When I first added it, the girl took the initiative to find a topic to chat with the boy, did you li

First of all, I'm a man, and from a male point of view your problem. As long as you like it, there's nothing good or bad, since he also gave you a serious reply, it means that he doesn't hate you either, but he may not have a good impression of you.

As long as it is someone you like, there is nothing good or bad, and after a long time, you will be in love with him, and you will get used to chatting with him;

When you stop chatting with him, he will also take the initiative to find you to chat;

In the end, you become lovers, and lovers start as friends;

If you don't like it, there's no need to talk to him, because he thinks you're making a mistake.

It shows that you are a cheerful and generous beauty.

1. I purely treat you as a friend and want to chat with you.

This situation is still relatively rare, after all, many times, there is no pure friendship between girls and boys, however, there will also be this situation, that is, on the premise that both parties have boyfriends and girlfriends, the two have become good buddies and good girlfriends, and they will often chat and share what they have seen and heard in their lives.

2. I have a good impression of you and want to chase you.

This is the most likely situation, most of the time, the guy will only chat with a girl he has a crush on or a close girl, and will not casually waste his energy and time to chat with a girl he has nothing to do with or a girl who is not interested. He wants to talk to you, understand your preferences, lay a good foundation for himself, and when the time comes, he will boldly chase you.

3. Cast a wide net, you are just one of the small goals.

This is also the case, if his chat history has a lot of female friends, and not only chatting with you, but also with other girls at the same time. He will try to find out if you have a boyfriend by chatting with you, such as if you are shopping with your boyfriend? Is your boyfriend in the same school as you?

Once you say you have a boyfriend, he won't contact you afterwards.

First, in the dictionary of love, boys' desire for girls is stronger, especially under the urging of hormones, which is the embodiment of human physiological needs.

The second is that men and women themselves are a collision relationship, boys are the embodiment of strength, girls are the embodiment of weakness, only hard initiative to touch soft, there will be sparks, so men chasing women is a natural behavior.

Because in a relationship, boys generally represent positive and brave, and girls are generally introverted and shy, reserved, and represent the pursued party, so it is often possible to see boys taking the initiative to chat, while girls do not take the initiative to chat with boys.

Because in a relationship, boys should take the initiative, and boys take the initiative to chat with girls, which can reflect the generosity of boys. Girls are generally shy, so boys should take the initiative.

I think, first, that boys may have a good impression of girls, and I hope that through chatting, we can get acquainted with each other and understand each other, which will also be of great help to get along in the future. Second, there is a common topic between the two, maybe the two are friends, have common interests and hobbies, and they can't talk about endless topics when they are together. Third, there may be something wrong with a girl.

The motivations for boys to take the initiative to chat with girls are nothing more than this, either simply treating the other person as a friend and keeping in touch with the other person to maintain the social relationship, or they have a good impression of the girl and want to pursue the other person. Of course, there is also a possibility that the boy sees a girl as an ambiguous target, not only for you, but also for other girls.

If a boy takes the initiative to chat with you, there are two very understandable ones1, and they admire you.

2, scumbag flirtatious.

If a person who is usually very bored and seems to be very lonely suddenly cares about you, often chats with you, and asks for warmth, maybe he is really tempted.

He will pursue, but it won't be too long, maybe he has worked hard in his heart, and he is afraid that he will not be able to give you what he wants and choose to give up and screen himself.

Personally, I think there are several reasons, one is that girls don't call boys, and they don't want to chat with each other at all, even if they are friends, they don't want to be close friends for a while, and then, most girls are more shy, that is, some are embarrassed to talk to others, and they are even more embarrassed to the opposite sex, especially in front of their own interesting opposite sex, they are more shy, and there are also girls who are not shy, but they are afraid of being hurt and losing their dignity. Even if it's interesting or wants to be a friend, she won't take the initiative to find it, or it's pure coldness, and she doesn't want to pay attention to it at all, even if others take the initiative to find her, she doesn't want to pay attention to it, and she doesn't even bother to be perfunctory. In most cases, it's the first one.

Boys take the initiative to chat with girls because boys are more extroverted and active, and girls are more shy and inward-looking, so boys will know how to chat.

Because most boys want to meet more friends, while girls are insecure and afraid of being hurt, they would rather have no one to talk to than take the initiative to find strangers. Maybe the boy is tired or failed to play the game, and wants to chat with the strange opposite sex about the topic that is true or false, and slowly feel tired! It will make you feel better!

Why do all the boys take the initiative to talk to the girls? Girls are naturally more timid, shy, and afraid to take the initiative. Boys are generally born bolder and dare to rush to the front when they do anything. That's why boys are very active.

It may be because most of the boys are more active, and the personality or behavior of everyone who meets their favorite will change a little, maybe the boys sometimes like the girls to a higher degree, not all of them are like this, depending on which one is more active and likes the other party, then they will want to chat or meet each other more.

Most of the girls are more reserved, in fact, there are also girls who are more active, but there are a few. So boys should be proactive when they meet girls who are excited.

The boy takes the initiative to chat with the girl not necessarily because he likes the girl, but at least it can show that he does not dislike the girl, compared to, the boy is more active, and the social status is determined, and the boy is more willing to find a girl to contact the feelings.

Why are boys taking the initiative to chat with girls, maybe girls are more dominant in this regard, because this way of chatting may bring some superiority to girls, so most of them are boys who take the initiative and girls will chat better with these two feelings.

Because among boys and girls, girls are usually thinner-skinned. Even if some girls love someone to death, they have to grit their teeth and not tell each other. So in the chat, it is usually the boys who take the initiative and the boys who take the initiative to find the topic. Girls chatting passively.

