How a wife should love is perfect, and how a woman should be the perfect wife in the eyes of her hus

Just graduated, it's normal to have a bad job. And according to this situation, your wife (is it just a girlfriend, it's a bit unreasonable to get married just after graduation) said that you are not self-motivated because you rely on your wife too much, and men should go to fight by themselves at this time, and being hurt by their wives at home is easy to make men think that life is more satisfying here, so there is no psychological motivation to work. Maybe it's because of this relationship that your work doesn't go well, so your wife wants to live separately from you for a while.

Her thoughts are all for your own good, I suggest that you work hard in the current unit, and you don't need to be separated from your wife, but tell her that she will put her heart on work for a while, I think she will be happy to continue to survive this period with you!

Give her a visible future. What you give her now is a vague future, at least if it continues like this, you can't give her a rich life. Then you have to reflect, are you willing to suffer with someone who loves you and is also what you love?

If you don't want to, do it! If that doesn't motivate you, then you have to think about it, do you love her or not?

There are difficulties to face together, and she wants to live separately from you, maybe it's just a moment of depression that she said, the so-called deep hatred of love. To be young is to have courage, if you want to change jobs, who will always do a job, now you want to change, not to change, and when? Changing points may improve the situation, but it is also necessary to work hard!

Only persistence, everyone has difficulties.

Now your wife should support you.

Work hard to do a great job. Pragmatic and enterprising, something that modern young people lack.

Ever heard of aesthetic fatigue, or visual fatigue? After being married for a long time, the wife slowly becomes a matter of course in the husband's mind, especially as women grow older, children are born, and the family is burdened with housework, they have lost their former demeanor, and they don't pay attention to their appearance, and the outside world is very exciting, and men will inevitably be upset. Therefore, I think that women should be kind to themselves, think more about themselves, give themselves a little confidence every day, and be a woman who no longer only revolves around her husband, family, and children, so that she can show off and feel fresh in the eyes of her husband.

I believe that my husband will be moved by the new you and will not be at the center of married life.

Like you now, your husband often has to go on business trips, which is indeed very taboo for women, so I suggest that you communicate well with your husband, tell him your thoughts, let him know that you love him very much, and those things that hide from you, whether good or bad, will affect your emotions, so that he understands: husband and wife can have private space, but there should be no concealment, and the premise of having private space is to trust each other. I have also encountered conflicts with my husband before, so I communicated with my husband, hoping that he would empathize with each other, and what to say between husband and wife.

A marriage that lacks communication is bound to have hidden dangers.

Hungry cook for him.

When it's cold, add clothes to him.

Lost and lonely comforted him.

The career is successful and happy for him.

Everything breeds the next generation.

Out of the hall, into the kitchen, in the bed.

Heaven and earth are incomplete, how can the world be perfect! Love and pain are the only way to go in life! Love without impurities?

It's just that you can be desperate for love, it's like a woman who fell in love with a poor boy and eloped with him despite the opposition of her family, she didn't want anything for you, but she wanted to eat!

If she is with you and can't even solve the most basic food and clothing, how long can your crystal clear love without impurities last?

The reality is often very cruel, what kind of love is perfect? What kind of love can be harmless? What kind of love is not greedy?

I don't think there is, there is love and there is harm, love is selfish, to love someone is to have him and dominate him! People who love each other will eventually become married, right? If you can't get what you want, regret, helplessness, and loss will follow...

Everything is because of love, love knows no age, the older people are, the more they know how to love, because they have experienced it, and they know how to cherish it!