My boyfriend has no house or job in the countryside, how should I choose

Today's society is very realistic, if he really loves you, why not act? Why don't you give your job a good idea? A man's love for a woman is not to give her organ comfort, but to eternal happiness.

This is demonstrated by action. If he really loves you, the first thing he solves is his own work. If you have a regular job, he can come to you to find a job, and you know that men who play games on the Internet are generally people who don't use their brains or don't have brains, so you should be cautious.

Your current situation, your profession and your family are not material relatives! If this kind of thing happens to me, I think I will give up this love, which may be a little cruel, but my parents must not want me to go to the countryside to suffer, and he has no regular job, what to give me happiness, I know that you are not a material girl, but I hope you can include your parents' feelings in your thinking, you must also include in your thinking, your life is given by your parents, maybe, I said maybe, this boy is so good to you may be because of your family, I think, You should still find a stable lover in your own city, and the people you know in online games, I always feel that they are not particularly reliable, my thoughts are for your reference only, but if you make a choice and work hard to go on, all roads lead to Rome! The price of choice is good or bad, just don't let yourself down! Come on!

Someone who loves you? We only met a few days ago. Then how much do you know him, and how much he loves you. The real society is different from the Internet, it is recommended that you first investigate and understand step by step, and do not indulge in sweet words that lead to wrong judgment and choice, which will be extremely irresponsible to yourself.

It is better not to marry far away, and there is nothing wrong with listening to your parents.

If you want to get married, it's not enough to be nice to you. It's better for a woman to be idealistic, unless you have had a very good material condition that can support your vision of life in the future. If not, it is better to work diligently and choose a person with a stable job and a certain material foundation to marry.

In addition, you say that your boyfriend is motivated and does not have a stable job, so can he be willing to go to your city and work hard for you! If he is particularly nice to you, you can consult with him. Choose a city to grow old, if he is willing to go to your city and fight with you, your family can also see his dedication.

I believe that in the eyes of parents, a person who really looks at his daughter, even if he does not have a car or a house, as long as he is really sincere and motivated, his parents will support him. Then you will have a much greater time together.

Why this other person's question has so many people's attention, I think the reasons are as follows:

1. The choice of family affection and love is also a game between self-affection and family concept. This is a gamble, it's okay to win, but if you lose, it's really regretful.

2. If you don't have a car, a house, or an economic foundation, do you want to get married. The answer is obvious. Marrying such a love does require courage, this is a lifelong bet, with youth, time, and the love fantasy I have to make a bet. If you don't gamble well, it's also an abyss from which you can't recover.

3. Self-motivated, but not stable work. This is actually a contradiction, if you are really self-motivated, sincerely plan for the future that belongs to you, and have a stable income**, you must think about it. Whether the self-motivation is appropriate, or is it really used correctly**.

4. He is good enough to her. Is there nothing else but good? Just like netizens said, no car, no house, no deposit, it is an instinctive request to marry a daughter-in-law to be kind to you. It's true that the words are not rough, and there is no economic foundation for good, how long can it last.

5. Married life will face a lot of needs for financial support, so it is recommended that girls really think carefully when asking questions.

Love without bread will not last long, first of all, a man must have his own dedication and stable work, so as to provide a woman with a more stable economic foundation in the future, so you must consider carefully when facing marriage.

If your boyfriend doesn't have a car, a house, or a stable job, but is very motivated and hardworking, then you should continue with your boyfriend, because one day, there will always be a car and a house.

It still depends on what your parents think, and what you think personally. If you want to fall in love, I personally think there is no problem, you can talk about it if you want, and if you want to consider getting married, then you should think carefully.

See if you love your boyfriend, if you love him too, then you can accept his bad conditions, and if you don't love him that much, break up as soon as possible.

I think it's important to think carefully before deciding whether or not to be with him. Because it is irrational when you fall in love, but after getting married, you will find that the conditions are very important, and two people will have conflicts because of these.

It should be carefully considered, because marriage is different from falling in love, it takes a lot of money to get married and have children, and the days of no fixed residence are very hard, if he is self-motivated and willing to work hard in a foreign land, he can also consider dating, if he has no money and does not plan to work hard, such a person should leave him as soon as possible.

I think it depends on what you want, if you want better conditions, then separate earlier, if you want love, then you can fight slowly.

Think about it carefully. Because bread is also very important in marriage, at least to ensure that you can eat enough, in order to manage the marriage well.

You must have to live well with your boyfriend, because the other party just needs to be good to you.

1. You are in a different place, it is recommended not to look for a different place, your living habits and ways of thinking will be different, and there is a greater possibility of conflicts in the future.

2. Your boyfriend doesn't have a job, and you don't have a job, that is to say, 2 people don't have any economic foundation, do you think that 2 people who have no economic foundation get married, who will they rely on for their living expenses in the future? By parents? And by your parents?

