Can a breakup not hurt How to break up so that it doesn t hurt your heart

Updated on psychology 2024-07-06
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    As long as it's true love, there's nothing that doesn't hurt to break up. It's just a matter of time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you think about it from another angle, it won't hurt

    If she really wants to be with you, how can she spend so much money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is not measured by money, a person has more than 3w days in his life, he feels happy, don't carry money, give up love, I'm afraid that when you are old, you will regret it for life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You have a lot of money... Oops... If she doesn't care for your money, why should you... If you don't cherish money, maybe it's just for the money to be with you, talk to her, let's talk about it...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You've got a lot of money.

    Why don't you donate to charity?

    So much money spent.

    It's impossible not to be heartbroken.

    Unless you're Bill Gates.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you still want such a girlfriend It seems that the IQ of a person in love is really zero If she loves you, how can she spend money with you like this Does she want money Or do you also promise to help her pay for it, so stupid

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    God, landlord, you've posted more than one post on this post, isn't it 20,000, as for being so uncomfortable, if you think it's not worth it, why spend it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The best thing to do is to forget it over time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Breaking up is an infinite pain, and moving forward is a must.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe she just likes your money.

    You have to know that she is not worth such a big sacrifice from you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    3 months. 90 days.

    20,000 yuan for 90 days.

    How much is it a day.

    You shouldn't have to be so expensive to buy a girlfriend

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Can't you do a quarrel is a must-see after marriage? Is a breakup must-see?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When love ends, you have to say a breakup, is there a breakup that doesn't hurt? I believe that as long as you have truly loved, heartache is inevitable when you break up, if the end of a love will not be heartache, it means that you have never loved at all, or you mistakenly think that it is love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't think about it, you play until you're tired to death every day, and if you don't have time, you won't have heartache, but there will always be free times, so it's inevitable to have a little heartache, but time can make everything dull, so take your time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many kinds of so-called breakups, and the most extravagant ones are.

    You both have the name of lovers, but you both have new partners behind you.

    In the midst of a difficult time with a new partner.

    If one party proposes to break up.

    The other party will agree.

    It's just that after agreeing.

    If you guys were good before.

    It's going to be a little bit bleak.

    But after all, there is a new partner to accompany you.

    Feelings have long since been removed.

    So there won't be heartache!

    Advice: It's better not to fall in love like this.

    Respect for yourself is also respect for the other person.

    The feeling of heartache is hard**.

    If it doesn't get to this point, don't try it!

    The human heart is made of meat.

    Together there must be a step into love relatively early.

    Falling in love is deeper.

    Therefore, there must be heartache on one side.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Some people say that "not taking the initiative to break up" will not cause pain. This means that I actually want to break up, but I don't want to say it, because saying it means that the person who changed my mind is me, and if the person who changed my mind is me, it means that I am sorry for you, and it is all my fault. So, I don't want to be a bad person, so even if I don't love you, I will never take the initiative to break up.

    People who think this way are a bit selfish, and most of them want the decision to "break up" to be said by the other party, so that they can be more relaxed in their mentality, and they can tell themselves: "Okay, now you don't want me, it's not that I don't want you, I didn't break our promise, you broke it first." ”

    It is also said that "gradual alienation" is the least sad way. The most common way is to increase the distance between time and space when two people make career decisions, for example, if you want to work in a field, I raise my hands in favor; If you want to study abroad, I will help you buy a plane ticket; If you want to work during the day, then I will work at night, so that we will have fewer and fewer opportunities to meet, less and less intersection in life, and the two will feel more and more strange, and then one day, the breakup will become a fact, and no one will feel surprised, so it will not feel pain.

    Someone else asked, "If I break up, she will kill herself, what will happen then?" "This situation is even more troublesome, maybe the man sees the woman as too useless, maybe the woman herself is too fragile, no matter what, once the breakup becomes a matter of life and death, no one dares to take this responsibility, let alone in case of social news?

    So, in such a situation, the best way is to "don't break up", it doesn't matter if you love it or not, as long as everyone is alive.

    If you don't say that breaking up won't make the other party sad, then, dragging out a relationship that you don't even like yourself is another way to hurt the other party? If estrangement is a way to break up without sadness, then, when one party waits hard and still firmly believes that love will not be blocked by time and space, how to tell the other party that your future with him is actually facing the opposite direction? Just because you are afraid that she will not be able to get out of the pain of breaking up, just because you are worried that she will lose the courage to live because of the loss of love, for these reasons, you decide not to break up for the rest of your life, but you can't help but regret in your heart, your body can't help betraying, except for what you didn't say, everything is a breakup move, what is this?

    Is there a way to break up that doesn't hurt? To be honest, no. Maybe the degree of pain can be divided into severity, maybe the wound can be controlled by the technique of breaking up, but breaking up is breaking up, breaking up is pain, some people hurt for a few days, some people hurt for several years, and some people hurt so much that they can't forget ...... for the rest of their livesSo what?

    Instead of dragging out a relationship that is neither dead nor alive, it is better to learn to let go as soon as possible, no matter how painful it is, it always has to pass, and the days still have to be lived. After all, there is no such thing, and there is the next one.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There will be a period of slump after a breakup, and this pain must be accepted and then adapted to change the stubbornness in the heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If she really loves you, she will understand the pain she has caused you, but if she has no love for you, how can she care about your feelings? Love that can't stand the toss, even if you love, you have to let go! What is happiness?

    Hide your sadness and smile at others. No one is obligated to make you happy, joy and sorrow are your own! You have to know that true love is to know how to cherish when you can love; True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love, because letting go is the ...... you have everythingPlease love well when you cherish it; When you let go, bless ...... wellNo one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is unconditionally for each other, do anything, do meaningful things!

    Even a person is not lonely. You have to say to yourself that I have to learn to give up ......

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I can understand your feelings, but after love, you must learn to be strong and face life.

    Remind yourself that you can still live a wonderful life without her, and let time heal your wounds.

    Spend more time with friends, don't close yourself off, as if the whole world knows about it, remember, be happy. Perk.

    Believe in yourself. When you're home alone, read a book (don't look at romance).

    Play computer games.

    Like you'll soon forget the pain!

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