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In the workplace, what should you do when you encounter a villain who is behind the scenes? What are the tricks to deal with villains? Pretending to be confused, in the workplace, everyone still hides their feelings very well, and they can only tear their faces when they have to.
Because you will find that it takes a lot of time and energy to fill in after tearing your face with others, which is why people have paid attention to "treating people with sincerity" since ancient times. Therefore, if the other person only gossips about you for the first or second time, you will pass it with a smile as if he did not mean it.
To tell the truth, if you are bitten by a dog while walking, can you bite back? It's the same at work, sometimes people slander you, frame you, gossip about you. You can ignore them outright on the surface, and ignore them and lower their prices. We can be at the critical moment.
Privately questioned, some people are really annoying, in the end, they don't have a face, you take a step back, he takes ten steps forward. He thinks you are so oppressive and deliberately gossip about you. For this kind of person, you can't be humble, but you can't be in a hurry to tear your face, the best way is to contact him privately to talk about it first, so that he understands that it is now your moral bottom line to endure.
Finish. That way, everyone has a room to maneuver and won't do things too well.
If the above three steps don't solve the problem, then try the fourth step: announce the tearing of the face. There is no need for everyone to be humble again.
Immediately confronted him in front of everyone why he was talking this nonsense. Moreover, the more people around, the better, and the bigger the trouble, the better. Everyone understands things in their hearts, even if you make things difficult openly, everyone will only favor you, which is also the fault of this in the first place.
Generally speaking, after publicly tearing his face, he is afraid to continue, after all, he used to think that you were so oppressive, and now that we give him such a play, he will no longer dare to underestimate you.
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In the workplace, if you encounter a villain who is behind the bad guy, the best way is to use facts to fight back against him, such as making achievements to make the other party speechless, only in this way can you truly defeat those villains who are behind the bad guys, and can also make all their conspiracies and tricks dissipate invisible.
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Stabilize your emotions and build momentum. Dealing with villains can accumulate evidence, and when the time comes, he will defeat the enemy with one move, so that he will have no chance to turn over. There is also the need to improve yourself, work hard, and don't be caught by others.
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If you encounter a villain behind you, then you must pay attention to yourself first, you must not expose your mistakes, and don't be polite to these villains, you must catch up.
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First of all, you must have a good mentality, otherwise you will be irritated by the villain of your colleagues. Because they have a lot of tricks. If you don't have their common sense, they will lose their way and feel like they are not being noticed.
The villain greets often and talks less; Do not take the initiative to communicate, but do not refuse to communicate; Don't make friends, but don't break up; You can give benefits, but you can't take advantage of villains. Don't enter the circle of villains, and don't let them go deep into their own realm and heart.
If you criticize or talk about other people's privacy, you will definitely become a tool for them to make trouble, or become a bargaining chip to retaliate against you in the future; If they lash out at Silver criticism or talk about someone else's privacy, you should stop immediately and not listen to a word, because no matter what Sakurasou does, they will definitely put the blame on you.
It's better to let him develop on his own and let him jump on his own. Villains are often unfair, and sooner or later they will be recognized by everyone. Don't care what others think of you behind your back, because these words don't change the facts, but they can disturb your heart. If the mind is disturbed, everything will be chaotic.
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First, stay calm first, don't lose your mind because of other people's words, in real life, in the company, many people will choose to say bad things behind their backs for their own interests, or even make some small reports to the leader. It's a common workplace behavior, and there's no need to make a fuss when a colleague says something bad about you. When we encounter this problem, the first thing is to calm ourselves down, so that we can think calmly and face the problem, and then we can find a solution to the problem.
2. Find an opportunity to fight back directly and make him regret that if someone publicly slanders you or insults you, you have to tell him clearly that I am not easy to provoke! The next time you encounter this situation, tell him directly, don't give you the meaning of the leader when you approve, if you have an opinion about me, you can say it directly, if you have an opinion on this decision, you can also say it to me, I can help you react with the leader, there is no need to say these words behind your back.
The only fear is the fear of being chewed on the root of the tongue behind the back by the villain, and then reaching the ears of the leader, which will leave a bad impression on the leader. So we must also have faith in our leaders. It is only when a person lacks insight and is dull in mind that he can easily be influenced by the "bad words" of others.
3. For behaviors that seriously affect your reputation, you can ask the leader not to simply believe in the words of the pure self-purification, sometimes the spitting stars can drown people, and the wise die from rumors. If you don't make the right sound, it's suppressed by the wrong sound.
It is the law of the workplace. If you know that someone is saying bad things about you and hurting your interests, personality and relationships, you have to fight back, otherwise, you won't know how long you will suffer in vain.
I suggest that you don't do neither, just do your job, and do your job well without pleasing her or fighting him to the end. All sorts of ways to go.
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