Can the human psyche destroy itself?

Thoughts will affect the mood, the mood will affect the body, and the body can destroy itself, so we usually have to look away when something happens, that is, we must let go of the mind and make the mood better. Just like the American basketball master Johnson, people have been suffering from love branch disease for more than ten years and have not died.

Yes, indeed. Actually, you didn't pay attention to it yourself.

You have your own hints in everything you do.

Why is it that none of the same things are the same?

That's why.

Psychology can even kill yourself.

It can also save you.

When you are confused, frustrated, sad and painful, a good psychology can help you be happy earlier and faster.

It should be, because someone has experimented with death row inmates.

When people go astray, because they are wrong in their thinking, they have to look back and consider whether they are in the wrong direction.

If you want to be angry all the time, you will get cancer.

<> "How People Are Abolished [These Signs Show that You Are Slowly Becoming Abolished].

1. Staying up late without moderation.

I always drag on to bed late, and I use expensive eye cream while staying up late at night. Maybe you don't know what you're waiting for, but you just want to get through it again.

2. Addicted to chasing dramas and**.

After watching idol dramas and **, I will be anxious if I don't watch a drama, I always want to find sweet dramas or ** to let myself fall into it, indulge in the plot, and don't want to do anything.

3. I like to stay at home and give up socializing.

Don't go out, don't socialize, don't want to face the crowd, don't want to accept new environments and new people, lose your desire and enthusiasm for life, feel that you are good alone, but occasionally feel lonely.

Mess up the relationship.

4. Can't control your material desires.

Buying and buying without moderation, I like to shop online. No matter whether it is useful or useless, there is no brains to buy it, and in fact, many things are bought and not used at all. I like to compare and show off, and I can't control myself.

5. Reluctance to clean up after yourself.

I started to give up, I didn't pay attention to the appearance and dressing up, I just didn't want to regret picking up myself, I had no expectations and recognition for my appearance, and I also indulged my body shape.

6. Unwilling to learn.

Unwilling to take the time and effort to improve themselves, feeling meaningless and impatient, resulting in the passage of year after year. I am still standing still, and I can only watch my peers around me get better and better.

7. Love fantasy and daydreaming.

likes to fantasize that she is the heroine of idol dramas, and loves to daydream. I always feel that I will get rich overnight and the world will fall into pie, and I don't want to recognize the reality and return to reality.

8. Three-minute heat.

Can't insist on doing a good job of what you want to accomplish, an idea from time to time, it won't last long and you will give up, and the pursuit and love of something is only three minutes of heat.

9. Everything doesn't matter.

I often label myself as a Buddha, thinking that I have no quarrel with the world, and I don't care about anything and go with the flow. No goal, no progress, no self-motivation, just want to be a gangster, the days are over.

10. Don't calm down and do one thing.

Too impetuous, knowing that he has slowly lost patience with many things but doesn't want to change, can't calm down and do one thing seriously, and after doing it for a while, he wants to swipe his phone and mess up.

11. I don't have my own opinions.

I don't have my own opinions, I feel that I can't make choices and decisions, I need to rely on others to distinguish right from wrong, even if I have any ideas, I don't dare to express myself, I'm afraid that others will refute me.

12. Caring too much about other people's opinions.

It's easy to limit myself, I always use other people's ideas to restrain myself, live according to what others think I should do, and feel that I have done something wrong when I notice that the eyes of others are slightly wrong.

Summary. Dear, a person who has a tendency to destroy everything, he has a problem in his heart, this kind of person is irritable, and he can't see that others are better than him. When he encounters something bad and when he is hit, he has a mentality that destroys everything.

Dear, a person who has a tendency to destroy everything, he has a problem in his heart, this kind of person belongs to the character of prudence and impetuousness, and he cannot see that others are better than him. If he encounters a blow to his disobedience and leniency, he has a devastating mentality. Guess.

When you meet such a person, it is better to have less contact with him, and if you meet another person, do not provoke him, and keep a low profile in front of him.

When you meet such a person, it is better to have less contact with him, and then don't provoke him, and keep a low profile in front of him, so that he can't feel that you are laughing at him.

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This is me. Hello friends, do you have an inferiority complex, feel that you are inferior to others, but you can't accept that others are better than you<>

I'm an emotionalist, and I'm happy to unblock your mental barriers. You can tell what confusion you have.

In fact, the easiest way is to hit his self-confidence and deny him.

Now there is a popular saying: a happy childhood ** life, an unhappy life a life in ** childhood. It's about the harm that the family of origin does to a person.

In fact, many families attack and deny their children in language when they are young. Over time, it causes children to have low self-esteem, a serious lack of self-confidence, and a sense of belonging and security.

I'm a victim of it. To put it bluntly, it is very simple to destroy a person psychologically, that is, to hit him incessantly from his childhood.

When I was younger, one of the things my mom used to say was: Why are you so stupid?You look at the person next door, who does more things than you, has a sweeter mouth than you, and has better academic performance than you, why are you always so bad?

I have the impression that this is how my childhood compared. As the saying goes, there is no harm without contrast. Until now, the shadow of my childhood has followed me.

It was as if my mother had labeled me that you would always be the worst. That's why I'm always not confident enough when dealing with people and things.

