What do you think are the reasons for the high divorce rate now?

The reason may be that everyone's way of thinking has changed, becoming more and more open, and more focused on pursuing their own happiness, or it may be because their own strength has been enhanced, they will feel that they are not suitable for each other, and the other party is not worthy of themselves, or it may be because the two parties are directly under too much pressure, and quarrels will break out because of the small things in life, resulting in more and more conflicts accumulating and divorce.

I think the reason for the high divorce rate is that there have been some changes in young people's views on love and traditional values, and there are many girls who are unwilling to compromise themselves and wronged themselves.

Many people do not attach importance to marriage, there is a situation of blind date union, the society is relatively open, the economic pressure is relatively large, and the feudal mentality is not very serious, so it will lead to a high divorce rate.

The reason why the divorce rate is much higher now than before, on the one hand, is the change of people's concepts, and the other is because of the independence of women, the original women are dependent on men to survive, and now strong women in the workplace abound, so women themselves can live very well, and it is normal to file for divorce.

I think it's mainly a communication problem between the husband and wife. Regarding the issue of communication, the reasons may be too different from the three views, and the personality is not suitable.

It is because women are becoming more and more independent nowadays and never rely on men, plus boys are very arrogant now, so girls can't stand it, and they will divorce.

Because people are more casual about marriage now, people are too greedy to enjoy it, people lack a correct understanding of marriage, and now many marriages have some bad behaviors so it will lead to divorce.

I know that because many people are impulsive to get married without being prepared, and after getting married, they find that there is a gap between their married life and their imagination, so the divorce rate has also become higher.

Because many people now pay attention to their own feelings, as long as they feel a little uncomfortable in their marriage, they will choose to divorce.

Because everyone is under a lot of pressure now, and there will be a lot of conflicts, it is very easy to lead to the breakdown of marriage.

In today's society, high divorce rates have become the norm. We know that marital stability is the foundation of family happiness, and there are many reasons why two people who originally loved each other choose to divorce to end the relationship.

Miscommunication

The famous Satya Family School** repeatedly emphasizes the importance of "communication". The core idea is that inappropriate communication is the main cause of bad family relationships. Family relationships mainly include husband and wife relationships, parent-child relationships, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, etc.

Vent your emotions

There is an interesting phenomenon: after many couples have a conflict and go to war, let them recall the reasons for the quarrel, and even 60% say that they have forgotten why they quarreled. Therefore,To reduce the occurrence of these unnecessary quarrels, both couples should learn to adjust their previous relationship patterns and try to communicate with each other more calmly.

Lack of responsibility

In marriage, the lack of responsibility is also the main reason for the high divorce rate. In today's society, the atmosphere of collectivism is gradually weakening. People are paying more and more attention to their feelings and thoughts, rather than always thinking of the collective first.

The same goes for marriage. Some people naively believe that marriage can only be sustained by love. In fact, this is not the case. Marriage, as part of the commitment to love, is the guarantee of affection for two people. It also includes qualities such as responsibility, tolerance, understanding, etc.

Contractual Relationship

As the classical sociological explanation is: the essence of marriage is a contractual relationship. Individuals form families through marriage in order to minimize the cost of living and better survive in society

However, some people lack a sense of responsibility in their marriage and always think about their own preferences first and neglect their family members. Over time, this unbalanced relationship can naturally lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

For this type of person, they also need to grow further, first to grow into a mature and responsible person before they can consider entering a marriage relationship and taking on family responsibilities.

The reason for the higher and higher divorce rate is still excessive pressure, lack of communication with each other, loss of sense of contract for marriage, and low cost of divorce.

Poor communication style is the main cause of marital breakdown. In the famous Satya family** genre, the importance of "communication" is repeatedly emphasized. The core idea is that improper communication is the main cause of poor family relationships.

Family relationships mainly include husband and wife relationships, parent-child relationships, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, etc.

When there is a disagreement between husband and wife over something, one party wants to convince the other party and chooses to raise his voice and try to get the other party to think from his or her own point of view. When the other party hears this tough attitude, they will naturally feel unhappy, and will often adopt an attitude of ignoring it, refusing to communicate with the other party, and sulking themselves.

The lack of responsibility in marriage is also a major reason for the high divorce rate. In today's society, the atmosphere of collectivism is gradually declining, and people are paying more and more attention to their own feelings and thoughts, rather than always thinking about the collective first.

The same is true in marital relationships, where some people naively think that marriage can be sustained by love alone. In fact, marriage, as a part of the commitment in love, is the guarantee of the emotions of two people, and it also contains qualities such as responsibility, tolerance, and understanding.

The essence of marriage is a contractual relationship, through which individuals form a family to minimize their living costs and better survive in society. However, some people lack a sense of responsibility in marriage, and if they consider their own preferences in advance without taking into account the family, over time, this unbalanced relationship will naturally lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

For this kind of person, they need to grow further and grow themselves into a mature and responsible person before they can consider entering a marriage relationship and taking on the responsibilities of the family.

is a bad thing.

Behind this family relationship, there are issues such as the raising of children, the support of parents, and the repair of interpersonal relationships.

There are more and more divorced families, and more and more children are also growing up under broken family relationships, and there is no way to get the warmth of a complete family, and they have lost the love of one of their parents. Such children, in interpersonal communication, may have problems, and their own psychology will be affected to a greater or lesser extent. And the divorce rate is getting higher, which means that there are more and more such children.

