelings should continue. Now that you have lost the feeling of being excited at that time, it is better to gather and disperse and look for the person who will make your heart move again.
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I don't want to continue, I think since I don't feel it anymore, I should make it clear, and then break up directly, which is also a more responsible behavior for the other party.
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No, because then you will not feel happy and happy, and being together is just a waste of time and youth.
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No, love is the mutual liking of two people, so they choose to be together, what are they doing together if they don't feel it?
How to put it well, I prefer to be reliable. We rely on feelings along the way, and feelings are the first reaction that comes from your previous experience, but you'd better think about it before you make a decision. Even if you are wrong, at least there is progress.
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