I mind someone my husband has had an unrequited love before

First, if he doesn't love you, he won't marry you; second, since he can stop contacting you for you, it proves that you are much more important to him than that woman; third, if it is possible that they were together long before they married you.

Let me ask you a question: Do you still remember the person you had an unrequited love with?

I think your answer is yes, who doesn't have a time when you are young and frivolous and don't know how to pursue love blindly, believe me, you are his true love, except for you and his family, who is not important to him.

I really can't figure it out, so I sit down and talk about the two people who love each other, there's nothing I can't say, but don't ask directly, women have to know how to be coquettish, I don't think I need to say more, you understand.

My object once had a person who loved each other, and the two of them were still in love, but because the woman's parents forced each other to die, the two had to separate, in fact, at the beginning, I was just what he used to heal, but neither of us expected that we would come to this point, how much we love each other, only the two of us know-two people are together, just like the vows said at the wedding - whether it is good or bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick, I will always love you and cherish you until the earth is long. I promise that I will always be faithful to you.

Have faith in your love.

As long as you don't contact now, it's okay, I love you very much. Explain that you are now the person he loves the most, and he has been in a relationship before. In other words, he is doing the last word, isn't he in love.

Well, as long as he doesn't contact now. Don't think about the things that were unhappy before, you are now husband and wife, and the person you love is you.

Love is like sand in your hand You have to control the strength If you hold it too tightly, it will flow faster In fact, there can be a secret space in everyone's heart, and if he is really good to you, you will be content, calm.

Actually, you don't have to care too much, the reason why your husband called her ** is just because of the affection of the year; It's basically impossible for them now, and the fact that he can calmly chat with her actually proves that he has no ghosts in his heart; I think that since he heard that she was married and started to fall in love with you, he had already figured out his relationship with her, and he could take it well!

As for their current relationship, I think you should still give it to him, after all, you also know that they have not seen each other for 10 years, which means that your husband still cares about you very much. Therefore, you should also tolerate him, show your measurement feelings, and cherish your current happy life. Of course, you can't completely ignore it, and if so, he may think that you probably don't care about him.

So, if it's just the usual slapping (the kind for a few minutes), you laugh it off; But if you talk for a long time, especially late at night, you should tell her if you pay attention to your body or have to go to work tomorrow. In normal times, you can also ask her symbolically about her situation (of course, don't ask too much). Show that you can tolerate people!

Really should mind! You can't be generous and tolerant in love, not to mention that he is already married to you! But you can't be too extreme, you should think of a better way, so that he can only see you alone in his eyes, and this requires his own efforts.

It's like my situation. Mind. I mind.

Although everyone psychologically will have an unforgettable person. Some memorable things. Or the grapes that can't be eaten are sour.

That's why it's worth nostalgia. But nostalgia has a bottom line. Don't go overboard.

Grasping the principle, normal social interaction is not impossible, this requires self-control.

Mind is right, but there has to be a way, not to make him think that you have a small belly.

Anyone will have a past, as long as it doesn't involve ambiguity, the rules of chatting should be fine.

First, if he doesn't love you, he won't marry you Second, since he can stop contacting him for you, it proves that you are much more important to him than that woman Third, if it is possible that they were together long before they married you, Ask you a question: Would you still remember the person you had an unrequited love with? I think your answer is yes.

No more contact, no problem. If you also have contact, you should be vigilant.

Let him go, and leave him unkept. There is no way to get without giving.

Just had a crush, or even found her.

doesn't care about the other party's feelings, although it can't be said that he must have someone else in his heart, but it must be a sign of selfishness.

It is advisable to communicate openly with the other party, understand each other's concerns, and eliminate misunderstandings and estrangements.

Good luck.

That's not necessarily, a man doesn't care about his wife's feelings, maybe this man is nervous, doesn't know much about women's delicate thoughts, and his emotional intelligence is not high. Maybe this man doesn't love his wife too much, but he chooses you, at least because you are suitable to be his wife.

Not necessarily. It may be that this man doesn't care about not caring for his wife at all, so he has this kind of thing.

Maybe this man is just a big man, and many such men are now.

May not love his wife very much.

It may also be because the person is more selfish.

It's hard to say, it may not be enough to love, but it doesn't mean that you still think about others.

The Department doesn't say anything, you can be direct.

asked my husband to see his reaction. Tell him.

You mind this and hope he will pay attention.

How you feel.

Say it directly, don't be noisy and don't be vexatious. I talked openly with my husband. If there is a situation, you can also find it, and you will not think crankily if you have nothing to do. It's getting more and more uncomfortable to be stuffy by yourself, so it's better to ask. In this way, it is better for him not to contact him.

If this continues.

There is indeed a certain danger.

Suggestion. Find out the reason from yourself first.

Is there a problem with the relationship between the two people?

An adjustment was made.

Manage love and marriage well.

It's the right way to solve a problem.

1.For her husband's crush on a girl, the wife feels worried, which is a normal state of mind.

2.Check first to see if you are considerate and caring for your husband.

3.Let your husband feel warm at home, and if you do, explain to him patiently and try to solve the problem calmly.

You also connect with the boy who has a crush on you.

Your husband's ambiguous attitude is very dangerous, you'd better let your husband know your attitude and keep him away from this woman.

Say nothing more. Marriage cannot be divorced, because there are children, and they must be responsible for the children. After all, the child is still young.

Persuade him with all your heart. Convince him. Presumably you should also know the article Ma Yili!

Ma Yili relied on a sentence that love is easy to marry, and it is not easy to do it. Moved the article. I believe that as long as he is a man, he should understand what responsibility is.

If it were me, I might just say that if you still have a crush on her or you can't let go of her, you might as well leave while the child is still young.

Do what you have to do and let go of what you have to let go. Don't scare yourself until you get proven.

That woman must be uneasy and kind, you can tell your husband.

Face up to life now! Communicate more with your husband and attend more activities and gatherings. Distraction! Maybe you're too idle! Find something to do!

I am very sympathetic to your situation, people's feelings are more complicated, and the heart is uncontrollable.

I don't know how you have a relationship with your current husband, but if your relationship is good, I suggest you choose to forget about this relationship.

There are many ways to forget, the best way is to change the environment, it is best not to see each other, usually busy at work, read more books in your spare time, get in touch with nature more, spend more time with your family, and slowly forget it.

I can't forget it, just control myself not to do things that I'm sorry for my husband, and I can be open in my heart.

It's very simple.,Maybe I've loved it before.,Since it's all in the past, people are married again.,Then don't care too much about these.,Let's understand each other.。

It's not necessarily because you love each other very much, it's just because you don't get it, because you regret it, so you can't let it go, just like red roses and white roses.

It's just a crush, and it's always a pity that I didn't get it.

No, it's been 20 years, what's there?