My husband used to dot on me very much, but now he always complains about my housework and the child

You said that your husband looks down on you, you are tired of doing housework and taking care of the children every day, and your husband can't feel sorry for you?

In fact, how to say it, you have paid too much for this family, it is because of your contribution to the family that you are so comfortable, so that your husband will wear out your good in this comfortable environment, the reason why he doesn't care about you and feels sorry for you is because he feels that he is working very hard outside day by day, you don't do anything at home for a day, you will cook a meal and take a child and be tired to **, he thinks you are too relaxed day by day, it feels as if he is supporting this family and you, He felt a little uncomfortable in his heart, and began to complain and began to complain about you, this is not good and that is not good.

Once a woman has no financial independence, then her husband will look down on you more and more, so you have to start changing now, first send the child to kindergarten, if you are still young and you are not willing to do it, you will let your family help you, you have to start your own economic independence, so that you can have a status in this family, in order to have the right to speak, if you still want to live in this family, you will not be disliked by your husband. So I want to be financially independent.

You won't do it, and you don't have to be tired and tired, you feel sorry for yourself.

Such a man deserves to be a cuckold!

Beat him, don't beat him like this, and he will keep it for the New Year.

The child is the bond of the family, so if he is particularly good to the child, don't feel that he ignores you because he is the witness of love between the two of you, so at this time you can take the initiative to accompany him to cook and join him to interact with the child.

Your husband is very doting on his son, and when he comes home every day, he cooks and takes care of the children, you should be content, it is 10,000 times better than the kind of person who doesn't come home from work every day and finds excuses to go out and fool around all day long. As for you who think he ignores you, it may be your old husband and wife, he doesn't pay attention to the sense of ceremony, you can take the initiative to find him.

I wish my husband was like this. Isn't cooking just taking care of you? Isn't taking care of your children a burden for you? This is to ignore you, this is to love you.

Don't you have to do nothing every day? How nice! It's too late for others to envy such a husband.

Your husband has already done a good job, has taken on a lot of housework, and is a good man who takes care of the family, so you don't want to do it again

He spends all his time working, housework, and children, and of course there is no part of yours!

He comes back from work, you cook, he plays with the children;

Then put the child to sleep early, and there will be a world of two of you.

That's what it's like to have children.

If you take care of the children at home, your husband earns money, and since he is willing to earn money for this family, you should contribute to this family, right? Besides, you go back because you want to have children, but you don't like to take care of children, do you mean that you don't do anything at home, or occasionally do something casually, your husband still thinks that he works hard every day to earn money to support his family. In short, don't complain, be grateful, because there are two ways in front of you now, either go out to earn money and not be angry with your husband, but you can't see your children.

Either go home and take care of the children, work harder, money, and your husband will earn it, and you don't have so much pressure to survive. No matter which one you choose, be grateful, don't complain, and life will be good.

Of course, you may think that the child is not mine alone, but your husband does not love the child as much as you, so he will not pay for the child wholeheartedly like you, this is a fact, and no one can change it.

The Buddha told us that "life is rewarded", and the relationship between people is nothing more than four kinds: repaying gratitude, complaining, collecting debts, and repaying debts.

Then you should do everything to your part, get rid of the old karma, and be relaxed.

Offering a passage of the old Master's teaching: "Housework should be viewed as such".

Doing the same job every day will definitely get boring. Housewives, in particular, seem to have a day when they will never be liberated, and many people feel distressed. If you can change your mindset, you will be very happy.

There is 'me' in the concept of ordinary people, I am doing it, I am so hard, why do I do it for them, the more I think about it, the more troubles I have. If he learns the bodhisattva path and vows to benefit all sentient beings, his thoughts and views will be different.

To practice the bodhisattva path, the first thing is to practice 'giving to paramita'. The housewife bodhisattva who serves the family in the family is the practice of giving paramita. There are three types of giving: financial giving, legal giving, and fearless giving.

There is internal wealth and external wealth. Outside wealth refers to earning money outside to support a family. Neicai is to use his physical strength and wisdom to serve the family.

Make the three kinds of giving in the family life. If you keep your household affairs in order and cleanly, so that your family can live comfortably, and your neighbors will be envious, this is 'taking vows', and keeping precepts means abiding by the law. If you can do it patiently and tirelessly, you are 'enduring the paramita'.

To improve every day, and to hope that tomorrow will be better than today, which is to 'improve paramita'.

If you do your household work well, you will be an example to all the housewives of the world, to all families. This can affect the neighborhood, and it can affect the society, the country, the world, and even the Dharma Realm. Only then did I realize that the Bodhisattva was sweeping the floor, wiping the table, cooking, and washing clothes at home, and he was actually doing a great wish to exhaust the void and pervade all sentient beings in the Dharma Realm.

This is the study of Buddhism, mindfulness, and the reality of the Dharma. If you can see it like this, then you will be full of joy, how can you be troubled! ......

Offering to everyone, I wish to dissolve all my troubles and be happy.