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Blind date is actually a traditional Chinese virtue, and you must be able to find someone you like on a blind date.
For the person I like, love itself, in fact, blind date is just a channel, a channel to link those who want to fall in love and get married, if I want to fall in love now, I will chase the person I like around me, but I looked around and found that there is no person I like around me, what can I do, I am getting older and older, at this time, there are people around me who say: I will introduce you to a girlfriend.
You see, it's a faster way to meet someone you likeIt's just that a blind date is to screen a favorite person from a group of people, and chasing and being chased are just directly meeting the person you like.
First of all, the people who participate in the blind date are very recognized by the blind date, although many blind date people are in a hurry to get married, but in fact, not all, even if most of them are, the blind date still hopes to meet the right person and live for a lifetime.
Moreover, the blind date is because you have not met the person you like, the blind date is a screening of those you don't know but your friends know, first of all, the other party agrees with the blind date, the other party is the same age, and in the eyes of friends, the other party and you are the right person.
In the case, many blind dates are people who want to get married, or want to fall in love, and if you take the initiative to chase someone, even if that person agrees, he may never have any intention of getting married, but he just thinks that you are very good, but there must be a threshold for marriage on a blind date.
Therefore, for various reasons, blind dates are a good way to find the right person, and you can quickly screen a type or person you like, why not?
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<> as a junior single graduate girl who doesn't have a boyfriend yet, I think I should find my other half through blind dates in the future! Personally, I don't reject blind dates, and I don't feel ashamed, but as for whether you can find someone you like through blind dates, it depends on the situation.
Some likes it like it at first sight, and some like it is through a long time of contact that they slowly like each other, and I personally still think that it is more reliable to fall in love over time, so that this kind of love can last for a long time. Because love at first sight is usually mistaken for liking by many people, but after getting along a few times, you will find that the other party is not suitable for you, and the original liking is gone.
For my future, I don't think I can escape to go on a blind date, just a while ago I was told by my mother to let me go on a blind date, but I didn't agree, so I didn't let it go. But I don't reject blind dates, and I think it's good if I can find someone who appeals to me through blind dates. Because on a blind date, first of all, the other party's family conditions are known to both families, and the family conditions must be recognized by my parents, and our love is based on material life, which is also a very good choice.
One of my former classmates was married last year, she and her husband met last year through a blind date, at first she also went on a blind date with a playful mentality, because she has been reluctant to go on a blind date and felt very ashamed, but because of her parents' repeated insistence, so she went, she also communicated with me before she went, if I send you a message in a while, you will call me ** to call me away.
However, she never sent me a message, and she told me afterwards that the man was very good, so she left ** and WeChat, but I didn't expect them to really develop and get married. Therefore, through blind dates, you can find someone you like, even if you don't like it at first, but you can start with friends, and maybe you like it slowly!
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<>I think it's okay, blind date as a way for strange men and women to get to know each other, I personally feel that it provides a good platform for two people who are not familiar with each other to come together and talk and interact. Many times young people who go to work, out of the campus environment, after entering the society, find that it is really not easy to find a favorite object, especially due to the restrictions of work, it is likely that there are all men or women around, so it is really difficult to meet someone you like.
At this time, it is a good way to go on a blind date, but in the environment of China, many men and women are forced by their parents to go on a blind date, some men and women do not want to get married, or they are not so anxious, but they are forced to go on a blind date, and after they go, they find that the other party is not their own dish, and there is no follow-up. This repeated several times makes many people very disgusted with blind dates, and when they go on blind dates, they are often perfunctory and don't take it seriously at all. This also gives many people who don't have a blind date feel that a blind date is a very meaningless measure.
In the past few years, blind date and dating programs were very popular, such as Jiangsu Satellite TV's "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", although many of them are suspected of showing, but there are still many people who meet true love, they hold hands and go to the end, which makes people quite moved to see such a result. There are many examples of this in real life, many couples met through blind dates, and then slowly got to know each other, found that it was quite suitable, fell in love, and then got together.