Whenever there is a company competition, or when I am with friends, I always feel that the person who is eliminated is me, and I am the least popular. This feeling is always with us, and people can't get rid of it even if they want to.

The unfortunate life has been in ** childhood all my life, and that's how I came over. As an adult, I've struggled to get out of the shadow of my childhood, but I don't think it's working. Who doesn't want to be a confident, sunny and bold person?

But how easy is it to do this on your own?

But now that I'm much better, I'm going to learn to reconcile with my family of origin. No one's childhood is perfect, parents are parents for the first time, and they don't know how to educate their children. Empathy, I don't necessarily do better than them.

So now when I educate my child, I basically rarely deny him. I always complimented him, and if I felt that I had a bad temper, I would tell him that I was sorry. Although it is impossible to make a full 100 points for parents, 60 or 70 points are not bad.

Hopefully, my child is a mentally and physically healthy person.

The psychological blow is very powerful, and it may be that a humble word can cause a person's psychological construction to collapse, such as you are really useless.

I think it's just that you contact the people around her to isolate her, which can easily destroy a person's psychology, she may have been reflecting on her mistakes, or she may be lonely and helpless.

Take, for example, school violence. Everyone felt that they were not doing anything, but it caused a big blow to the psychology of the person concerned. The pain in my heart cannot be changed.

It's very simple, everyone has a time when they are vulnerable inside, and some heart-touching attacks on him will destroy him, so think about your tone and words when dealing with others.

Keep hitting him, no matter what he does, just say you can't. In this way, even if he does it, he will not have self-confidence because of what others say. Growing lack of self-confidence.

It's super simple, some people are very sensitive, and if you say a few words that are harsh on her, maybe she can't stand it and will do a lot of excesses, or even commit suicide.

For example: "If someone is always where the focus is, and then suddenly one day no one pays attention to them, and suddenly the focus is not on them." Then he will be autistic and think wildly. ”

You just tell him you're unemployed, you don't have to do anything, and he'll break down on his own.

Everyone in real life is under a lot of pressure in their hearts. We are constantly busy, constantly improving ourselves, just wanting to live a better life. But for most people, it is not easy to survive.

Money is the skeleton of adult life, and work is the most people's money. In real life, food, clothing, housing and transportation, housing and car loans that need to be repaid in order to maintain life, all behaviors are inseparable from the support of money.

If you suddenly run out of money in life, and you don't have to destroy yourself at all, your life will fall apart.

And for most people, the main thing about money is their own work. Maybe there is a little income outside of work, but that income is not enough to make ends meet. This is actually the life of ordinary people, we have thought about too many things and done a lot of things, but we still have to rely on our own work to survive.

Tell an ordinary person that he is unemployed, and his psychology will collapse without you destroying it. You'll never understand how much pressure someone else has in their lives and how much they put their hands on the job.

Maybe before you get married and have children, you will feel that one job does not matter because you still have a little savings in your hand, and even if you lose this job, you will have enough time to find the next one.

But not for those who have families, they are not only under tremendous psychological pressure, but also under tremendous financial pressure. After losing this job, the whole family may fall into a vicious circle, and the whole person may really not accept the blow and collapse.

Everyone's life is not easy, every family has a difficult scripture, and in the life of ordinary people, losing income ** is equivalent to suffering a catastrophe.

Work hard to improve yourself, don't let your survival depend on a job, that can really be easily destroyed.

The most important thing is to destroy the other person's self-confidence, making it difficult for him to succeed in anything he does, which will destroy him.

Let him live a luxurious life, let him know that there are such beautiful things and such beautiful things in the world, and he feels that his previous life is bullshit. Then, let him go back to his normal life.

You only need to adopt the tactic of killing, let the opponent completely lose himself, and then let him fall off the altar.

Destroying a person mentally is as simple as denying his abilities, laughing at what he does, and devaluing his self-esteem.

I think some people are really fragile psychologically, so if you can mention a little bit of bad things about him, he will be very devastated.

It is only necessary to instill in this person all the time a belief that he will fail, so that he completely loses self-confidence and becomes particularly inferior, and it will destroy him.

As long as he constantly attacks his shortcomings and makes those around him aware of them, he will naturally develop self-doubt and even fall into depression.

Let him fall in love with you first, feel that he can't lose you, and then you abandon him, at this time his psychology will definitely collapse, and it will be difficult to accept this reality.

The psychology of ordinary people is really very fragile, and just a word and a look can destroy a person's life.

In fact, it is really simple to destroy a person psychologically, you only need to destroy the person or thing he cares about the most, or destroy the thing he is most proud of.

For example, if you fall in love with someone deeply, and then you feel that she is also sincere to you, you give her everything you have, and she runs away within a few days, and you must be broken down at this time.

When the living expenses are far greater than you can afford, such as huge medical expenses, you will feel hopeless in your heart, and it is easy to destroy an ordinary person psychologically.

Quite simply, negate everything about him. Deny his cognition, deny his actions. Let him fall into endless self-doubt. Sooner or later, his psyche will collapse.

Cold violence and violence can hurt a person and cause irreparable psychological shadows. Bad words hurt people and June cold.

Psychologically destroying an ordinary person is very simple, what he cares about the most, you can go to possess it, even better than what he does, and let him lose.

It is very easy that when there is a change in a person's family and the payment of huge medical bills, it is the moment when an ordinary person is psychologically destroyed.