How should children honor their parents?

In fact, in the past two years, I have found that the relationship with my parents is no longer the same as before. When they really grow like a tree, and they grow old year by year. With the wind and rain and the fierce sun, it is natural to stand up and cover and bear it.

They are beginning to show their old age, their father is no longer able to carry your snuggling, and their mother is no longer your harbor of affection. At this time, be aware of their needs. I think true filial piety is to at least rely on your own ability to not let your parents worry about you and worry about you, and then try to make yourself more capable and capable of taking care of your parents. ‍‍

Take me and my sister as an example, my sister's house is very close to her mother's house, and every day off, she and my brother will go home for a meal, tidy up at home, mop the floor and wash the dishes, and chat with my mother, which is a way of filial piety. And I go to college in other places, once or twice a week to hit **, as long as every time I play with my mother, I will ask my mother what things are used at home, missing, I will go online to buy, send to the home, basically laundry detergent, soap, tea and other daily items, although I can't be with my mother, no matter how busy I will still call her **. There are many ways to be filial, but each one reflects love, and I do the same for my sister, I will call her immediately after fighting with my mother, and I will buy and send her beautiful clothes, shoes, food and drink when I see them. ‍‍

Both parents have pensions and their families are okay, but they are more frugal. So I buy a few boxes of fruit every month and send them back, and every year I add a new set of clothes from the inside out. I used my mobile phone number to open mobile banking for my mother's account, and sometimes I would log in to check the balance of her account, and transfer thousands of dollars when the money was not much.

will subsidize them to travel, but basically let them join the group. This year, they plan to travel with them in person and stay in a five-star hotel that they have never stayed in before. ‍‍

I have always been very grateful to my parents for their education, so that I can maintain an optimistic and positive heart when I experience all kinds of ups and downs in this world, a recent feeling is that with the changes of the times, many things are becoming more and more difficult for parents to understand, in this aspect they will inevitably encounter obstacles, I think in addition to giving gifts, speaking intimate and warm words, etc., subtly to guide them to break through some limitations of things, just like they guided me to think and learn when I was a child, can reduce a lot of conceptual differences, They are also not prone to the feeling of being abandoned by the times. ‍‍

We're over 25 years old, and no matter what, we have to give our parents a little pocket money every month. A few hundred, not a few thousand, not too much. When we were young, our parents often gave us pocket money, and when we grew up, we had to give our parents pocket money often.

We will do to our parents as we do to us. I often give my parents some pocket money, and I often go home to see it. ‍‍

When you come home during the holidays, learn to cook, cook a full dinner for your parents, arrange to travel with your parents and family, often take pictures of your parents, keep beautiful moments, teach your parents to learn to chat online, take your parents to watch a movie, give your parents a ** every week, and say your love for your parents. ‍‍

First of all, subconsciously pay attention to them, tolerate them, communicate patiently, don't talk back, in fact, if you really have a good relationship with your parents, you don't need to pay attention to them, and they have already been revealed in life little by little. ‍‍

In the present conditions of life, there is nothing lacking materially. You should focus on the spiritual.

In fact, parents don't want to gain anything, as long as we live well and go home to see them often, they will be satisfied.

The most important thing as a child is to be by their parents' side, but now for various reasons, everyone has no way to effectively accompany their parents and honor their parents. For example, due to the epidemic, it is very troublesome for us to go anywhere, and it is likely that everyone is busy with work, so it will also affect everyone to take care of their parents. In fact, parents do not want their children to be by their side every day, what parents want most is that their children can take themselves to heart and give themselves a voice or call **** at ordinary times.

When we are not busy, we must accompany our parents, and don't feel very troublesome because our parents have more things, and we are unwilling to stay by our parents' side, which will make our parents feel very sad.

We should also communicate more with our parents, most of the elderly, they are actually relatively lonely, if you can often call your parents, it will also make your parents feel more comfortable. Usually help parents to do more housework, such as helping parents to beat their backs, or rubbing their shoulders, which will also make parents feel that their children are very filial, and will also make parents happy. When we were young, our parents stayed with us as much as possible and took care of us, and we couldn't often use the excuse that we were busy with work when we were older and didn't go home to accompany our parents.

During the New Year's holidays, parents may miss their children more, and everyone can go home as much as possible. If you often need to work outside, you can actually choose to bring your parents to live with you, and there may be some quarrels in ordinary times, but I think most of them are love. And like many girls, if they live alone outside, there will be some dangers, and with the company of their parents, it will be safer.

1. Take care of your parents' daily life. Since it is a different place, I mainly start from my parents' home environment, eating habits, exercise habits, and medicine habits.

2. Reasonably meet the spiritual needs of parents. Parents are old, and they are most afraid of being useless! With the consent of the parents, they can find them some work to relieve their energy, such as volunteering.

Also, it is appropriate to ask parents to help them solve some problems, for example, some interpersonal problems at work, you can ask them for advice, so that they feel that they are always shining!

3. Encourage and support parents to develop themselves! For example, parents can be encouraged to learn something new, such as playing a musical instrument, photography, or even driving a car.

4. Help parents take care of their pension money and do a good job in financial planning! This determines whether parents have enough confidence to arrange their old age according to their own wishes. So that parents never have to rely on their children excessively for money should be the greatest consideration for parents!

In the end, I often go home to see.

When I have nothing to do, I often go home to see my parents.

When people are older, they like to be lively, and they like to see their children come to see them often. It is not uncommon for children to feel that their parents like to be quiet when they are older, so try not to go back and disturb them. In fact, this idea is wrong, as the elderly like to see their children often come back to see themselves, which not only makes outsiders feel that their children are very filial, but also can meet their own inner needs for family affection.

When people are old, they want to see the family gather together and be happy. My mother-in-law lives alone, and she always wants her children to come back and have a meal with her. Every old man's requirements are not high, they don't need any glory and wealth, as long as the family is simple and lives together quietly, so they often go home to see their parents when they are fine.

2. Take your parents for a walk.

It is not easy for people to live in this life, when they are young, they have physical strength and money, but they have no time, and when they are old, they have time, but they have no ability.

In the traditional standard of filial piety to parents, it is not only reflected in the frequent visit to the home, but also in return and love. We must treat our parents with heart, and this is what qualified children are. Take more time to see your parents, talk more with your parents, and go home more to help your parents.

Honor your parents, start with the little things around us!

As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and the traditional education of the Chinese nation constantly warns us to build people and the world on the basis of filial piety, and to respect our parents and elders as the key work after they start a family, but with the continuous development of social forms, the social pressure on the younger generation is increasing, and the work arrangement is also full. Many only children find that their parents are old within a few years of entering the workforce, and the pressure of the family is slowly pressing on their heads, and they also need to marry a wife and have children, or start a family.

At this time, children still have to face the financial pressure of working for a short time, and many people will face the question of whether they choose to return to their families at this time or stabilize their careers and jobs as their parents get older.

Many people think that only by starting a career can they have more and better abilities to honor their parents, and only with better living conditions can parents be regarded as being able to take care of themselves, if they are not able to grasp the development opportunities in this period of work struggle, then it is very likely that their parents have not been able to enjoy a better material life, and they have lost the opportunity to move towards a higher development platform.

Some people believe that parents want more than just material needs, no matter how much pleasure the material can give them, it is not as good as their children to be able to be by their side in their old age, for them only this warm companionship is the greatest happiness, as the saying goes, "the son wants to raise and the parent does not wait" is not the fulfillment of this sentence, as long as the parents are healthy together, that is happiness, isn't it.