How do you deal with the girl who rejected me before?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-06
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First of all, you have to relax from your heart, try to forget her, know that it's hard, but to maintain a good friend relationship between you, you have to work hard, for example, before class, you arrive earlier than her, when she comes, smile, and say, "Coming", I guess she will feel very relaxed when she sees you like this, and then she will naturally start talking, don't be nervous, since the girl has already taken the initiative to let you sit next to her, don't let him think that you are stingy, relax, relax, and relax It's good after a long time, come on.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I've always done that:

    Pretend not to see ---

    It's --- comfortable

    I don't mind it---

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I've encountered this situation twice. It means that the girl I used to like confessed, and it was okay to divide it again, and then it was okay again. After the second time, it was divided again. That's why I said that good horses don't eat back grass, and since they were divided, don't make peace with them again.

    Regarding the handling of the relationship, if he makes you feel embarrassed, you can say it directly, and holding it back will only make it more uncomfortable. Since he could have been brave enough to break up with you, you should also be brave enough to tell him that his current behavior is causing trouble to your mind and life. It's better not to meet.

    I think in many cases you can't treat him like a stranger or a colleague. Only by not seeing can I calm my mind and not think about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's like an ordinary classmate.,I also rejected a male classmate a few days ago.,He's just returning to an ordinary classmate.,I don't feel anything.,Although we're not together, there's no need to be so nervous.。

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hold your head high, smile and nod when your eyes meet, don't say anything, don't do anything.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's still very embarrassing, after all, you've rejected the other person before. More or less hurt the other party, the other party's emotions must be very disappointed and very sad.

    If you like each other again now. It's best to test the other person's attitude towards you first. If he still likes you now, there's still a chance to accept you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you like a girl who has rejected before, you should go back and apologize to that girl in time, and then pursue her again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If both of them are single and fall in love with a girl they rejected before, then change back now and you go back to pursue this girl again.

    Use your practical actions to prove that you like him, and then boldly confess to him, whether you succeed or not, at least you have fought for love and done it for love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that although I rejected him before, now that you like him, you can pursue him hard. That is, there is nothing wrong with liking someone, then you can go for it. As for the result, it can be left to its course.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think if you like someone, you should try to express your liking. You can't give up this relationship just because you rejected him before, since you like it, then be brave enough to pursue it, and as for the result, you can go with the flow.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can try to chase her back, you must be sincere to her, and explain to the other party the reason for rejecting her, and then you have to care more about him, communicate with her more, and slowly warm up the relationship between you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you like a girl who has rejected it before, then first you need to get her understanding. If this girl still has you in her heart, you can continue to pursue it. Otherwise, there is no need to do these useless tasks.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you like it, you will pursue it, after all, the other party once liked and pursued you, so that girl must have a good impression of you, if you pursue the other party in turn, the chance of catching up is still relatively large.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I also need to take the initiative to pursue this girl, and I also need to tell some stories between two people to this girl to listen to, and chat every day.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you look back and find that your suitor is good enough, you can confess to him that the two of you have a crush on each other. Then your relationship can be successful, and the two of you can be together for a long time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since you like it, you should go for it, even if you don't have a good result in the future, you will definitely not regret it, and you will not leave regrets for yourself, because you have already worked hard to fight for it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you go after her, since she has confessed to you before, she must also like you, so the chance of your confession success must be very high.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You don't care what happened before, but now you like it, and since you like it, you have to take the initiative. Only if you take the initiative and succeed, you will not regret it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you like a girl who has rejected before, then, under this premise, you should take the initiative and then pursue her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If she has always liked you and has never been denied by your rejection, love her well.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you have to explain why you rejected her before, and then pursue her well.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It reminds me of abusing my wife for a while, chasing my wife to the crematorium. You just try to chase her and impress her well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Take the initiative to confess to each other, you should also boldly say what you want to say to the other party, maybe the two of you will be together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think I should confess to the other person, because the relationship needs to be grasped by myself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I fell in love with Ziqian, the girl you rejected, so what about now? You have to take the initiative to find a girl, he may be angry, but these are not important, the main thing is that if you like it, you have to pursue it boldly, and you have to be good to girls, you will succeed in cheering.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In a person's experience, after striving for it but being rejected by the other party, such a situation may be encountered in the process of love and work, and it will have a great impact on oneself. ......When you encounter this kind of problem, you need to choose to work hard to persevere, so that you can get out of the difficulties, achieve your goals, and achieve ultimate success. ......Specifically, when you are rejected, you need to be confident and work hard, move forward bravely without fear of setbacks, and release your mood to relieve stress.