In most cases, boys talk to girls more, generally girls are more shy, don't know how to cause topics, think more, afraid that they take the initiative to find boys and boys are disgusted, and if you don't take the initiative to chat with you, they may be waiting for you to talk! Girls are generally more patient!

The reason why boys take the initiative to chat with girls is because boys are naturally more outgoing, so they are often in the initiative position, and when they find a girl they like, they will take the initiative to chat with him.

In most cases, in the relationship between boys and girls, it is the boy who is in the active position and the girl is passive, because the introverted personality is mostly passive, so most of the time the boy takes the initiative to talk to the girl.

It's not all, it's just that in a relationship, most girls are in a more reserved position, and boys are more suitable for taking the initiative, but some boys are more shy, and girls are more active, which depends on the personality characteristics of the boys and girls themselves.

It mainly depends on who loves who in love more, who cares more about whom, who will take the initiative, generally girls are more enjoying the feeling of being chased, women are softer in their hearts, more need to care, boys can also take the initiative to increase the other party's good impression of you.

Of course, it's because this guy likes this girl very much, or has a good relationship with this girl, has a good impression, and has a good impression, so it's like this, if it's not like this, the boy won't take the initiative to chat with the girl at all.

Hello, because girls are generally very shy, very shy, so boys should take the initiative, so there will be boys take the initiative to find girls.

Because it is generally boys who are attracted to girls, and when it comes to falling in love, boys are generally chasing girls, and girls are generally shy, so boys should take the initiative.

It would be more suitable for a boy to take the initiative to chat with a girl, and a girl is more introverted, may be more reserved, and will not be so active in chatting with a boy.

Guys often talk to this girl not necessarily because they like this girl, don't position the relationship with the opposite sex as if he likes me or he doesn't like me. It's so tiring. Generally speaking.

If a girl likes this boy, she can take the initiative to chat with him, but it also depends on the situation, depending on the number of times, too active, too many times, too often, this is not good, it will only make him feel that you are too casual, and will not cherish you.

There is no should or should not, if you like to chat, you can talk more, if you don't like or are busy, you will be busy with your own things first, and your feelings or friends or the initiative are in your own hands.

It doesn't matter if girls talk to boys, not that all understandings should be taken by boys first, and girls can also take the initiative.

I think as long as you think that boy is worth it, that's fine.

I don't know what the "boy" you mean has to do with you, if it's a couple, then it's not a big difference between each other, and it doesn't make much difference if the Lord doesn't take the initiative.

When I met someone I particularly liked.

If you happen to be single and meet a guy you like very much, you can first chat through WeChat to see if you can talk together, and if you have a good chat, you can also try to ask him out. When you meet someone you particularly like, take the initiative to find out if he is interesting to you. In a relationship, figuring out what the other person means in time can also save time.

It's all this time, it's nothing for girls to take the initiative to chat with boys, and it's not a feudal society.

The girl takes the initiative to chat with the boy, not that you bow your head, but that you know that he is the person in your life.

There must be something wrong with this, you take the initiative to chat with someone and you may need help, so edit a good relationship in advance.

I think that if a girl meets a boy she likes, of course she should take the initiative to chat, so that she will not regret it.

Yes, but there are fewer such girls, generally men chase women, if you really like the boy, you will pay attention to him on weekdays, you will take the initiative to chat with him, want to know his current situation, want to know what he is doing today, can you get close to him, always lack is not to chat will not be able to help but pay attention to all of him, so because I like this boy, I will definitely take the initiative to find a topic to chat with him.

It should be, take the initiative to attract the attention of boys, after all, the current society is still relatively open.

If a girl likes a guy, of course she will take the initiative to find a topic to talk to him, not only to chat with him, but also to take the initiative to have physical contact, of course, provided that not everyone does.

Like is shallow love, love is deep like, "In love, some people will take liking as love, but in fact, there is a difference between liking and love.

Women are mostly sensual, and under such sweetness, they will regard liking as true love, give all their sincerity, and in the end, they will find that they love the wrong person.

If you want to judge like and love, there is one of the simplest criteria, whether he will have an affair with you, whether he will have other members of the opposite sex besides you, because true love is exclusive, and you are the only one who really loves you.

Like and love, as long as you distinguish carefully, you will know, when you know that he just likes you, don't fool yourself, go find the person who really loves you.

Like is for a while, love is for a lifetime.

Is love eternal, not necessarily, but if it is someone who truly loves you, he will expect love to be eternal and look forward to being with you all the time.

This is different from the person who likes you, if he just likes you, he won't think about things for a lifetime, and he won't think about what your future will be, and even if you ask to meet your parents or something, he will refuse, in his heart, the relationship between the two people is only temporary, and it is not certain how long it will last, and he doesn't want to talk about things related to the future.

And most women want to get a promise, hoping to hear his plans for the future, which is very important to her, although it can't be completely absolute to say that not talking about the future is not to love you at all, but at least it shows that he really doesn't love you that much, so he will think about backing down.

Like is unscrupulous, love is careful.

If a person just likes you, he can't do this, the first thing he thinks of is himself, and he only thinks about his own feelings when he does anything, and he can't take into account the other party at all, because he is not afraid of losing you, he is not afraid of losing this relationship, he will be unscrupulous if he doesn't care, and he won't care about the other party's thoughts.

People who like you will be ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex and don't know how to keep a distance from you; And the person who loves you will automatically draw a line with other members of the opposite sex, he is only afraid that you will misunderstand;

The person who likes you may only love for a short time, just the freshness of the beginning; And the person who loves you will always like you, will like it for a lifetime, and will always be good to you;

The person who likes you will be unscrupulous, only caring about his own feelings and not caring about the other party; And the person who loves you will be cautious, restrained, and will cherish this feeling.

The people who like you and the people who love you are really different, in this life, you must know how to cherish the person who loves you, and stay away from those who just like you, so that you can reap happiness.