Is it possible to marry someone shorter than you? What if the other half is shorter than you

Updated on society 2024-07-10
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, how incongruous it looks! I'm not sure I won't go home to someone shorter than me anyway. We can analyze it from multiple angles:

    From my own point of view, I was already 170 and I was okay to be tall, so if I had to choose a boy who was shorter than myself to marry, I would feel a little embarrassed, and I usually went shopping or something, I would feel that I was looking for a boyfriend who was shorter than myself, I couldn't take it out, and others were pointing behind my back, how embarrassing, and especially at the class reunion, you said that I led my boyfriend out, and my classmates looked at it, and my boyfriend was not as tall as me, how embarrassing. And whether there is a sense of security, it is said that a man stands up to the sky, upright and unyielding, and a boy is shorter than a girl, so that people will not look like a boyfriend and girlfriend.

    From his point of view, if a boy is a girl who is taller than himself, then the boy is even more faceless, what is not good, but he is looking for someone who is taller than himself, isn't that a slap in the face? Although marrying someone is not marrying appearance, after all, external things can't be too bad. If he's strong enough, it's okay to be strong.

    Moreover, short and thin generally match, so short boyfriends are generally thinner, and I am tall and strong, so when two people are together, the body shape is even more incompatible.

    From the perspective of your child's genes, genes are something you have to consider. Height is inherently closely related to genes, if my boyfriend is shorter than me, what can I do with the child in the future, if the genetic inheritance is too strong, then the baby's height is estimated to be miserable. Besides, I don't think the family will agree.

    So I'm definitely not going to marry a boyfriend who is shorter than me. <>

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I wouldn't choose a guy who was shorter than myself to marry, sometimes, I would feel like I was a little hypocritical, I wanted to save face, I would feel that I couldn't find a boyfriend who was shorter than myself, and I couldn't take it out, okay, allow you to baash me.

    I once met a boy on a blind date, the conditions are very good in all aspects, and our personalities are also very compatible, the only thing I am not satisfied with is the height, strictly speaking, his height is a little taller than me, but I can't wear high heels, as long as I wear a little shoes with a little heel, the two of us stand together, it will look very discordant, I am more like a boyfriend. When I first came into contact, I was also convincing myself again and again to accept the other party's height, after all, it is the person's inner nature to marry, and it doesn't matter if the height is shorter, but after the two of them, I still can't cross the hurdle in my heart. Out of responsibility for both parties, I told him that we were not suitable, and he asked me what the reason was, and I euphemistically said that the personalities were not compatible.

    Actually, the reason why I care about the other person's height is because I want my boyfriend to be able to protect me and give me some security, if he is not strong enough inside, then I want him to be strong enough. Another point is that short boyfriends are generally thinner, and my body shape is a little fat, so when two people are together, the body shape is even more incompatible.

    Finally, the genes of the next generation must be considered. My height is 160, if my boyfriend is shorter than me, then what can I do with the child in the future, if the genetic inheritance is too strong, then the baby's height is estimated to be miserable in the future.

    Of course, everyone has their own choice, and some girls will still live happily if they marry a boy who is shorter than themselves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    <> to this question, I would like to say that I will not marry someone shorter than me, because I am not too tall myself, and if I find a partner who is shorter than me, I will feel that I am not looking for someone whose husband protects me, but a little brother who wants me to take care of his feelings.

    It is said that a man stands up to the sky, upright and unyielding, a boy is shorter than a girl and makes people look like they don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, of course, this is just my own opinion, only on behalf of myself, other people's opinions will not be said.

    The first is a sense of security. If I find a boyfriend who is shorter than me, I feel that he can't protect me when I'm in trouble and can't give me the security I want. I'm not discriminating against boys who are short in height, I just can't accept that boys are lower than girls, but on the contrary, if my other half is taller than me, not to mention too tall, just half a head taller than me, my requirements are not too much, so I will feel safe walking with him, even if the sky falls, I am not afraid, because he is on top of it!

    The second is that if you go shopping together, it feels very awkward, because most couples are a combination of girls and boys, so if we walk on the street, we will feel very eye-catching, we will feel very uncomfortable, anyway, I can't stand it, a while ago I saw a couple when I was shopping with my classmates on the street, that is, girls are taller and boys are lower than girls, and then several of us are discussing, looking at this couple, I feel that the height difference is so awkward, it feels like the roles of boys and girls are reversed. It makes people suddenly feel like a girl protecting a boy.

    In fact, there are such examples around me, there is a couple in another class of our major, I see them walking together every day, I feel uncomfortable, I don't know if I am biased, but it is just me.

    In the eyes of boys, you will think, this boy is so powerful, although he is not tall, but find a girl who is so tall, yes! But in the eyes of girls, it will feel a little ridiculous. Well, I can't take it anyway.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Capital goes to play with friends. Therefore, girls will also be more willing to find a shorter boy. Of course, many shorter boys will be more awkward to get along with girls. Therefore, girls should also consider this issue when choosing a boyfriend.

    3.See the good in you.

    There is a joke on the Internet that the biggest characteristic of a boy is that he is not handsome but good-looking. Of course, being good-looking is also an advantage. So if you want to find a guy who is not short in height but has other advantages, then you have to choose one with his own strengths.

    Know that everyone is unique.

    4.In him, you will see self-confidence.