    1. When you encounter setbacks and are rejected, you must first insist on self-confidence and work hard.

    For a person, the first thing he needs to do when facing difficulties is to insist on self-confidence and work hard. ......In daily work and life, it is impossible for everything you have experienced to go your way, and there are many times when you will get into trouble because of rejection. At this time, you must be firm in your beliefs and insist on self-confidence, so that you can cheer yourself up and strive for ultimate success through hard work.

    2. In the face of the difficulties brought to you by rejection, you must move forward bravely and not be afraid of setbacks.

    When a person encounters difficulties, the best solution is not to be afraid of setbacks, and use their own practical actions to solve the difficulties, so that they can continue to move forward. ......Specifically, when you are rejected, you should continue to persevere, keep making new attempts, and strive for new opportunities for success, so that you can continue to move forward towards success.

    3. Being rejected can put a lot of pressure on yourself. At this time, you must learn to release stress and relax.

    When you are rejected, your mood will become very depressed and you will be under great pressure. ......Such a state can have a very negative impact on oneself and make it impossible to pull yourself together to solve the problem. ......Therefore, when you encounter a rejection situation, you should take the initiative to relax your mind, release pressure, so that you can face everything with a stable mood, and then take rational measures to solve the problem, so that you can find new opportunities and strive for ultimate success.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My thoughts are: one, you can read more books. Preferably a book related to jokes.

    Second, you can listen to it**, with your own love. Third, you can go to nearby attractions, take a walk, and have a look. Fourth, you can find a few friends, classmates, colleagues, or family members who can speak from the heart, and have a drink...

    Here's how to do it.

    1) Don't be too sad and don't do extreme acts.

    After confessing to being rejected by the other party, it is inevitable that you will be depressed and fall into a "sad" mood, but you can't be too sad and affect your normal life and work. It is advisable to self-regulate and do what you love, or talk to friends and family to restore your calmness.

    Some were rejected, wanted to die or live, and even used threats: If you don't agree to be my boyfriend, I'll jump from here.

    This kind of behavior is extreme, and it is also very selfish, thinking that if I confess, I can get the other person's heart, in fact, to confess with this kind of thought, it was wrong from the beginning, and I should understand a sentence, "Love is mutual, not unrequited love".

    Correct confession, first of all, is to be confident enough, secondly, very distracted, and finally at the right time and place, self-confidence and heart, go with the flow to express your emotions, which is easy to improve the success rate of confession.

    2) Analyze the reasons for failure and gain experience.

    Why did confession fail? This point must be analyzed, to avoid making the same mistake next time, some confessions, never reflect on this problem, wait for the next confession, and fail, and some are rejected more times, began to cast nets in a large area, selective fishing.

    I believe that only when people understand that they are wrong can they change their direction. For example, the reason why I was rejected by the other party this time is actually that my image is not good, my clothes are sloppy, my hair is oily, and the upper is dirty.

    Summary: In the confession failure, find the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine, so as to truly solve the problem and gain experience.

    3) Try a second confession.

    After your confession is rejected, will you continue to confess? Some people say, no, they have rejected me, I will confess again, so embarrassing, so faceless, let's give up and change to another confession!

    Failure is the mother of success, and confessing to a failure and choosing to quit is not confident or a sign of not loving enough. The last confession failed, maybe you didn't do it enough, maybe you were too nervous, maybe you were too sudden, and scared the other party, why not try to confess again?

    Don't feel that if you confess again, I will be very cheap, the more you hint at yourself in your heart, the more you dare not confess, only if you have tried and worked hard, you will know the result.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you are rejected by a girl you like, it may be because you do something that you don't let him appreciate or make him feel at ease, so you can ask him sideways where you don't do enough, or strive to achieve better.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Why did she reject you, and how? There are also many explanations for girls' refusals, some are still ashamed, refusal is not necessarily a real refusal, waiting for you to express it again; Some people really refuse because they really don't like it. Therefore, you need to say more details, including the mode and depth of your daily relationship, how to confess, how to refuse, etc., only with more information can you better analyze.

    So would you like to say a little more?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What is there to refuse, what girls have, what is so great, you are really interesting, this thing is still worth asking, there is time to improve your taste.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are many difficulties in life.

    Since ancient times, it has been the most uncomfortable relationship.

    Maybe I'm destined to be bumpy in the sea of love.

    So much for you and me.

    But it hurt me so much that I can't talk about it.

    Because I love you like a moth to a fire.

    Please tell me it's a mistake to fall in love with you.

    Don't let me lose my soul and get obsessed.

    Unravel my confusion.

    Put away your apathy.

    How can you bear to do this?

    Wait

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