Ask parents for their experience and how to convince them

Eating a little more onions, carrots is good for brain development.

And she can't remember things in books may be because she is distracted, or she is not interested in learning, you should do something to arouse her interest in learning, after all, liking and disliking attitudes towards things are different. And maybe she's just starting school, she's just not adapting, so she doesn't need to worry too much, and maybe things will get better when she gets to the second grade, which is the case with a relative of mine.

Walking and carrying on the other side is particularly effective! (I'm 11 years old, and that's how I usually memorize my books!) ）

First, create an atmosphere of emotional inclusion. When you find that your child is always prone to tantrums, parents should check the atmosphere at home, whether they have caused negative emotions in their children, and whether they have heard their children's voices. If so, parents need to adjust this part in time.

As a parent, you need to be a container for your child's emotional tease. When your child has a tantrum, don't be impatient and listen patiently. When your child's mood is stable, ask your child:

Is there something wrong with your father that makes you angry? Can you talk to Dad? Let our emotions be expressed through our communication.

Let the child feel that his parents are willing to listen and accept him. Gradually, the child will become more and more peaceful.

Second, parents need to change the way they deal with emotions. Don't panic in case of an accident, understand the specific situation first, and when you encounter a situation where you want to get angry, please calm your emotions first, take a deep breath, and calm down. Then we go to understand the reasons behind the behavior, why we are angry, mainly because of the situation that we imagine in our brains.

When we see a certain behavior, we will feel that the child is disobedient, the child is unreasonable, the child lacks self-discipline, and so on, but the actual situation is not necessarily like this. It may be because the child has been treated unfairly, or it may be that the child has some kind of fear in his heart. When parents stop staring at oranges to stop tantrums to deal with problems, they teach their children how to deal with emotions.

Finally, allow your child to make mistakes and change your attitude towards them. Making mistakes is an opportunity to grow. Accept your child's mistakes, no one will make mistakes on purpose.

His starting point must have been to obtain some kind of profit. The intention is good. But if it is really wrong, parents should calmly guide their children to face their mistakes and take responsibility for their own mistakes.

There is a method of separation here, which is that when a child makes a mistake, we do not deny that he is a person, but just analyze things. Even if he does something wrong, the child is still a good child. Just take responsibility and correct it next time. Just right.

Don't veto the child, give the child more opportunities to express himself, understand the child's opinion, and look at the problem from the child's point of view.

The first point of correct guidance and education is that children should be given the right direction, the second point is to give children the greatest support in their hearts, and the third point can let children understand some of the true meanings of life. The code contains dates.

The best way is to set an example for your child and let him follow him in a good direction.

1 Tell them that you don't fit in here.

2 Tell them that you will miss them in your hometown and that it will not be good for your parents and children.

3 From a psychological point of view, children who grow up with their parents are healthier and have a good effect on the formation of a healthy personality.

4 By the side of your parents, with the discipline of your parents, you will be more motivated in your studies, you will live more regularly, you will have fewer opportunities to make bad friends, and you will not learn badly.

5. Promise them that they will study hard after going to Fujian and will not regret their transfer.

In short, know it with emotion, move it with reason, and analyze the above points to them. Be sincere, if not, you can also play the emotional card. If it's very difficult, it depends on which of your parents is easier to speak, start with the ones that are easy to talk to, and break them down.

Anyway, parents love their children, so they will agree.

I said child, find an opportunity to calm down and sit down with your parents on this issue and talk seriously, first explain your thoughts, why you want to transfer to Fujian, what are the benefits, ask them if they are willing to let you go to Fujian, if they are not willing to ask the reason why they are unwilling, there are many things that do not say how you want to go, if transferring to Fujian is very good for you and your parents, then I believe that your parents are willing to let you transfer, everyone knows the heart of parents in the world, but many things your parents also have difficulties or hardships, Maybe there is still a last resort, you are not young, you need to learn to be considerate of your parents. Communicating openly and honestly about your thoughts and being considerate of your parents is the most important thing. I still hope you can go to Fujian, after all, the most important thing is to live together as a family.

The reason for this is, of course, that you have to study hard in the future to impress them, and that you can't read the book here or that you don't have the heart to study here, and if your family is sure that you are determined to go back, and find that you can't study here, then they will definitely consider the problem of you going back.

Can you tell them that you can't get used to the current learning environment and want to go back to where you came from, and I think your parents will be good for you.

I think that if you want to convince your parents, the main thing is to link the reason with learning, saying that you are not used to going back to Jiangxi, and you can't concentrate in class and study, which seriously affects your grades, I think your parents may consider it, I hope you can convince your parents.

Tell them that you need to be with your parents, and parents should also live with their children, so that life is interesting, otherwise you will not be able to get their help in many things, and they will not be able to see your progress and growth.

Family card, look at your acting skills! It's best to convince them with practical actions that you can give up a semester of school, fail in exams, and your parents will let you return to them for the sake of your future!

First of all, you should list the pros and cons of the two places for your study, then communicate your ideas to your parents, listen to their opinions, and finally agree on the school before deciding on it.

What grade are you in now? Otherwise, you can tell your family that the people in the coastal areas are avant-garde, economically minded, and have a very good level of education.

One is that I am not used to going home, including study and life;

Second, learning needs the guidance of parents, since both parents work in Fujian, they should continue to study in Fujian;

The third is that I miss my parents, and I often miss them, which affects my academic performance.

Tell your parents that it's really not used to staying in the city all the time, and going to the countryside, and a lot of it is inconvenient. I want to go back to the city. It's easy to live in the city. So want to go back.

If you have any ideas, say that you miss them, and you are not used to your hometown, you can also test their thoughts first, and then talk about your thoughts.