I m nine years old, and I realize that I don t like to study, and I can t understand what I do?

Hello, when you pluck up the courage to ask this question, it proves that you are still a little friend who wants to learn.

First of all, if you find that you don't like to study and have lost interest in your current learning, you can find a learning method that you are interested in, and if you are not interested in boring words, you can try to imagine interesting pictures and animations to deepen your interest in learning.

Secondly, if you don't understand it, on the one hand, the learning method is wrong, and it may be that you can't learn because you are not interested. If you don't have the right way to study, you can try to find other ways to study, or you can ask teachers and parents for help.

Finally, I hope to find a study method that I like and is suitable for, and my grades have improved.

I don't like it because I don't understand it, right? I hope you will preview before class, listen carefully in class, and write homework carefully after class, so that you can understand what the teacher says in class.

Child, think about it, if you take the first exam, how happy your family will be, how ambitious you will be, when you work hard, you will reap the happiness you didn't expect, you say you don't understand, that's because when you listen to the class, you suddenly think about whether you understand the problem or not, so that you will be worried and afraid, you have to concentrate. Listen, believe in yourself, when others put in 2 times the effort, you give 4 times the effort, you will have unexpected gains, come on! First!

Come to the construction site to move bricks, come here and be brothers.

To cultivate children's interest in learning, here are some ideas for you:

1. Give play to the role of parents as role models. Words are better than examples. A parent's love of learning is the greatest encouragement.

Children who grow up in an environment with a strong learning atmosphere tend to have a strong interest in learning. Parents and children learn together. Children who have just entered school have poor self-restraint, so parents can accompany them to read for a while, pay more attention to their children's learning, understand their children's homework, and help correct their mistakes in time.

2. Try to improve your child's grades. Improving children's grades is the most important and effective way to cultivate children's interest in learning. Parents should try to improve their children's academic performance, even in a particular subject.

Friends who have used speed reading memory training know that it is very helpful for children's attention, memory, reading ability, thinking, etc., and you can go to the "Elite Special Whole Brain Speed Reading Memory" software practice for detailed learning materials.

3. Start from a child's specialty to stimulate children's interest in learning. Every child has strengths, and parents can take the opportunity to cultivate their interest in learning and perseverance through their children's strengths, strengths and successes, and achieve better results. Take the kids to a science museum or museum.

It can stimulate children's curiosity and desire for knowledge, and enhance children's interest in learning.

4. Parents should praise and encourage their children more, and blame and scold them less. Children have self-esteem, and they are proud when their achievements are recognized. Parents should not let go of every opportunity worthy of praise, when the child has achieved a little achievement, let him feel the joy of success, let him know how happy success is, so he will do the same next time.

This gentle form of praise is easy for children to accept, and children will not lose interest in learning because of a bad grade.

5. Be patient and don't rush for quick success. Parents must be patient when cultivating their children's interest in learning, because the child's mental development is not mature enough and stable enough, so it is more active and playful, so do not be too eager to avoid negative effects.

What should I do if my child doesn't like to learn?

Take your time and develop your interest first.

First of all, we must make friends with the child, let the child believe in himself, and then understand the child's real thoughts and reasons for not learning, help the child solve his problems, and help the child fall in love with learning, which requires a process, patience, and an equal view of the child.

Playful children, go and ask an expert to enlighten you.

Don't push your children too hard, education in China is too much of a failure. Cultivate your child's interest in learning first, and don't instill too much knowledge in him.

You can play middle school and take her to certain places. After that, teach him what it is and how to write it.

Forget it, she's not reading material.

It's not that I can't remember, it's that I don't.

The water boils and then cools and the water does not boil at all and then cools down.

When I first learned it, I didn't learn it completely, and then I forgot it after a while. In the future, you have to learn more, and you have to learn to over-study, that is, if you think you have learned well, you have to learn for some more time, and you will not let go until the melon is ripe. What you memorize can be recited repeatedly, and after two weeks, after checking, you can still recite it to remember, remember, two weeks is the time when short-term memory becomes long-term memory.

In addition, there are some things that the purpose of learning is not to memorize, but to be able to use them.

For example, in mathematics, you may not be able to memorize many formulas and laws, but you can also write out the problems and do them correctly, which means that the skills have been mastered, and the knowledge is not very clear and does not affect the later learning.

Some of my students have fourth graders who have forgotten words from third grade, and the best students have the same situation, but not too severely.

My students have forgotten the laws of arithmetic in the fourth grade and the best students have not had such a situation, never.

This shows that it is not easy to forget after knowledge is transformed into skills, and it is easy to forget simple knowledge.

What to do, mathematics should do more problems, and after becoming a habit, you don't have to mind specific knowledge, because it has been transformed into skills and can be stored with high quality.

Chinese and English need to read and memorize more, and write more, these things are fixed knowledge, and they rely strongly on memory, so they should be repeated often.

Language depends on memorization, and mathematics depends on problem solving.

First of all, you have to see whether the child does not want to learn or can't sit still uncontrollably, if you just don't want to learn, send it to an educational institution with a special teacher to tutor, if there are other problems, such as being overactive, you can consult a doctor.

Try to communicate with him with the mentality of a friend, don't feel that he is naïve, communicate with him in a language that he can understand, so that you can listen to your words and do what you say, little by little, to make him enjoy the joy of harvesting the results of learning, and gradually fall in love with learning

For a child, you are talking about a thousand ways, he is in the left ear and out of the right ear, you just have to find a way to arouse his interest. Because I don't know much about your children, I'll give you an example: your children love to play with computers, you can say, this computer is not good, you have to read more books, and buy a lot of computers to play in the future.

There may be the following shortcomings:

1. Laziness and greed;

2. Players often need to be mobile phones, games, and chats for a long time;

3. Playing with the computer, not according to the work and rest time;

4. Lack of nutrition;

In fact, if you answer wrong, there are so many classmates and teachers who will correct your different views, so that you can learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses, and remember it vividly, so you have to face it boldly, as long as you correct the above shortcomings, your grades will improve by leaps and bounds, completely different!

1. There are clichés in the West, playing in elementary school, rushing in middle school, and fighting in college. This set of words will help your child, 2, let your child read more. 3. Take your children out often to increase their knowledge (i.e., friends gatherings, birthday parties, visiting relatives and New Year's greetings, etc.) ）