The best love is not to bother, or not to give up?

<>There are always differences in people's views on love, but there is no definition of love, but true love must not be selfish.

Many people's love is actually selfish, butIf you really love someone, you will respect that person's ideas and choices, if you blindly interrupt, it means that in this relationship, you love yourself more than you love each other.

Love is sacred and selfless, as long as the person you love is good, you will be happy, instead of always thinking that you might still have a chance, always thinking about not giving up.

Everyone has their own understanding of love, but in fact, it doesn't matter who and whose love isNot bothering is actually the best option, and it is also for both parties to be decent.

--- the most important thing about loving someone is not what kind of result you want to get, nor does it have to be with this person, loving someone is always just your own business, and it has nothing to do with others.

--- love is originally a person's solo song, the other party is your protagonist, but you are just A, B, C, and D passerby A in the other person's life.

A person's one-man show, if you don't give up, will give the other party serious psychological pressure,was originally the role of passerby A, but instead it became a negative character who burdened the other party.

Keep love in the bottom of your heart as the most beautiful memory

--Regret is the normal state of life, and love is also the norm.

The best love is not to disturb, not to bring trouble to each other's lives, to watch each other get better and better silently, regrets are only their own regrets, and memories are also their own memories.

As long as there is a process, don't care if the final result is satisfactory or not。Just like in life, the meaning of hard work is to make yourself better and better in the process of hard work, and the result is not so important.

Summary:

In fact, no matter what kind of love it is, the best result is not to bother, there are so many people in the world, there will always be better people.

The above are personal views and opinions only.

There are always some people who are so clearly engraved in your life, immersed in the blood, deep into the bone marrow, and cannot be forgotten in life and death.

- The best love is, of course, not giving up

- Loving someone is never just a matter of words

Loving someone is never just talking, sinceWhen you say love, you have to be responsible for what you have said, instead of giving up when you encounter a little setback in love, forgetting all the good things about a person, love is not easy.

It is not easy for two people to meet in this busy era, soWe must cherish each other even more. It's really too simple to say that you give upIf two people refuse to bow their heads for each other, then the end of a relationship is too easy. How many couples are because each other refuses to bow their heads to each otherSo much so that two people miss it, can you say that they don't love each other?

No. Love is about cherishing each other.

- True love will not be given up easily

What is true love? Love is love, is it love if you give me a gift? Of course notLove is more about companionship, it is learning to accept each other's good and bad, two people have been together for a long time, contradictions and quarrels are essential, and some character shortcomings will be exposed, this is the time to really test the love of two people, he isWhether you are willing to accept your badness or not, and whether you are willing to stick to this relationship, you can know.

In fact, there are many people who say that they don't believe in love, and there are also many people who don't want to eat the cry of love, and just want to eat the sweetness of love. Admittedly,Love at the beginning is bound to be sweet, but as time goes by, true love will slowly emerge, and the bitterness of love will come, and you will be together for longer after you have survived; If you can't get through it, your fate will end here. True love will not give up easily, but will always stick to the end.

——If the love between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

Long-term love is not something that can be decided in a day or twoA long-term love must stand the test of time and the precipitation of years。InThere are many love stories in ancient times that are very sincere and passionateOn the other hand, fast-food love is being mentioned more and more often, and more and more love is not labeled as worthlessBut is this the essence of love? Of course not, love is always sincere and hot.

Is it in the morning and twilight?There are not a few couples who have carried long-distance relationships, and they all miss each other in the days when they can't meet, and their thoughts turn into motivation, and they strive to become better versions of each other in the days when they can't meet, and brighten each other's lives together, which is what true love should do.

I think the best love is not to bother。The person who will ask this question must need it after being rejected by the person he likesChoose between continuing to hold on and quitting silentlyof people. In this case, I think not to disturb is more of a reflection of love for him.

1. Love is restraint

If you are rejected by the person you like, it will still beRise to the challenge and chase and fight, which is likely to beCause trouble to the other partyIf you really love her, you must be reluctant to let the other party feel troubled because of yourself and affect your mood. It was said in the movie "There Will Be No Future"."To like is to be presumptuous, and to love is to be restrained".Choosing not to disturb is a manifestation of restraint. Even if you like each other very much and eagerly hope to achieve positive results with each other, you can do it if the other party refusesDon't force itto people, which truly embodies the love for each other.

There will be no date after the movie.

2. Love is companionship

Hide your love for each other in a small corner of your heart, no longer force each other to be with you, but always be by each other's side, keep him healthy, happy, and carefree. And if you still don't give up and chase after you, the other party will probably not be able to bear to stay with you, when the time comesNot even friends can do it。If you really love someone, you definitely don't want to see this kind of "tearing your face" ending, but will chooseDecent, decent, and retreat

Accompany. 3. Love is a responsibility

"If I love you, I will have you the way you think is safe and comfortableIf you truly love someone, you will definitely make sure that this relationship is not reconciledDidn't burden the other partyIf the other person doesn't love you, you restrain your loveEnsuring the happiness of the other person is your responsibility for this love。Falling in love with someone, she and he seems to become a holy place in your heart, yesUnsulliedAnything that causes harm to the other person is abrupt, and this is true for others, and even more so for oneself. It is the duty of the lover to protect this holy place.

Movie Journey to the West.

To sum up,The best love is not to be disturbed

So the best love, is not to bother, or not to give up?

I think if two people break up, if the other person obviously doesn't like you anymore, or if two people don't think it's right for each other, don't bother. Like in the past two years, many people joke that the ex is the love of burning pillar incense on the Qingming Festival, if you ask me what is the best love, then I think it is to overcome all hardships and be with him firmly, of course, you must also listen to the opinions of your parents, after all, your parents are from the past, and they definitely don't want your future husband or wife to be a bad person.

The best love is to silently support him, accompany him, and understand each other with him to live well, if you really feel regretful, then chase it back, even if you don't chase it back, don't be sad, maybe regret is the normal state of life.

I think two people are in love, everyone has their own requirements, whether it is marriage or love, it takes two people to run in for a long time and find a way to get along with each other that is most suitable for each other. People will meet many people in their lives, and the one who can accompany them to the end is undoubtedly the most suitable person, so even if you miss it, don't be down! Maybe it's someone passing by in your life, maybe this relationship will make you understand something, or maybe it will make you cry.

But no matter what it is, it has survived, and looking back, maybe this relationship will not make you feel good, but at least it is also a relief. Don't be nostalgic for the person who has already gotten off the bus, if you are really so reluctant, then take a good look at him when he leaves, and then organize your emotions and wait for the next person to get on the bus. God will definitely leave better people behind, we just need to improve ourselves well, make ourselves better, even if that person may come far away, then we must live well, work hard, find happiness in ordinary days, find their own home, don't waste time, bury time in youth, years.

We have to be better to meet someone who is as good as us.

Zhang Ailing said: "The best love is not to disturb and not to give up.

The best love needs to go both ways, love has a response and does not give up, love has to be disturbed.