If you have a sincere attitude of finding a partner and believe that you can meet someone you like, then the more likely you are to be able to find your other half, on the contrary, if you reject blind dates and feel that it is impossible to find, then you will naturally miss the person you want to meet.
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Personally, I think that blind date is a traditional way of marriage and love, although it has been gradually replaced by other ways in modern society, it is still an important way for many people to find true love.
1.*The importance of getting to know each other**: In a blind date, people can get to know each other's personalities, interests, lifestyles, etc. more deeply. This can help people better judge whether they are a good fit for each other and can also help them build a deeper emotional connection.
2.Be proactive. If you like the other person, express it in time and take the initiative to pursue it. The blind date opportunity is rare, and if you miss it, you may miss the happiness of a lifetime. Being brave enough to express yourself is the key to finding true love.
4. In love and marriage, you should not be too reserved. In the process of courtship, there is some physical contact and ambiguous flirting, which is what love should look like.
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Everything is possible, many people find true love through blind dates, as long as everyone pays sincerely, they will always meet what they like.
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Not all blind dates are guaranteed to find true love. Blind date is just about participation, just enjoy the blind date process, as for the blind date result is not particularly important.
Many people take blind dates too seriously. You don't have to treat the blind date as a task, you can face the blind date in a more relaxed way.
The result of the blind date is nothing more than two kinds, one is to find true love through blind date, you hit it off or fall in love at first sight, hate each other late, and then love each other and stay together for a lifetime, which is a happy ending. Another is through a blind date, and you find out that the two of you are not suitable at all, and you fail on a blind date.
Whether the blind date succeeds or fails, and whether you find true love through the blind date, it doesn't matter. The important thing is to enjoy the blind date process and get to know more friends through the blind date. Even if you can't be friends, it doesn't matter, just add some experience and color to your ordinary life.
In short, blind dates do not necessarily lead to true love.
Blind dates just help you better understand what your requirements and standards are for your partner.
If you can go on a blind date with a more peaceful and natural mentality, maybe you will have unexpected gains and surprises.
If you have too high expectations or expectations for blind dates, you take blind dates too seriously, and you can't enjoy the blind date process, then you may not be able to find true love through blind dates.
The so-called true love does not fall from the sky, nor does it mean that you will meet it if you stay at home, but you have to take the initiative to create conditions to embrace love and find true love, so that you can find happiness that truly belongs to you.
Blind date is not the goal, blind date is just a way and channel for you to get married or find true love. Therefore, you should neither blindly resist or dislike the blind date, nor should you care too much about the success or failure of the blind date.
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Presumably many people have experienced the "torture" of blind dates, and many people feel that blind dates are unreliable, but there are also many blind dates around me who are married, which shows that in the process of blind dates, you may also meet people you like, and I think the person you like in the picture should be a feeling, for example, I met this person for the first time, and I felt that the two people were quite compatible through conversation, and then they both had the meaning of further development, so it should be in love with each other, after all, the society is so open now, It's not like people in our parents' era a few decades ago, who got married after a blind date.
Like a person to say complicated and complicated, simple and simple, most of the people they like should have a good impression of the beginning, such as the TV series at the beginning of the two people are like enemies, and then the love of the dead and alive is still a minority, most of them should have a good impression of each other at the beginning, especially the blind date, because many young people are more reluctant to go on a blind date, and they are forced to meet under the pressure of their parents.
If you feel that the other party's first feeling to yourself is okay in the blind date, then I think you can take the initiative, such as chatting more, so that you can get to know each other a little more deeply, and see if the three views of the two people are the same, after all, some people just have empty skin, and if you have an in-depth understanding, you will find that it is not a type of person at all, of course, appearance is important, but I think the most important thing is that two people can get along, so that whether it is in love or marriage in the future, it will be happier.
