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Are you aware of your lack of self-confidence?
Don't think too much about other people's feelings, but think more about what you want, learn to accept yourself, and recognize yourself.
You are still a student, you just need to do your homework well, concentrate on studying when it is time to study, play ball and exercise after class, express your thoughts generously with your classmates, communicate with others more, and help others. Don't give yourself too many rules. If you don't do it, you'll feel uneasy and blame yourself.
This will only restrain yourself and make your life worse. It's better to do whatever you want. Youth is very short, don't regret what you did in the future, but regret what you didn't do, you know?
Be bold and show what you're capable of. You will find a different version of yourself.
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In fact, there are many things that you don't need to take to heart, especially let some small things restrain yourself, for fear that others will not accept you. Let go of some, take your time, and get used to it. Remember not to take everything to heart.
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The first thing is to build self-confidence, be bold and don't think that what you say will attract ridicule or incomprehension. Make friends with cheerful classmates and learn from their positive attitudes. I believe that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and only by revealing their true self to others, others will also respond sincerely.
A true friend won't laugh at you. Stick to your own personality and that's what makes it attractive. Otherwise, you will be timid, you will not express what you have to say, you will be unhappy, and your friends will feel that you do not trust each other.
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1. Personality problems, introversion.
2. Why should I open my heart to others?
3. Thoughts and questions about the limbs, and it is possible to be injured if you are disturbed by the open shot.
4. Action problems, not good at expressing their own ideas, sometimes the words are stuck in the mouth.
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Introverts fear being attacked and hurt by opening up to others, so try to hide their inner thoughts as a way to protect themselves.
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Because they don't want to reveal their ideas to outsiders, they want to solve problems on their own or whatever.
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Introverts' reluctance to open up may be due to the following reasons:
Social anxiety: Many introverts have social anxiety, which means they are afraid to socialize with others or participate in social activities. This anxiety may stem from concerns about the evaluation of others, worries about self-presentation, or worries about making a fool of yourself in front of others.
Self-aware: Introverts are generally more self-aware than extroverts, meaning they are more focused on their thoughts and actions and are more susceptible to evaluations and criticism from others. As a result, they may be reluctant to open up in front of others to avoid being evaluated or criticized.
Lack of trust: Introverts may take longer to build trusting relationships with others. As a result, they may be reluctant to open up in front of others without enough time to build trust because they fear that their privacy may be violated.
In this case, they may be reluctant to open up because they fear that they will need to spend too much energy to socialize with others.
In conclusion, there can be a variety of reasons why introverts are reluctant to open up, and these reasons are often complex. If we understand these reasons, we can better understand introverts and provide better support and assistance.
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I think you need a group of people who are willing to help you grow, it may be old-fashioned, but you need to feel the love of the team to be able to change, I don't know if your introversion is simply not very willing to speak, or you don't have enough security for people, but I think it has a lot to do with the friends around you Come on.
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Personality is cultivated and changed through practice, and you can participate in more clubs, activities, and learning.
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Don't care about anything else, be happy every day, talk to people more. In the past, Russia was also an introvert, but later when I was with acquaintances, I didn't care about anything, such as image, or something, I was happy and smiled every day, so that others thought you were ruthless and cheerful! I slowly became lively and cheerful, and I was cheerful and cute!
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Participate in group activities.
Make a cheerful friend and take you.
Go out and walk around more, you must be an otaku, and you have to have friends to take you out and hang out together.
Introverted, yes, but not without friends.
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A lot of people say I'm an introvert, and I feel the same way because I'm always not talkative in front of my family. However, some friends still say that I am not introverted, because I am quite cheerful in front of my friends.
In fact, if you want to make yourself able to open up naturally. There is no one way to teach you to be open, just to have your own understanding. When the heart understands, the behavior changes.
If you feel that you are not open and want to be more open, then change your behavior and let the people around you accept the change. Because most people can't get rid of this habit of being introverted, it's because of other people's opinions, because other people think you're like that.
You should be optimistic about this, get in touch with people you think are open, understand them, even their thoughts, and slowly change your thoughts, and then your behavior will change. The main thing is to understand what openness is, how to be open, think about it, and then take action.
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1. It's normal to be introverted, many people are introverted, but it's not good to be too introverted, 2. If you want to change yourself, you need time and be a prepared person
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Hello increase your interest and love well, because part of the reason for introversion is that you have nothing to say to others and can't find a topic, if you know more about things, and those things happen to be within the range of others' liking, you are likely to talk and become friends. And most of the preferences of ordinary people are just TV dramas and movies in China, Japan, South Korea and the United States, as well as singers and movie stars. Japanese comics and beautiful comics or something.
The more serious ones are national events and political news. Nostalgic classic films, songs, etc. Take a look and learn more, and you can tell them something when they bring it up.
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After being hurt by someone they love, they don't dare to love anymore because they are afraid of this feeling of being hurt.
But if after a period of time (maybe a lot of time), when you meet someone who loves you deeply and loves them yourself, I believe they will regain their yearning for love in their hearts.
After all, people's hearts are always fragile, no one can be very strong and strong, and there will inevitably be some extreme thoughts after being injured. So their thoughts are all understandable
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Communicating often with strangers will not be introverted.
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Playing a character in a movie every day makes you malleable, and you can adjust your personality on different occasions. For some people, adjusting your personality is simply a talent, and you are the one who needs to work hard.
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I've been thinking about this a lot as well.
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I didn't meet the right person at the right time. The words of the heart will definitely be spoken, just.
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If people always pay special attention to the opinions of the people around them, and always care about the eyes of others, this is a serious mental internal friction, and everyone must understand that there is no perfect person in the world, and if you want to open it, it is a perfect burial.
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Then try to open yourself, care less about other people's eyes, care more about your own happiness, and be yourself.
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Summary. Hello dear, I hope the following can help you! Introverts like to be alone and quiet, withdrawn and isolated, and like to be alone, so sometimes they are very lonely, lonely, empty, hateful, unable to find someone to talk to, unable to find someone who understands themselves, because they don't like to participate.
What is the heart of an introvert.
Hello dear, I hope the following can help you! Introverts like to be alone and quiet, withdrawn and isolated, and like to be alone, so sometimes they are very lonely, lonely, empty, hateful, unable to find someone to talk to, unable to find someone who understands themselves, because they don't like to participate.
Kiss hello, the solitude and quietness of your introvert itself gives them a great advantage. Things considered in a state of calm are also unique and rational, introverts develop relationships as a result of long-term habits, they form a unique way of knowing, and under the guidance of this cognition, they have their own opinions. Visionary and empathetic:
Introverts can actually see something for what it is, and can see far away, they prefer to stick to their inner thoughts, not be distracted by other things, and then follow their hearts and hold on until they succeed. <>
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