I mind my boyfriend s past, should I?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-07
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's better to break up, and it won't be happy.

    Because you yourself are already tired, if a love can't bring us joy and touch, can't give us the sense of security we want, and we can't trust ourselves, it's really tired. If you are tired, there will be no happiness at all. If the happiness and emotion added up together are greater than the depression and hurt, then we will continue to wander in a love.

    Keep holding hands!

    Your him is always a liar, and this is a very deadly thing in love. In fact, if you love him very much, you can try to communicate with him to see how much he loves you and whether he is willing to change for you, but I can tell you that it is basically difficult. There is a saying that a man should never lie in front of a woman, if you lie once, then what you said before and what you said afterwards, the woman will not believe it anymore.

    Actually, there is a lot of truth in this.

    In fact, if you really love, love very much, are willing to be tired for him, compromised for him, and think that paying for him is the meaning of life, that is, loving enough to be willing to give everything for him and tolerate everything about him, then continue! Obviously, it's hard to do. Girls, first of all, love themselves, then be loved, and love others.

    When you're tired, quit and it's always right to be kind to yourself! I believe that you will meet a better son of destiny that belongs to you in the future, and wait for it carefully! Good luck! At the same time, I hope that my you are satisfied. Huh

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Two people should be relaxed and happy when they fall in love, and if they are tired, they should consider separating.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, if you love him, you shouldn't care about everything in his past.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A man who lies is not trustworthy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's unreliable, can't it be good for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking to heart the things that make the ants unhappy.

    When you mind a person's past, it means that the person's past is not boring and exciting. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

    If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

    In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

    His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things as hidden, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't mind your past, what I mind is that your past isn't past. Did you also ask about the other party's past in the blind date in Shaoxing?

    Some people will be very mindful that the other party's past has not passed, and they are afraid that if the former cries, the current will lose. The most poignant sentence is: Later, the people we liked were all people who pretended to be others.

    For my part, I would be curious about the current past, that's for sure. Since I fell in love with him, I want to know his past, such as how many times I have been in love, what the object of love looks like, and why I broke up. Whether it's out of gossip, or knowing about such problems and avoiding them in the future process.

    Don't turn the "past" into a knot, so there is no need to care about the past of the other half.

    The past can only be the material for your chat, remember to understand each other, a good understanding can only have communication, talk about the past, is the past.

    Therefore, many single partners will also ask or mention the other half in the process of blind date, you might as well think about the past, if you really let go, it is really in the past.

    Please tidy up your mood and meet the right partner. In the journey of life, the past can only be the scenery, and the new story that belongs to you is the beginning of the life that is coming to the beginning.

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