InChildren who grow up in such an environment are more likely to choose lifestyles such as dink and non-marriage, which can easily lead to the decline of the social population and the acceleration of artificial aging

The divorce rate is high, which representsThe fact that the parties do not get the expected satisfaction in the marriage relationship affects the society's judgment on whether to marry or not

When the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, when the unmarried people are considering getting married, they will consider whether they want to get married, whether they can tolerate the shortcomings and conflicts of the other party in their married life, and whether they can ...... not divorce

The expectation of marriage is the expectation of happiness, but divorced people tell us with their facts: marriage is not happy

So the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and the consequences areFewer and fewer people are getting married, there may be more and more children with psychological abnormalities, and society is aging faster and faster, and even those who are married, will consider whether they want to have children.

To know,Many marital relationships are maintained because of the presence of children

And once both parties have the idea of divorce, especially when there are more and more divorced people around them, they will also think about whether it is necessary to have children and whether they can not have children, so as to avoid the fetters brought by children.

There is no way for people who live in society and are influenced by others not to think about such issues. And as a result, the population is getting smaller and smaller.

When this situation is formed and has an impact, it is believed that the support of many elderly people will also become a problem, and the original two people to support six people, now it may be necessary for one person to support four people......

In today's society, the probability of getting higher and higher divorce rates is increasing, first of all, because the current society is widely open-minded, and the influence of the legal system, morality, and cultural constraints on the stability of marriage and family is getting smaller and smaller. Secondly, because under the conditions of an open society, the idea of freedom of marriage has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and it has had varying degrees of influence on people of all ages in society, especially for people under the middle age, and the ideology of freedom and autonomy of marriage has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Thirdly, due to the influence of the social environment and conditions, under the influence of the idea of freedom of marriage, and under the domination of the concept of independent marriage, there are even some people who chase the opposite sex without restraint under the control of indulgent thoughts, resulting in incidents of destroying other people's families and harming their own families.

In addition, there is also a trend of comparison in society, due to the imbalance of wealth caused by the gap between the rich and the poor, due to the imbalance of social resources caused by different social status, the emergence of the social phenomenon of the rich and the eye-catching, the poor and the lowly are blind, and there will inevitably be selective errors before and after marriage, so the divorce rate has been greatly increased.

Without strong and powerful ideological constraints, without solid life experience, to put it bluntly, even if you are married, you still can't figure out whether you love each other or not, whether the other party loves me or not, and what love is. Nine out of 10 divorced because of money, and one is sick! In today's society, the capital of romance and love starts high, and the foundation for marriage and childbirth is even higher!

Early age marriages have the highest rate of divorce. After 30, it has dropped, and the divorce rate of people of the same age is high, and the divorce rate of one big and one small one is lower. In summary, love is an experience, marriage is a business, tolerance and thoughtfulness are your signatures, romance is your side dish, and the real big dish is trust!

Some people get rich first, and when they get married, they have only one partner, which restricts their freedom, and they can play casually without getting married, and they can be irresponsible. Some people are so poor that they can't afford to get married, so there are more and more of them.

Expecting too much from marriage before marriage. Some couples get along for a short time before marriage and do not understand each other comprehensively, and personality differences gradually emerge after marriage, which eventually leads to irreconcilable contradictions.

Because people nowadays are very disrespectful to marriage, they feel that marriage will limit their lives, will put a lot of pressure on their lives, restrict their freedom, and bring a lot of pressure to themselves, so it will lead to an increase in the divorce rate.

It is because such a trend has been formed in society now, and many people have grown up in an unhappy family environment, so there are problems in the marital relationship, and there are many people who are blind when they get married, and people's emotional concepts have also changed.

The economic pressure is very high, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very large, domestic violence, there are many conflicts between husband and wife, and the inability to effectively communicate with children on training and education will lead to divorce.

The reason is that women's minds have changed and they are becoming more and more independent. In the past, because of the influence of traditional concepts, many women could only endure silently even if they were subjected to domestic violence, but now the change of women's thinking is no longer enduring, and they are becoming more and more independent, feeling that men are not good to themselves, and it is better to lose money than a person to sell themselves in Xunjing, so many women will choose to divorce if they are not happy in marriage.

The main reason is that people nowadays are too impulsive, and they don't think about the consequences when they do things, so they will decide to divorce in a particularly hasty manner.

Personally, I think it's because the shortcomings of both parties after marriage are fully exposed, and there are reasons why both parties are also involved in the rough court after marriage, and if it goes on like this for a long time, many people can't hold on, and the gap between them before marriage is a bit big, so the divorce rate is gradually increasing.

I think the reason for the high divorce rate is that people nowadays are very selfish and will not tolerate and accommodate each other at all, and eventually the contradictions accumulate more and more, and end in divorce.

I think there are three reasons why the divorce rate is relatively high in the whole society as a whole:The financial pressure faced by the husband and wife is relatively large, and the relationship between the husband and wife has problems and there is no hope for the future.

Although the current divorce rate in our country is relatively high, the setting of the divorce cooling-off period is very helpful to reduce the divorce rate in our country, and the reduction of the divorce rate is beneficial to the development of the whole society. Our country is currently very concerned about the fact that the divorce rate will definitely continue to decline in the future.

Modern people are too busy with work and too much pressure, so they simply don't have the energy to communicate with each other, and people nowadays are more selfish, lacking tolerance and accommodation, and I think this is the reason for the high divorce rate.

Mainly due to the fact that people nowadays marry very blindly. The contrast after marriage is relatively large, so it is unacceptable to yourself, and it may be that you can't get along with the other party's temper, and it may also be that you are not suitable for this marriage, so it will lead to a high divorce rate.

The main reasons are these: first, if you are rich, men have money and have a home outside the home, and women don't have to rely on men if they are rich. Second, the society has progressed, the society has been tolerant, and it is not suitable to make do. Third, people are more selfish and lack a sense of responsibility.