Adolescent children are always unhappy what s going on

Adolescent children, in a stage of metabolism and endocrine, male or female hormone development, emotions are prone to capriciousness, which is what people call the rebellious period, you can chat with your child more, participate in some activities together, communicate more, listen to your child's thoughts, don't treat him as the original child.

Adolescent children reach the first turning point in their lives. At this time, you will feel at a loss, and you don't know how you will develop in the future. The heart of sorrow for some things that cannot be obtained, especially envy of others, is also stronger, and the inner thoughts cannot be spoken.

Over time, it became sullen and unhappy every day.

Adolescent children are unhappy, and as a parent, you should know what is going on, because you also came from that time. The psychological rebellion of children in this period is mainly caused by the action of body hormones, and it is better to be patient and guide after this period.

First of all, it may be because of the child's rising sense of self. During adolescence, due to the rapid psychological development, the strong secretion of sex hormones, as well as the high self-awareness, opposition to authority, and demand for independence, the heart is easily irritable. Adolescent children should be aware of this, and appropriately divert their attention and devote their energy to learning, so as to alleviate emotional problems.

In addition, as a parent, you should also teach your children to increase interpersonal communication appropriately, and gradually learn to understand other people's thoughts and vent negative emotions reasonably in interpersonal interactions. At the same time, it is also necessary to exercise appropriately and increase hobbies, such as running, playing basketball, swimming, singing, reading, etc., to reasonably relieve irritability.

Secondly, it is the learning pressure that many parents tend to ignore. Due to the excessive academic pressure, many 17-year-old boys may experience inexplicable irritability. At this time, you can seek help from your parents and family members to learn the experience and skills of coping with stress or controlling emotions, so as to improve your ability to cope with stress and overcome setbacks.

In addition, it is recommended to actively communicate with parents and family members, learn to express themselves, and vent the negative emotions brought about by learning in a timely manner.

Finally, it is the influence of the family environment, the infinite doting of parents for their children, the growth of children needs the earnest guidance of parents, and the cultivation of children's character and ability is also included. I believe that as parents, we are full of love for our children, but there is a feeling that will affect our children's lives.

In life, there are many parents who will unconditionally dot on their children, and adults will be unconditionally satisfied with what children want, until one day when parents are not able to satisfy him, the child does not seem to know what is happening, which will make the child often irritable and uncontrollable. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they should not blindly spoil their children and do not adopt arranged education methods.