It is very important to find a person with the same three views as a partner, I will give you a simple example, for example, you are very economical, usually wear clothes are dozens of yuan, and you spend more money, clothes are generally more expensive, so it is easy to have contradictions in the future, because the concept of spending money is different, so there will be a lot of small frictions in daily life, and most of the small frictions that defeat feelings are these small frictions in daily life.
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It is necessary to see a few more people, and in the process of getting along, do not have a colored eye, and you can find the most comfortable mode with a normal heart, which is the person you like the most.
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I think you can directly put forward your own requirements, so that the other party will find you a suitable partner according to your requirements, and you will naturally be able to meet the person you like.
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If you want to meet the person you like, first of all, the first impression should be better, have an eye relationship, and then you can go to chat with each other more and meet each other. Slowly, you can get to know each other's personalities, see if they have common topics, and whether they will like themselves.
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When you go on a blind date, you should be with each other, that is, when you chat. Communicate with others seriously, and then have your own ideas and goals, so that the person you are dating feels that you are very self-centered and assertive.
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In the process of asking for each other, whether the other party takes you as the main thing and does not let some unnecessary things disturb you, such as not looking at the mobile phone often, not looking outside, etc., which means that the focus is on you.
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You should take the initiative to bring up some light-hearted, humorous topics, but also learn to praise and praise the other person, and you should make the other person think that you are a humorous and funny person. You can tell jokes to the other person to liven up the atmosphere.
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First of all, look at the other party's appearance and do not meet their basic requirements, and then chat, look at his personality and his personal cultivation to roughly judge whether he likes the person.
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If you're a boy, you can take the initiative and find something to talk about so that the scene isn't so awkward, and if you're a girl, smile more and speak appropriately.
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A few more phases, just talk more. First of all, take a look at the edge of your eyes at first glance to see if it is the appearance you like, and whether it looks kind and generous.
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First of all, you have to understand her character, and secondly, you have to understand his work and his life and rest, is he the person you care about? Whether he meets your conditions so that you can be matched.
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The person you like at a glance on a blind date is the one you like. If you are not interested at a glance, you are not the right person.
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When you go on a blind date, the one that can make your heart fall in love at first sight is the person you like.
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Choose according to your own criteria, so that you can find someone you really like, and pay attention to strengthening communication to be able to persevere.
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It should be more difficult, through blind dates, the only way to find a match is to touch, and if you are lucky, you can meet.
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Through these, it is difficult to see whether he likes you or not, and he can't tell if he doesn't like you, but he can see that he has feelings for you, because he didn't like you to go on a blind date at first, otherwise he wouldn't have said anything to save you.
But men also have self-esteem, he won't easily say something to you until he understands whether you like him or not, unless the other party loves you very much or belongs to the kind of thick-skinned man, otherwise, if you say this to him, he can only be sad alone.
Love should be single-minded, if you like this man, just try to fight for it, before there is no result, it is best not to go on a blind date, otherwise it will hurt you and him, it is rare that you like each other, if you feel that his conditions are still satisfactory, try to develop from friends to lovers, if you feel that you are not a good match, then don't engage in ambiguity, ambiguity is unfair to you and him, and it is also an irresponsibility for feelings, and feelings must not be a little false.
If you really like this man, take the initiative to find him, and explain to him that the blind date is not your intention, just to deal with the parents, if you don't want to have a result between you, then his attitude is really not important to you, don't worry about it.
If he is sure of this person in his heart, he will definitely work hard for him, will give him all his things, and will do his best to do good for her as long as he wants, because as long as he is happy, he will be very happy, and he will pamper her like a princess.
Be generous, if a man is stingy, it will be very boring. If you are sincere, there is no need to have any worries, after all, people are in society, no one has the right to restrict the normal communication of others, even if it is a husband and wife, you should face each other's normal communication calmly on the basis of mutual respect and understanding. But everything must be measured, if there are really bad signs, you still have to be flexible to warn her...
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