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I think it can be solved like this:

1 I don't know if it's usually a bit machismo, but if it is, I think your girlfriend is deliberately cooperating with you, I'm afraid you'll be unhappy. Then you don't show machismo, ask her more about what you usually decide, so that after a while, she can naturally have her own ideas and take the initiative to do something.

2 You can have a good talk with her, so you can have a tacit understanding without communication? You tell her that you like two people to take the initiative, and always take the initiative alone, which makes you feel bored, and it would be nice if she understood your mind

3. You can deliberately take other things as an example, saying that if a girl takes the initiative to make the atmosphere good, and often instills such thoughts, she will slowly take the initiative.

The most important thing is communication, if you have an idea, it will improve when you communicate with her!!

It is said that the difference between women and girls is that girls are savvy and women are generous.

If you get to her first, she will be more active than you.

Then don't take the initiative Hold her back Do you know if you don't go backwards Try it.

Hahaha, what else can I do? Chilled salad!

She may be shy, and besides, what if you take the initiative.

How about I'll do it for you?

There is a limit to the patience of people who have never been able to catch up and retreat in the face of difficulties. If you are pursuing someone you like, at the beginning, Jingxing may feel that you can last for a long time. You will do your best to be good to her, no matter how much she refuses, you will not give up easily, the big deal is to be sad for a while, and then continue to work hard.

But after a long time, if she is still indifferent, or even always shows disdain or dislike for your overtures, then it may be really difficult for you to hold on any longer. After all, the cautious and empty affairs of feelings are all in the hope of getting results. You pursue her because you want to be with her, not to give yourself up.

It's the same with a woman, she pursues your blindness, she longs to be able to get a response.

1. I'm a sophomore this year, and when I first entered my freshman year, I liked a girl in the department like crazy, secretly used Jingdong to buy things for him, skipped class to study in her classroom, exercised a body of muscles for her, and tried every possible way to meet her, but she didn't respond to me from beginning to end, and once I saw her space message accidentally clicked: Come and see you, by the way, I dreamed of you, this text picture. She replied:

Sick! I was sad for a month because of this incident, and then I decided to continue to improve myself, this kind of girl is not worth chasing, and she is not worthy of me!

2. When I was in junior high school, she liked Lin Junjie very much, so I specially bought a small radio and tapes, and during recess, I deliberately released the song he knew the code, at first I thought she didn't hear it, I didn't turn my head to look at my side, I stupidly thought, she didn't hear it, and then I turned on the sound to the maximum, and I felt that when the whole class heard it (even woke up a sleeping person), she still didn't look at my side, and I silently turned off the radio after the empty space...

3. I started to like a girl in the same department in college, and spent a lot of money and energy for her, but she has always been someone else's girlfriend. Every time she broke up, she came to me to complain, but we have always been just friends, and once she came to my aunt and couldn't stand it, so I boiled brown sugar water and sent it to her, thinking about myself was so moved. After chasing her for five years, I finally chose to give her another chance:

I chose to give up, thanked myself for being so silly in those years, and wished her happiness.

4. When I was a sophomore in high school, I liked the girl in the next class, she had a boyfriend, and often bought her snacks or something, when it snowed, I ran to the lawn of the track and field field to get her a love made of snow to take a loss to her, she liked it very much, and then her boyfriend knew, I still chose to confess, I wrote her a 9999-word love letter, sent it to her, she tore it up with her backhand, and then there was no more.