I ve decided to divorce today, but I can t let go of my daughter, what should I do

You can give her love even if you leave!Can't make things too categorical!If you don't quarrel with each other every day, you won't have less pain for your daughter than if you leave!Think about everything for her, and give her a sound mother's love when she leaves.

Single mothers must take good care of their daughter, otherwise her life will be ruined.

There is no conflict between loving your daughter and pursuing your own happiness.

For the sake of the child, let's get by, the divorce is too pitiful.

If you can, make do with it, for the sake of the child.

Then say goodbye and live a good life.

How old your daughter is, you have to consider whether the divorce will hurt him.

Divorce is already wrong. Leave a wound on her daughter's psyche.

Don't let go of anything when you feel it.

Grabbed custody of her daughter.

First of all, I want to ask you why you want to get divorced.

The child is the most lonely, he doesn't do anything,

How do you have to get a divorce.

You are typical of having not cherished, and regretting only when you have lost. Many people are like this, thinking that it is natural for their wives to be stupid to me, and they don't take it to heart at all. I just began to think back and think about it.

Marriage is like a besieged city, where people on the outside want to come in, and people on the inside want to come in. You miss your ex-wife so much now, you must have had a luscious love period when you were not married.

Target. At that time, she must also have all kinds of advantages in your eyes, and she is pleasing to the eye no matter how you look at it.

There are many people who have been married for many years, and they divorced due to long-term conflicts, maybe they finally felt comfortable at the moment of divorce, but it didn't take long to start to get used to it, because someone may have helped you prepare breakfast, wash and fold clothes, or switch every morning.

Tripping、When the network cable is blocked, someone comes to get it.,Now you have to do it yourself.,I can't figure it out and ask someone to do it.,Gradually, the feeling that I used to be used to will come out.。

Now that something has happened, it's time to find out where the problem is. When there are problems in your marriage, you should not fall into conscious grief and let the pain hinder your ability to think about the problem. Most people fail at this first stage, because they have no talent for self-reflection and only focus on their own machismo.

I never thought about the other party's feelings, only cared about my own majesty, and did not try to admit my mistakes and save my marriage.

I don't care if there are two aspects, emotionally and in life. Emotionally, you didn't care more about your wife and warm her, which made her feel cold. In life, you earn money yourself, your wife suffers for you at home, and you don't get your warm greetings, your indifference is actually indifferent to your lover, from the heart of an alienated wife, regardless of the family.

When there are problems in your marriage, you should not fall into conscious grief and let the pain hinder your ability to think about the problem. Most people fail at this first stage, because they have no talent for self-reflection, they only care about their own machismo, they never think about the feelings of the other party, they only care about their own majesty, and they do not try to admit their mistakes and save their marriage.

Turn. Because you still have feelings for your wife and children, and you are reluctant, you should find a way to remarry.

If the wife has not found the other half, I think it is better to fight for it, it is better to win back the wife's heart, and the children can have a complete home.

You should talk to your wife about it, Ye Bang takes the child as the focus and tells your wife that you want to give your child a complete home, and at the same time promise to treat your wife well.

I want to divorce, but I can't let go of the child, it is every woman's mood, since I can't let go, why not take the child away? Maybe it's because I'm afraid that I can't give my child a better future!

Do you think it's because of the contradiction between two people? If it is only a contradiction between two people, the problem can be solved, this is not the essence of the problem, it can be slowly alleviated through methods and ideological communication.

If it's because of family conflicts, there are still a lot of work problems, and if the other party is very lazy and doesn't work, this can also be changed.

If it's the other party's family, don't care about his family, you two just live your own life, work hard with your children, earn more money, and leave this place of right and wrong in the future, you can also do it.

In the end, there is no problem with the other party's character, if his character is really not good, then there is really no way to insist and change, but have you ever thought about the other party's character is not good? Will your children be influenced by him in the future? Can you bear to leave her here?

So I suggest that if it is the above three problems, it can still be changed, and if it is the last character problem, it is recommended to take the child away, so that your life will just start and work hard.

Although it is very bitter for a person to have a child, it is better than circling in the whirlpool of contradictions, there is no need to say how to get married again, in fact, a person can also raise a child.

When the marriage comes to an end and it really can't continue, then the child must be the most pitiful, and for the child, no matter who is lost, it is unacceptable!

Or you can let the child choose which one of them to choose with the parents, but this will cause trouble to the child's young mind! Two people divorce because of emotional incompatibility or other factors, no matter what the reason, can not let the child bear this, the child is the most innocent victim of the divorced family, all our decisions must be for the sake of the child!

The best way is for two people to solve it privately, discuss which party the child will live with better, generally as long as there is a sensible, only for the sake of the child's future will use this method, even if we are divorced, we can't be the same as the enemy, after all, there is a child, so it can be regarded as reducing the minimum damage!

People say that they would rather demolish ten temples than one marriage! It is not easy to be a husband and wife in this life, not to mention having children, we are more responsible, more tolerant of each other, more understanding, think about the vows when we got married, those beautiful, manage this hard-won fate, and give the children a complete home!

If you really can't get by, then I suggest that you still have to fight for the custody of the child, because comparatively speaking, the child will follow the mother will be better than the father, at least the mother knows to care about the child, psychologically the child will not feel that he is missing anything, and even if you get married in the future and have a new family, after all, the woman stays at home more, you can still take care of your child, but a divorced woman with a child will be difficult at first, then you must overcome these difficulties, Women are weak and mothers, and we can do anything for the sake of children.

But if there is no forced situation, I think it is better for you not to divorce, because the divorce of parents, in fact, the most hurtful is the child, because no matter who he follows, he will lose the other party, and a family without a father or mother is not sound, after all, you are now a family, and don't break up this family for the sake of the child.

If you and your significant other have reached the point of divorce, but because of the existence of children, it is a time when you are struggling not to know what to do. Then I think what the two of you need now is an open conversation. You have to talk about what you think about your marriage, whether your relationship has broken down and your married life cannot continue, if the answer is yes.

Then you choose to end this emotionless marriage, which is a relief for both of you and your children.

Because, if the relationship between the two of you has completely broken down, there is no love between the two of you. Even if you are reluctantly together, you can't give your children a happy and warm home. But you may not love each other anymore, and from time to time there will be some quarrels and conflicts, and even serious domestic violence, which may happen.

Then these phenomena will undoubtedly leave a shadow on your child's psyche and bring trauma. Since childhood, the child has seen that his parents have no love for each other, so when he grows up, he will also lose confidence in love.

So, instead of causing harm to three people, it is better to solve this problem in advance. Just explain your situation to your child and tell him the truth. The two of you can still love him all the time, and it won't affect him very much.

On the contrary, if you continue to live together for him, your face and heart are not in harmony, which will bring him some negative things, which will affect his future life.

That's my answer, I hope it helps you, I wish you happiness.