3. In today's society, a junior college is not a very high academic qualification, and the minimum academic qualification of a general company is a bachelor's degree, and Beijing where you are located is a relatively modern metropolis, and the importance of academic qualifications must be higher, so even if your boyfriend comes to Beijing, do you think he will find a job very smoothly?

4. You are already 25, if you are only in your early 20s, 21, 22, then you still have a few years to gamble, but you don't have time now, if you reach the age of 30, he is still like this, are you ready to change people then? Even if you are willing to change people, how many people do you think are willing to accept a 30-year-old woman?

5, you go to the Northeast, hehe, this is what I disapprove of the most, you go over there, you are not familiar with life, now you love each other, he is good to you, he is affectionate to you, very good, very good. But can you guarantee it for the rest of your life? Especially his work has not yet been implemented, the cruelty of reality will make a person irritable, in case the time comes to do something or something, it is better for you to go back to Beijing or not.

And what did you live on over there? What do you rely on to eat? You yourself said that his family is also very poor.

Hehe, I dislike material women, but now society has to be realistic, I suggest you separate from him, after all, now your age is not young, his talent is like this, not to mention that he has to struggle for more than 10 years to earn money to buy a house, so I think you can try to find a better condition, of course, the other party should be good to you!

Running the business is either poor for a lifetime, or you will be the boss in the future, you choose, this is the potential stock is **, look at your vision, choose to determine the fate!! I don't know if your boyfriend is **, if you have to identify it yourself, the general hard-working person will be** not working hard to eat lazy to do is a garbage stock, it is better to throw it away early, you can see it yourself!! You know him best!!

Do you marry a person or money, you have to figure out this question, although he has no money, life may be harder, but with your feelings as the foundation, I believe you will be happy, but find a rich person, although materially rich, but can you guarantee that you will be happy?

In fact, you have the answer in your heart, but you don't want to make up your mind, your boyfriend may have the same contradictions and troubles, so you don't need to be depressed here, discuss it with him, breaking up does not necessarily mean unhappy, try to live a life that makes both of you easier, without his drag, you will be more relaxed, without your pressure, he will also be more relaxed, look at love wide,

You're going to marry this person. It's not about how much money there is. A couple of houses. Naked marriage is good, oh popular. You will cherish the wealth you have built on your own. Do you have to endure hardships to become a master?

It's almost the same as you, it's almost the same, people always have to have a choice, always have to be realistic, always have to be responsible for themselves, no matter how you choose, don't regret it, move forward.

Ay. Poor couples decline in 100 days. If you have good conditions, you should go to your hometown and find one.

I can understand your feelings, after all, you are so far apart, you should understand, maybe your boyfriend is a group of dark horses.

Think about it. Even if you have feelings, it doesn't have to be him. Especially when there are so many local differences.

And he refused to compromise to the south. Your parents don't want you to go to the Northeast. Honestly.

Poor couples mourn everything. Even if he is very good at making money. When you get married, you're going to buy a house.

Buy a car. Raising children. Everything costs money.

Of course you can fight. Then look at his parents, too. If his parents are not uncommon to you.

It's better to have a long pain than a short one.

Well, it's mostly up to you. Can you wait or continue to create with him? If you can't, then let it go! People like us can't jump out of this material society.

Calm down ... Are you sure you love him very much? If not. You give up. In fact, you have already given the answer in your heart. By the way, bet on him as a talent?? Forget it. That's a very small probability.

The real society looks at it and does it yourself!

Are you going to be a house slave for the rest of your life?? I have been worried about food and housing all my life???

Can't get enough to eat. Can't wear it well? Do you have a living for your children???

How long do you think you can sustain such a family??? Think about it!

Real life always starts with tricks. Ask yourself.

You give up, from your question you can see that you are a very realistic person, he can't give you what you want, if you are not realistic, you will not ask so at all, there is nothing in life (maybe some have the results of your parents' efforts), everything is to rely on your own efforts.

It's good to be early, you don't fit him, and he doesn't suit you.

You are suitable for finding someone who does not need to work hard and has a certain economic foundation, really! Maybe I'm saying it too bluntly, hehe.

There is no way for others to help you with this kind of thing, just follow your feelings.

You can refer to the advice that my friend said earlier.

In this way, if your own conditions allow, it is better to find a condition that is relatively better.

Now the price of ** is getting worse and worse, but people's income has not increased, you think about it according to the current price, you have to live in the future, not to mention buying a house, even if you have been crowded with your parents, after having a child, the cost of the child is very high. Let's weigh it carefully, everyone doesn't want to suffer, they can't bear to turn their backs, if your parents can help, then you can still consider it, or now when you are young, you can work together to see, come on.