    Many short boys will have low self-esteem, thinking that their height is not confident enough at all, so they will not be confident. It may not be because he is short enough to have enough self-confidence to face his other half! So when his height is not tall enough compared to himself?

    5.can make you feel more secure.

    Everyone has a sense of security, and people who are insecure are like a house without security. When a man has a sense of security, he can feel at ease in this world and will not be affected by the problem of height. At the same time, it will also enhance your sense of security, isn't this kind of relationship sweet?

    In fact, everyone's height is different, and everyone has their own pursuits!

    6.on him.

    I'm sure most girls like tall guys. So if your boyfriend isn't tall but attractive, you'll love it. Short men tend to be less confident in terms of self-confidence.

    So for short people, being short can make people feel a sense of superiority. Many people feel that they will not suffer if they are not tall in real life. In fact, when a girl chooses a partner, she depends on his attitude towards herself.

    It also depends on whether he loves you or not!

    7.to give you the feeling.

    The height problem is a problem that many girls are more concerned about, but if they really want to be with you, it is not impossible to affect you, so this is a very important reason. For a guy, if you think you are very good, then he will definitely give you a very handsome and attractive feeling. No matter how short he is, he should give you a sense of your own charm.

    That way you'll give you the feeling that you want to protect him. But if a boy is ugly and easily disliked by girls, then he will definitely not have a good ending.

    So what if you are taller and more handsome and smart? Then you should find a way to attract him! Girls always like some handsome and have their own charm, charming, taller and handsome, cool, handsome and other types of boys will definitely be liked by girls, and in the minds of girls will also feel that this height is also relatively high!

    If a girl chooses a husband, then you must choose those who are taller or better-looking.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The other half is shorter than you, try to wear flat shoes, for love, sacrifice a little, distance is not a problem. Among the many sports that help you grow taller, stretching is an effective exercise that can be operated at home. The reason why stretching helps to grow taller is because the human body is in a long-term weight-bearing state in most cases, which leads to the suppression of the space between the bones, and the space is less and less.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Answer: 'Why does a person who is shorter than me say that person is shorter than me?' This sentence highlights the comparison psychology of human nature, for example, when a group of people stand together, someone next to them says that student A is shorter than student B, then student A casually says that student C next to him is shorter than student B, this is a very normal comparison psychology, student A means that he is taller than student C.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Thanks for having me! I'm very grateful to be able to ask this question, and I would like to use my own experience with this question!

    First of all, I don't think the word dwarf or poor means the same thing! Short and stubborn are natural, and we generally can't change them, but in this society, people are more inclined to the appearance of Gao Jun, then again, if you improve the overall quality of the individual, this kind of short appearance can't cover your inner light. Naturally, there are people who love you.

    The so-called love is definitely not a private life at first sight, and it will not change. It is true that love at first sight, but love at first sight is also the foundation for the cultivation of long-term love, so that it can be called love.

    Secondly, being poor is a trivial matter, and how many rich celebrities are not poor before they are rich. Remember that poverty is something we can change, and nothing that can be changed is a thing.

    The most common example is Ma Yun, we are all familiar with him because of his talent and wealth, but to be honest, I was a little flustered when I saw Ma Yun's ** for the first time, I think the rich people in my impression should not be like this, but staring at him is rich, he is still talented. And when he was poor and white, he also got married and had the most sincere love, wasn't he short and poor at that time, who can deny it, right?

    It can be seen that the dwarf poor deserve love, and the dwarf poor can also be changed!

    Hope mine can help you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In our feeling, it is a bit difficult to marry a short wife with a short person, and people will not come back when they see you.

    But in real life, it is not uncommon for many short men to marry wives who are taller than him. Combining these short and tall wives, these short men must have their own charms and strengths. One thing should be a little similar, that is, being able to speak well, have a three-inch tongue, or be able to speak sweetly, win the hearts of beauties, and hug beauties.

    Seriously, I still kind of admire these short men who have a career and a family. On the contrary, most of those who are unable to marry a wife because of their short stature are always not very good at speaking, or they have no follow-up after a sentence. Because they are short, they will have an inferiority complex in their bones.

    Here, they want to turn their inferiority complex into self-confidence, which may bring good luck to themselves.

    This also illustrates the importance of being able to speak well, so you should also pay attention to the cultivation of eloquence, which will eventually bring you good luck.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In real life, many women will not marry a man who is shorter than themselves, because such a man does not seem to have that masculinity and insecurity, so women will not choose such a man, and they will feel weak.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes. As long as the woman loves the man enough, then it is okay if he is shorter than the woman, and the woman will marry.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes. My aunt married my uncle, who was shorter than me, because my uncle was very kind to her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I just think that I will be very manly, can give my husband a sense of security, and I think that such a husband is petite and cute, and there will be no domestic violence at all, and he seems to be coquettish when he is angry.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you marry someone shorter than yourself, you feel that your husband will be very little to help in life, and there will also be very embarrassing things such as not being able to reach things in high places, no one to carry when you are sick, and shopping is like a sister and brother, and the children born will also face the problem of growing short.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no experience, you have to believe that the person you decide to marry must be the person you like and are satisfied with, and you are determined to spend the other half of your life together, so you must tolerate each other's shortcomings, even if you are shorter than yourself, it is nothing, and the person you marry is the most important.

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